Deborah Nell (Summers) Rector

Deborah Nell (Summers) Rector obituary, Wilson, OK

Deborah Nell (Summers) Rector

Deborah (Summers) Rector Obituary

Visit the Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Wilson website to view the full obituary.

Visitation for Deborah Nell (Summers) Rector, 58, of Milo, will be held from 10:30A.M. to noon, Friday, February 20, 2026, at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson.

Deborah was born March 4, 1967, at Pampa, TX. to the late Mr. Donald Edwin Summers and Mrs. Carrol Nell (Looper) Summers. She departed this life February 12, 2026, at her home in Springer.

Raised in the Texas panhandle, Deborah's early years were shaped by the loving support of Robert and CJ Monahan, who stepped in to provide her guidance after the passing of her mother when she was very young. She achieved her high school diploma from Fairview High School in 1986, a testament to her hard work and resilience. Her educational pursuits continued as she attended trade school, specializing in finances. Deborah dedicated many years of her life to working with home health agencies, where her compassion and dedication shone brightly. She married Mr. Flint Rector, and together they made their home in Mustang for approximately three years before relocating to the Milo area, where they established their forever home. As a devoted homemaker, Deborah’s greatest pride and joy were her children and grandchildren. She exemplified selflessness in her caring nature, always putting the needs of her family first. Beyond her dedication to her family, Deborah was passionate about animal rescue, striving to make a difference in the lives of countless animals in need. Deborah was also known for her eclectic interests, most notably her impressive collection of over 500 sets of salt and pepper shakers. She found joy in history, often exploring antique and junk stores, where she could immerse herself in the stories of the past. Deborah will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her. Her legacy of love, compassion, and dedication to both her family and her passions will continue to inspire those who remember her.

Preceding her in death are her parents, Donald and Carrol Summers; grandparents, Ray and Gretta Cotter.

Survivors include her husband, Flint Robert Rector, Sr. of the home; children, Flint Robert Rector,II and wife Mayra of Lone Grove, Carolyn Fairchild and husband Seth of Yukon, Jacob Rector of Milo, Tyler Rector and wife Kyli of Lone Grove, and Trey Rector of Milo; grandchildren, Caden, Shadeleigh, Eddie, Dylan, Shelby, Luna, and Luke; sisters, Diana Hunt, Donna Woods, and Dorthy Summers; brothers, Dewayne Summers, Mike Mathes, Daniel Mathes, and JT Monahan; cousins who raised her, CJ and Robert Monahan; niece, Sabrina Garrett and her children, Branley and Braylon; numerous nephews, nieces, aunts, uncles, cousins, other family, and friends.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

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Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Wilson

1302 Seventh St, Wilson, OK 73463

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