Daniel Rupar

Daniel Rupar

Daniel Rupar Obituary

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Dan Rupar passed peacefully on Saturday, January 30, 2016. He was born on January 22, 1963 in Menomonee Falls, Wi the son of the late Louis and Janet Rupar. He graduated from Menomonee Falls North in 1981, Ripon College in 1985, and University of Wisconsin Madison Law School in 1988. Dan was a respected corporate and estate planning attorney and served as the chair of the Trust & Estates Practice Group at Ruder Ware. He was instrumental in developing the firm's Fiduciary Services business. Many of his clients became family to him, and he was very proud to be part of the Ruder legacy. An avid cyclist, hiker, mountain climber and adventurous vacationer, Dan was always looking toward that next challenge. Some of his most memorable accomplishments include cycling Boston-Montreal-Boston in 24 hours, completing the Leadville 100, climbing Mount Whitney, Grand Tetons, the Grand Traverse and hiking/climbing half dome in Yosemite under 6 hours. Mount Rainer was next. A perfect day for Dan would be an epic activity during the day, and afterwards sharing a cold IPA, great food with great friends - a little Avett Brothers playing in background. Dan's strong, beautiful spirit continues in his two daughters Daley and Shaefer, and his loving wife, Deb. He also leaves his bothers Pat, his wife, Liz and their two children Brooks and Kitt, Paul Rupar and family and the late David Rupar and many other nieces and nephews who loved Uncle Dan. Dan was committed to the Wausau community and believed in the value of the Woodson YMCA. Dan was proud to serve on the YMCA board for 20 years as treasurer, secretary, vice president and president. He was recently awarded the YMCA lifetime achievement award. In lieu of flowers, please consider a memorial to the YMCA Community Partners to provide scholarships to local families so all can have access to the YMCA. The family would like to thank the many people who have reached out and helped us through this difficult time. A special thank you to our angels on earth Anthony and Brenda Gerlach and Erik and Margaret Anderson who showed what true friendship is about. Eileen Goggins-Schultz, whose spiritual guidance and treatments led Dan to a deeper understanding of his spiritual journey. Dan would want to remind everyone to say I Love You to all those special people in your life. Funeral Mass will be held on Saturday, February 6, 2016 at 12:00 pm at St. Matthew Catholic Church, 229 South 28th Avenue, Wausau. The Rev. Matthew Marshall will officiate. Visitation will be on Friday, February 5, from 4:00 – 7:00 p.m. at Brainard Funeral Home – Wausau Chapel, 522 Adams Street, Wausau. Condolences may be given at www.brainardfuneral.com.

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January 28, 2019

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February 12, 2016

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February 8, 2016

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Guy Dutcher

January 28, 2019

Three years ago we all lost a tremendous human being and professional. Dan Rupar was my fraternal big brother, however, he became much more. Our early interactions quickly revealed an individual that was incredibly accomplished yet who was always willing to share his experiences and wisdom. I admired and respected him greatly. This appreciation deepened throughout our collegiate experiences together and as we jointly embarked upon careers within the legal profession. Intellect, perspective, integrity, humor and benevolence were characteristics that defined who he was and who he will always be. I have always attempted to emulate these characteristics will continue to do so throughout my life as I fondly reflect upon a remarkable man that has made a lasting impression upon everyone with whom he ever interacted. Judge Guy D. Dutcher

Guy Dutcher

February 12, 2016

I just learned through a mutual Ripon friend that I had lost my Big Brother. To Deb and the family: He was a man that I always admired and emulated. Much of my young adult life and career followed the path he led two years in advance. I am immensely saddened to learn of his passing. I will be riding in the YMCA benefit on March 6. Farewell Rupie. Dutch

Gina Loeffel

February 8, 2016

Deb, Daley and Shaefer,
Sending thoughts and prayers to you all during this difficult time. May it bring peace and comfort to each of you that he touched so many people. He loved each of you so very much. God bless you. - Clark, Ann & Gina Loeffel

