Delores Jean Kirkdorffer

Delores Jean Kirkdorffer was born on February 11, 1930, in Elkhart, Indiana, into a three-generation household of eleven. She was the daughter of Fred and Edna Fedell. As a girl, Delores played team baseball and was very much a tomboy—a trait that stayed with her throughout her life.

During her high school years in the WWII era, she worked in retail at a local dime store and later became a telephone switchboard operator.

On January 29, 1949, she met and eloped with John Lamar Kirkdorffer, beginning a devoted marriage and family life. Together they welcomed three children: Nannette (Steven) Randolph, Scott Edward (Carol) Kirkdorffer, and Thomas Michael (John) Daily Kirkdorffer.

The family moved to Berne, Indiana, in 1960, where they lived until 1978. During this time, Delores was employed as the manager of the local DMV and later worked as a tour guide for Amishville, a popular local tourist destination. She enjoyed bowling, belonging to several leagues—sometimes on her own and often alongside her husband. Camping, playing pitch and catch, and attending her children’s school activities filled her days. Her family will forever be grateful for her dedication to raising her children and her lasting contributions to their education and future.

In 1978, Delores and John moved to Brownsville, Texas, following his transfer with CTS Inc. While there, they enjoyed time at the beach, trips across the border into Mexico, and countless visits from friends and family. They became active members of Central Christian Church, participating in many church groups. Delores served as a deacon and official greeter, forming many meaningful friendships. Her special handshake became part of her persona—a warm symbol of welcome and friendship to all.

After the loss of her husband John in 1994, Delores later moved to Cut and Shoot, Texas, in 2006, where her children and their families welcomed her with open arms. Weekly family Bible study nights became a cherished time spent together.

In her later years, Delores endured the heartbreaking loss of her son, Scott and her great-grandson, Bret Dabney. Alzheimer’s disease gradually took more from her and the family, until that long battle came to an end on January 8, 2026. She is now at peace. She is survived by two children and their spouses, her daughter-in-law, five grandchildren, ten great-grandchildren, and three great-great-grandchildren. She was deeply loved and will always be remembered and treasured for the many good times she shared with her family.

A private service will be held to honor her life. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to your favorite charity in her memory.