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Nina Lahoud
November 21, 2025
In the pained days before "Lodes" left us for the world above, which still does not seem real (or fair) to me, I was able to reminisce with his brothers Tommy and Mark about some of the many fun-filled, endlessly exciting, and nurturing times that I shared with my beloved buddy Lodes throughout law school and thereafter, including during those unforgettable ski trips to New Hampshire where my family lived (above our ski shop) as well as during my visits with his family at their Philly home. As I told Tommy and Mark (and as my dear roommate Leslie Nixon can attest), I don't think that I would have been able to endure law school if I had not met Lodes (as well as Shotz) during my first days there, who became my daily "escape" from the seriousness of studying to guaranteed non-stop laughter, goofy ribbing, and genuinely loving friendship and support-- whether it was during my stops at Lodes' law school apartment during my daily runs; or hanging out between classes when Lodes would always tease me over my color-coded notes; or when we (joined by the Loder bros) hung out for après-ski drinks and spontaneous chatter and joking with my parents (whom he called "Lo" and "Joe") and brothers on the living room floor of our NH home; or when I had boisterous meals with Lodes' mom ("Doe") and his siblings at their house in Philly. I realized very quickly that both of us shared something very special: loving and somewhat quirky families who always generated a rowdy atmosphere of energizing and free-flowing discussion, teasing and plain good times.
Perhaps it was not coincidental that both Lodes and myself took a year off after law school graduation to study abroad (in London and Cairo respectively), and that he convinced me to skip my first week of classes at the American University in Cairo in order to take a train ride with him and his roommate to Istanbul (claiming it was only five hours), during which we got ejected during our night stop in Bulgaria for not having visas! But my parents were forgiving when they found out that I was playing hooky with Lodes whom they found so entertaining and simply adored. They were so touched that Lodes, together with Shotz and Leslie, all made a trip up to NH to share in my mom's 90th birthday celebration, and, of course, then spent more entertaining times with them at the house. While I could go on and on about how Lodes enriched my life in so many uniquely-special ways, I will end by attaching some photos which hopefully capture some of the sentiments expressed above. (Sorry for my lack of photo-cropping skills.)
While nothing will counter this feeling of sadness and loss, I will always remember the uplifting words that Lodes expressed to me in a touching email that he sent after I informed him that my dad had died: "Hi Neens---So sorry to read this and to hear about Joe´s "exit upward". He was an absolute class act, phenomenal, giving, gracious, generous man. But we are all going to get to this point in our lives whether we´re 64, 84, 94 or 14 and it´s how we live not how we die that defines us.......what he gave to you and what you gave to him is simply precious...and he had a truly amazing, fulfilling and love filled life. Who could ask for more..??" So Lodes, thanks so much for giving me all that you did and enriching my life in so many indescribable ways. And, using your barometer, you can be so proud of how you lived your life. My love always to my dear Lodes and his incredible family, Nina Lahoud xxoo


Leslie Nixon
November 1, 2025
To Dave's family: I met Tommy on at least one occasion, either in New Hampshire or at Penn, but I have not had the pleasure of meeting the rest of you (although I know Dave was proud as heck of his kids). I'm sure you've heard this from many, though, that Dave was an integral part of my law school experience. We were lucky to go to a great school and to have a great class, but Dave stood out and when I look back at my memories of those days he is in so many of them, both on and off campus. I was also lucky to be good friends and share an apartment with Nina Lahoud, and because of her friendship with Dave was able to spend some fun times in New Hampshire with him and Jerry "Shotz" Shotzbarger. Dave was a caring and loyal friend with a mischievous wit that kept us from taking life too seriously. Attached are photos at Nina's mother's 90th birthday party, and one of many gatherings hosted by our classmate Kyra McGrath in conjunction with law school reunions. His passing still does not seem real, I feel blessed to have been his friend but sad for all we have lost. I am sorry that Thanksgiving plans will prevent me from attending his memorial service, but hope the love and memories you share with his many friends and family will bring you smiles as well as tears. Fondly, Leslie Nixon
Marion and Dave Brown
October 31, 2025
David sounds like a really great guy who will be truly missed by many people in many different venues. Blessings to his family and friends.
Margaret Plotkin (Megan Tucker, GFS '72)
October 29, 2025
This is sad news indeed. Dave was a mensch, and the world is a sadder place without him in it. Rest in peace, and may his memory be a continuing blessing. Holding his family in the Light.
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Tony Jameson
October 29, 2025
As a high-school classmate of David's 2-years-older brother Mark, I remember David mainly as a 9th- and 10th-grader who was well known and admired among the older students.
One afternoon, watching a high-school baseball game, I saw him casually slug the ball out of the park, and I thought, "So that's how a talented athlete does it".
It's good to read that David continued his impressive performance, in both professional and nonprofessional domains, throughout his post-high-school decades.
Even after all this time, I feel saddened to hear about his early departure. My thoughts are with Mark and the other members of David's family.
De-Sean Fennell
October 28, 2025
To know the Loder family has been a gift and a privilege-my condolences to David's family, friends, and associates.

Juliet Altenburg
October 28, 2025
Dave was an amazing mentor and friend during my time at PTSF. I carry fond memories of 25 years together while i served on the Board and as PTSF President. He truly had a passionate heart about our trauma system and was with PTSF from its inception always giving sage advice and helping the organization weather major milestones of change. He was one of a kind and I will miss him deeply! (Attached is a caricature we presented to Dave in September 2024 at my last in-person PTSF board meeting. Big thanks to his family for providing ideas for its creation!)
Gregory R. Frailey, DO, FACOEP
October 28, 2025
A great man, leader and counselor. We have all benefitted from Dave's work.
Greg Frailey, DO
Former PTSF Board member
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