Philip Harris

February 8, 2016

Dan was a valued colleague in the Wisconsin agricultural law community. We will miss his thoughtful caring guidance to farm families.
Phil Harris, Professor
UW-Madison/Extension

Jim and Ginger Martin

February 7, 2016

Deb Daley and Shaefer, We were saddened to hear of Dan's passing. Our sympathy and prayers to your family. Jim, Ginger, Elizabeth and Nate Martin

James Porter

February 6, 2016

I knew you and Dan back when we lived down the street from you near Blue gill and my daughters Lindsey and Taylor babysat for your daughters . i just heard of your loss and I am very sorry to hear.

Beth Dimka

February 6, 2016

Many prayers being sent your way as you deal with the loss of your husband and father. So many memories to cherish until you are reunited once more.

Mike Ziemke

February 5, 2016

Deb and girls when he talked of his girls he always smiled and he always made me feel good about things when we talked I will miss our talks and his infectious smile. I will be riding a hundo as he would say tomorrow for my good friend Dan RIP pal. My prayers are with you.

Shannon Grewe

February 5, 2016

Dan Rupar is an inspiration to so many people. His passion for life will never be lost. Our deepest sympathy, Grewe family.

Julie Bychinski

February 5, 2016

Deb, Daley and Schaefer
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sadness. We will always remember his kindness and smile.
The Bychinski family

February 4, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Matt, Josh, and Debbie Watson

Tom Cadwallader

February 4, 2016

Deb, Daley and Shaefer, I feel so fortunate to have gotten to know Dan, both personally and professionally. He was a great professional who was able to make the law understandable for those he taught and counseled. He also knew how to keep things in perspective with a wonderful sense of humor, which I really appreciated. And boy did he love his family. His eyes lit up whenever he talked about any of you. He will be missed but never forgotten!

Julie Kugler

February 4, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with your family, I was a school mate of Dan's. God Bless your family

Cindy (Sandow) Shull

February 4, 2016

My deepest sympathies on Dan's passing. I will always remember Dan bringing his meat and vegetables for the grill when "The Club" was having one of their weekend parties back in their high school days. He was a great guy with an even greater personality.

Frank Losinski

February 4, 2016

Dear Deb, Daley and Shaefer...On behalf of the Losinski Family, please accept our heartfelt condolencess upon the loss of your husband, father, love, friend...Know that he is always with you and that you shall be together longer than you are separated...With the Utmost Sincerity,
God Bless...The Losinskis

Roger Ross

February 4, 2016

I would like to express my sympathy for your loss. Knowing Dan through his fine work with Ruder Ware I became to understand what a fine man he was and developed a friendship that will be greatly missed. My heartfelt condolences.

The Rudolph's

February 3, 2016

Deb, Daley and Shaefer, we are so sorry for your loss. Dan was a wonderful man and we know that he is looking over you all from Heaven. If there is anything that we can do for you please let us know.

February 3, 2016

Deb, we are so sorry for your loss and pray for you and the girls. I got to know Dan while coaching Daley at Newman. Special girl who took after her mom and dad. Sincerely Siewert Family.

February 3, 2016

We send our deepest sympathy you and the girls and your whole family. He will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shelley and Jeff Hertz

Merriman Pledge Class of 1982

February 3, 2016

Dan was, and always was, an immovable force of nature. We all first met in 1981. His smile, laughter, strength, and joyful presence was his signature. When Dan was around you knew everything was OK. When he hugged you, you stayed hugged for a long time. You carried all of us at one time or another. Phi Kappa Pi, dear brother. Rest in Peace our Dear Friend.

Jill Hamilton

February 3, 2016

Deb I am so sorry for your loss.

Diane (Singstock) Casper

February 3, 2016

Dear Deb, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband Dan. After reading about him, I could clearly tell that he was a person who really knew how to LIVE! What an amazing person he must have been. You are lucky to have had him on your life's journey. My heart goes out to you and your daughters.

