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Memorial services for Donna Kay Henderson, age 69, of Healdton, are scheduled for Saturday, January 10, 2026, at 11:00 A.M. at the Fox Baptist Church, with Rev. Carl Taylor officiating. Arrangements are entrusted to Alexander Gray Funeral Home in Healdton.
Donna was born on March 23, 1956, in Vandalia, Illinois, to the late William James "Bill" Kinsey and Dorothy Wahneta (Hardison) Boyer. She peacefully passed away on January 3, 2026, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.
Donna was raised in Healdton, where she attended school in Dundee and Healdton, ultimately graduating from Fox High School in 1974. In 1973, she married David Henderson in Gainesville, Texas. Their union was blessed with two sons, Kevin and Ryan, and they established their home in Healdton. Donna had a successful career at Ringling State Bank before joining the First National Bank of Ardmore, from which she retired in 2021. She enjoyed fishing and family gatherings at the lake; she cherished every moment spent with her loved ones. Donna was a devoted member of the Fox Baptist Church.
She is preceded in death by her parents and a granddaughter, Molly Miller.
Donna is survived by her husband, David, of the home; her sons, Kevin Henderson and wife Melissa of Wilson and Ryan Henderson and wife Melissa of Edmond; her sisters, Sue Johnson and husband Rick of Shawnee; her brothers, Billy Joe Kinsey and wife Debbie of Pink, Paul Kinsey and wife Cheryl of Healdton, and Terry Kinsey of Healdton; grandchildren, Devin, Garrett, Austin, Adrienne, Madison, and Mason; her parents-in-law, Don and Betty Henderson; her sister-in-law, Donna McKinney and husband Randy; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, and a host of family and friends.
Memories of Donna may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.
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