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Diane Penegar Furr

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Diane Penegar Furr obituary, 1957-2024, Charlotte, NC

BORN

1957

DIED

2024

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Diane Furr Obituary

Diane Penegar Furr

August 23, 1957 - December 28, 2024

Charlotte, North Carolina - Diane Penegar Furr passed away on December 28, 2024. Diane was born August 23, 1957, in Monroe, NC, the daughter of James Cameron Furr, Sr. and Margaret Lee Penegar Furr. She graduated from Meredith College and Wake Forest University School of Law. Diane clerked for bankruptcy Judge Rufus Reynolds in Greensboro, NC. She practiced law in Charleston, SC and Charlotte for over 40 years.

When growing up, Diane spent many carefree days on the farm of her grandparents, Postelle and Bright Penegar, often with her much loved cousin, Sammy Penegar. Riding ponies started her lifelong love of horses.

Also indelible on her life were her adventures with best friends, Berrie Frye and Mary Kate Belk. All born in the summer of 1957, they were sisters in fun. They plotted mischief with lots of laughter. They were fiercely devoted to each other through their lives.

In the 1990s, Diane spent a happy decade in Charleston, SC, living in and exploring the streets and alleys of the downtown peninsula with her devoted and beloved corgi, Winston.

Annual pictures of her Easter dresses show an early flair for dressing. Diane was fascinated with the art of fashion and read fashion magazines, books and websites to see what was changing and what was on trend. It was her favorite topic of discussion.

She read voraciously all of her life and belonged to two book clubs in Charlotte, whose members included some of her dearest friends. She loved volunteering at Wing Haven and the former ballet volunteer group, Corps de Ballet. She loved meeting up with the Women in Bankruptcy group to get the latest on local law practice gossip. Most special in her life were the members of her weekend morning walking group, proud of the distance they walked and eager to enjoy an after-walk coffee.

Diane was a member of the John Foster Chapter of the Daughters of the American Revolution and the Waxhaw Chapter of the Daughters of the American Colonists.

She loved movies. She loved all types of music. She loved French champagne. She loved going to new restaurants. She joined a group of friends for dinner, calling themselves "Dining with the Divas." She was a member of a social group "Women in Wine." Diane was proud of mastering her mother's pecan pie recipe and Mary Ann Belk's pound cake recipe.

Diane leaves behind a heartbroken brother who relied on her for constant and endless support. She fulfilled her role as older sister with complete devotion. She was always there to back him up. He will miss her forever.

Ms. Furr was is preceded in death by her father, James Cameron Furr, Sr.; her aunt, Frances Penegar Bottorf; her uncle, Samuel Edward Penegar, Sr., and cousin, Sammy Penegar. She is survived by her mother; and her brother, James Cameron Furr, Jr., of Charlotte. She is also survived by first cousins, Cindy Penegar, widow of Sammy Penegar, of Hampstead, NC, Jim Penegar and wife, Beth Shaw Penegar, of Charlotte, Scott Penegar and wife, Kaye Felkel Penegar, of Charleston, SC, and Charlie Furr and wife, Frances Robiscek Furr, of Charlotte.

A service celebrating Diane's life will be held at 2 p.m., on Friday, January 24, 2025, at the Myers Park Methodist Church, with a reception following.

In lieu of flowers, a gift in Diane's memory can be made to Wing Haven, 248 Ridgewood Ave, Charlotte, NC 28209 or to charities supporting bird wildlife conservation or social justice.

Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Ave., Charlotte, NC 28204; (704) 641-7606. Online condolences may be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer from Jan. 6 to Jan. 12, 2025.

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Anne S Purcell

January 15, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I am so sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of Cameron & his class while teaching at Monroe Middle School! Mom Margaret was the school secretary, & she could be counted on for any help needed.

Karen Barrett

January 9, 2025

Lovely lady, you are missed.

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January 9, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kyle Llewellyn

January 7, 2025

Gonna miss you, Diane. Here's to an eternity of long walks, good books, tasty meals and French champagne

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