Danny Rozwadowski

February 3, 2016

Our deepest sympathies go out to the entire family. Deb, Daley, and Schaefer you are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless!
The Rozwadowski Family

Lisa Ocker

February 3, 2016

I got to know Dan briefly as he was a frequent guest at Patina Coffeehose. His kind gentle presence will be missed....my thoughts and love to his family and friends.

Elaine Coll

February 3, 2016

I am so sorry to learn that Dan has passed away. He was a student of mine and I knew him as a fine basketball player at Ripon.

I send my sympathy to his family. He was a good guy!

Linda C.

February 3, 2016

Dan was a hero when I needed fast help. I thank him for putting up with my loud little dogs. And my son. I pray he is having a great time climbing mountains or riding bikes somewhere out there. Sending out prayers to his family. He was very proud of his girls. Keep being good girls for your Dad.

Gary Guth

February 3, 2016

My sympathies to the entire family. Our parents were best friends. It was a shock to see this, I'm so sorry to here this, what a great family.

The Kennedys

February 3, 2016

Deb, Daley, Schaefer and family our thoughts and prayers go out to you. Dan's spirit and zest for life will always be an inspiration!

David Krigbaum

February 3, 2016

Dan touched so many people in the Wausau community and his grace will be greatly missed.

Theresa & Robb Shepherd

February 3, 2016

Bless you Deb, Daley and Shaefer as you celebrate Dan's life. His happy visits to Shep's were always a bright spot in our day. He made a mark on our hearts and our community and will be missed.

Rosa Chaney

February 3, 2016

Dear Deb, Daley and Shaefer, so very sorry to hear of Dan's passing. He was a great husband and father to you. My condolences and love to you!

Debra Schleinz

February 3, 2016

Deb ,Daley,and Schaefer; Michaela,Matt and myself extend our love ,prayers and sympathies durring this time.

Deacon Bryan Hilts

February 3, 2016

Eternal rest grant unto him O' Lord and let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace.

Tim Koltermann

February 3, 2016

Meg and I wish to pass along our sympathies. Dan was a great friend. Our memories of Dan are filled with laughter and fun. His emails over the past year, as he endured his journey, were filled with love and inspiration. That is exactly how we will remember him. We are better people for having the privilege to have known him. He and your family are in our prayers. Meg and Tim

February 3, 2016

So sorry to hear of your loss. Way too young. Leaving a legacy behind, not only as I see for the community, but in his wonderful children and wife. Prayers-Lori Steinke/Katrina Raskie

Susan and Andrew Schmidt

February 3, 2016

Dan was a colleague, YMCA buddy and fellow alum of Ripon College. He will be missed.

Brian Hurley

February 3, 2016

Jennifer and I are so sorry to hear of Dan's passing. Dan and Deb were special friends during our time in Stevens Point. What a great guy! God bless the Rupar family!

Chris Kalafice

February 3, 2016

Many Prayers to the entire Rupar Family.... Just recently I stopped in to help with some tv issues... I had a chance to talk with Dan and his Brother Pat... I learned their father had an electronics store back in Menomonee Falls, and that Dan and Pat had helped at many times... Many laughs were had of the stories that were told.... Deb, Daley, Shaefer and Pat you have our deepest sympathy...
The Kalafice Family

Susan Robinson

February 3, 2016

Love and prayers from a MFNHS '81 classmate.

Ann Ebben-McManus

February 2, 2016

With love and prayers.

Sonja Gasper

February 2, 2016

You and your family are in our prayers, Deb.

John Nowaczyk

February 2, 2016

So sad to hear of Dan's passing. I only knew him through the cycling community, I admired his cycling abilities and recently learned of his deep community ties. I wish I had the opportunity to know him better, and I will do what I can to honor his legacy.

Julie & Patrick McVeigh

February 2, 2016

Deb, Daley and Shaefer, We send our love and sympathy. We admired and loved Dan. We miss him.

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