Mary Lou Kiley

Mary Lou Kiley obituary

Mary Lou Kiley

Mary Kiley Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Hohlt & File Funeral Home, Ltd. - Vandalia from Nov. 24 to Dec. 2, 2025.
Mary Lou Kiley, a passionate educator and devoted mentor whose life was defined by her commitment to helping young adults thrive, passed away peacefully on November 21, 2025, at the age of 91. Born in Boston, MA, on August 24, 1934, Mary Lou was the daughter of the late Albert J. Kiley and Grace E. Kiley (Judge) of Belmont, MA.

Mary Lou's deep belief in the potential of her students drove a distinguished career in educational administration. After graduating from the Boston Academy of Notre Dame and Framingham State University, she earned her Master of Education (Ed.M.) from Tufts University. Her career was focused on guiding and empowering the next generation. She served with distinction as the Dean of Students at Westbrook College (now University of New England) and Mary Baldwin University in Staunton, VA.

Following her retirement from college administration, Mary Lou continued her commitment to youth development as the Director of Volunteer Services and Business Partnerships for the South Portland, ME school system. Throughout her professional life, she was a respected and beloved mentor to countless individuals.

Mary Lou cared deeply for her extended family, finding immense joy in her role as a beloved aunt and godmother. She cherished her nieces and nephews and took special delight in the new generation of great-nieces and nephews. Her Godchild, Grace Whited of South Portland, ME, brought profound happiness into her life.

She is survived by her loving sister, Elizabeth G. Kiley of Kennebunk, ME, and her children: Michael (Meghan) Layton of Dover, NH, Scott Layton of Rockport, ME and Patricia Murray of Alpharetta, GA.

Mary Lou was predeceased by her parents and her brother, Myles Kiley, and his wife, Mary Jean, of Plymouth, MA, and her nephew's wife, Katherine Killoran.

Visitation will be held from 9:00 – 10:00AM followed by a Funeral Mass at 10:00AM on Saturday, November 29, 2025 at St. Martin Church, Somersworth, NH.

Interment in Belmont, MA will be private.

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