Diane M. Fedele

Diane M. Fedele obituary, Rochester, NY

Diane M. Fedele

Diane Fedele Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home, Inc. - Rochester on Nov. 10, 2025.

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Gates: Passed away on November 8, 2025. Diane is predeceased by her husband of 51 years, Patrick Fedele; parents, Mauro & Frances Cariello; in-laws, William & Angelina Fedele; several aunts, uncles & cousins. She is survived by her children, Debbie (Dennis) Fedele-DeCoste & Scott (Chelsea McConnell); grandchildren, Matthew Young, Jason (Nicole) DeCoste, Geoffrey DeCoste, Christian Rivas-Vargas, Adriana Fedele, Reinlynn McConnell-Fedele; great-grandchildren, Samson DeCoste, Micha, Lili & Xavier Rivas-Vargas.
Diane's family would like to extend a sincere thank you to the staff at the Aurora House and Strong Memorial Hospital 4-1200 unit for their compassionate care.
Diane's life story will be shared during visitation from 4:00-7:00pm on Thursday, November 13th at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane. Her Funeral Mass will be celebrated 10:00am on Friday, November 14th at St. Lawrence Church, 1000 North Greece Road. Interment in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Memorial donations can be made in Diane's name to the Aurora House of Western NY, 2495 S. Union St, Spencerport NY 14559.
Public Viewing:
Thursday, November 13, 2025
4:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home
1411 Vintage Lane
Rochester, NY 14626
Mass:
Friday, November 14, 2025
10:00 am - 11:00 am
St. Lawrence Church
1000 N. Greece Rd.
Rochester, NY 14626
Interment:
Friday, November 14, 2025
11:30 am - 12:00 pm
Holy Sepulchre Cemetery
2461 Lake Ave
Rochester, New York 14612

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