Diane Suhrstedt Patterson Murray

Diane Suhrstedt Patterson Murray obituary, Charleston, SC

Diane Suhrstedt Patterson Murray

Diane Murray Obituary

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Diane Suhrstedt Patterson Murray, of Charleston, South Carolina, entered into eternal rest Monday, August 16, 2021. Her Funeral Service will be held Thursday, August 19, 2021 in St. Matthew's Lutheran Church, 405 King Street at 11:00 a.m. The family will receive friends Wednesday, August 18th, at J. Henry Stuhr Inc. Downtown Chapel, 232 Calhoun Street from 4:00 - 6:00 p.m. Diane was born February 27, 1942 in Charleston, South Carolina, daughter of the late Raymond Jasper Patterson and Carolyn Suhrstedt Patterson. She was a graduate of St. Andrew's High School and Newberry College, receiving her Master's at Converse College. While attending Newberry (1960-1964) she was May Queen, Miss Newberrian, Homecoming Queen, a cheerleader, named to Who's Who in America, and sang with The Newberry Singers. She thoroughly enjoyed class reunions. Diane, lovingly known as 'DeeDee', was a devoted mother and grandmother. She doted on her grandchildren, nieces, and nephews at all times, and encouraged them to be the best that they could be. Family gatherings were extremely important to her. While living in Spartanburg, she was an active member of St. John's Lutheran Church, where she made lifelong friends. She also devoted her time to many charitable organizations. After returning to Charleston she taught at many elementary schools, including Sanders-Clyde, Mount Zion, finishing her career at St. James-Santee. She rejoined St. Matthew's Lutheran Church. She was involved in WELCA Circle 8, Altar Guild, and was always willing to give assistance wherever needed. Diane was grateful for all the kind care and expertise delivered by her medical team and her caregivers. Diane is survived by her daughter, Courtney Smith Prickett of Mount Pleasant, SC; son, Stephen Charles Smith of Ocean Isle Beach, NC; five grandchildren: John Philip Prickett, Mary McIver Prickett, Carolyn Elizabeth Prickett, Marland Anna Smith and Sarah Suhrstedt Smith; sister, Sheila P. Niemeyer (Tony) of Sunset, SC; and brothers: Raymond J. Patterson, Jr. (Darcy) and Russell J. Patterson (Anne) both of Charleston, SC. Memorials may be made to St. Matthew's Lutheran Church, 405 King Street, Charleston, SC 29401 or Newberry College, 2100 College Street, Newberry, SC 29108.

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August 22, 2021

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August 19, 2021

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Russ and Bonnie Seabright

August 22, 2021

Rusty, Ray and family,
Our hearts go out to you at the loss of Dianne. She was such a sweet person. We know she will be so missed.

Bonnie and Russ Seabright

August 22, 2021

Courtney and family
We were so sorry to hear of your Mom's death. She was such a beautiful, friendly person. I know she will be greatly missed.
With Much Love

Jill Ackerman Settle

August 19, 2021

May God bless you and hold you all close. Our deepest sympathy to your family.

Carl Harper, Rhonda, Jenny & David

August 19, 2021

Courtney and Stephen, we were your neighbors when you were growing up in Spartanburg. We were good friends with your parents and enjoyed watching you grow up.
Our deepest sympathy to you and your families. It is very hard to lose a parent. Your are in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Perrin Kicklighter

August 19, 2021

I remember Diane from our days in high school. Condolences to her family. She was truly a gift to all those whose lives she touched.

Kathryn Fritz

August 18, 2021

I knew Diane via St. Mathews, Church Circle 8, and professionally as an educator. She will be missed, she always dressed her best, and added to the community.

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