Diane Redner

Diane Redner obituary, Sussex, NJ

Diane Redner

Diane Redner Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Pinkel Funeral Home on Nov. 25, 2023.
Vernon- Diane Redner, age 72, also known by many as "BB," passed away on Thursday, November 23, 2023 at her daughter's residence after a lengthy illness. Born in Paterson to the late John and Alice (Helms) Hornyak, Diane grew up in Ogdensburg and moved to Green Township in 1982, where she lived before moving to the Lake Wallkill section of Vernon Township in 1998. Diane was a registered nurse's aide and had been employed by Andover Subacute and Rehabilitation Center. She also was a residential assistant for SCARC and was a bus driver for Village Bus Company. She enjoyed working and helping people and was known for her huge heart. She was truly selfless and giving to everyone she came in contact with during her life. Growing up, Diane was a member of the First Presbyterian Church of Ogdensburg and then the First Presbyterian Church of Franklin. After moving to Green Township, Diane was an active member of the Tranquility United Methodist Church, where she taught Sunday School and was a Youth Group leader. When she moved to Vernon, she became a member of the Sussex United Methodist Church, a member of the Ladies of the Lake at Lake Wallkill, and actively participated in Compassionate Friends Group. Family was everything to her and she would attend sports activities for all the kids. Besides her parents, Diane was predeceased by her son, Brent Borum; her sister-in-law, Diane (Brown) Hornyak; and her nephews, Thomas Laner and Billy Storms, Jr.. She is survived by her son, John Borum of Vernon; her daughter, Jessie Lu Goytil and her husband Stephen of Stillwater; her brothers, John Hornyak of Vernon and Earl Hornyak and his wife Tracy of Ogdensburg; her sisters, Gail Pollard and her husband Butch of Sussex and Carol Laner and her husband Tom of Wantage; her two grandchildren, Kaylee and Tanner; eight nieces and nephews; ten great nieces and nephews; two great great nieces and nephews; many cousins; and was a bonus mom and grandma to so many others. Funeral services will be held at 10 a.m. on Friday, December 1, 2023 at the Pinkel Funeral Home, 31 Bank Street (Route 23), Sussex. Interment will immediately follow at North Hardyston Cemetery. Friends may pay their respects to the family on Thursday from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, please consider a memorial donation in Diane's memory to Karen Ann Quinlan Center of Hope Hospice, 99 Sparta Avenue, Newton, NJ 07860. Online condolences may be offered to the family on www.pinkelfuneralhome.com

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November 3, 2025

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December 16, 2023

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December 15, 2023

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Chris Parisi

November 3, 2025

"Those we love don´t go away. They walk beside us every day, unseen, unheard, but always near, still loved, still missed, and very dear." - Anonymous
We love you Diane and you are always in our hearts.

Debbie

December 16, 2023

My Hornyak Cousins and Uncle John

Debbie Helms Schwerdt

December 15, 2023

My Cousin Diane and I grew up together we spent many times together, we were very close. Diane hosted all of Our Family Reunions at her house. She was very soft spoken, one of the most kind, loving person you would ever meet. I'm so sorry I didn't make it to Diane's funeral as I was very sick. I hope everyone in the family understands I will miss Diane so very much I send my love to Jessie and her family God Speed to heal all your hearts

Chris Parisi

November 28, 2023

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Chris Parisi

November 28, 2023

Diane is one of the most exceptional individuals i have ever met and have had the privilege to call a friend. There are many kind people in this World, but she was one of the kindest, most gentle souls i have ever met. Her beautiful laugh, warm smile, and wonderful sense of humor drew in everyone. Her dedication to family serves as an example to all. Countless numbers of people called her a friend because she never met a stranger and was always willing to lend a helping hand, share a kind word or wrap you up in her loving arms with one of those patented HUGS of hers. I know i am not alone when i say I will miss Diane greatly. I feel fortunate to have been introduced to her 41 yrs ago, way back in 5th grade, thru my friendships with her sons Brent and John Borum. Over the years, Diane always kept in touch and we enjoyed many visits and conversations. She and Jessie even traveled to NC to attend my wedding, then to a baby shower ahead of our sons birth. Their presence meant so much to my wife and I and serves as a constant reminder to me of the lengths she would go to for her friends. Diane´s dedication to faith, her inner strength and courage were inspirational to many. She had the ability to make everyone in her life feel special, feel complete and feel loved. I will miss you greatly Diane and there is no doubt in my mind that you will continue to watch over all of your family and friends from Heaven. You will live on in our hearts and memories and we pray that one day we will meet again!

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