Doris Lessing

1919 - 2013

Doris Lessing

1919 - 2013

BORN

1919

DIED

2013

Doris Lessing Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 17, 2013.
LONDON (AP) — Doris Lessing, the Nobel prize-winning, free-thinking, world-traveling and often-polarizing author of "The Golden Notebook" and dozens of other novels that reflected her own improbable journey across the former British empire, died Sunday. She was 94.

Her publisher, HarperCollins, said the author of more than 55 works of fiction, opera, nonfiction and poetry, died peacefully early Sunday. Her family requested privacy, and the exact cause of death was not immediately clear.

Lessing explored topics ranging from colonial Africa to dystopian Britain, from the mystery of being female to the unknown worlds of science fiction.

She won the Nobel Literature prize in 2007. The Swedish Academy praised Lessing for her "skepticism, fire and visionary power." When informed about winning the prize outside her London home she responded: "Oh Christ! ... I couldn't care less."

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That was typical of the irascible, independent Lessing, who never saved her fire for the page. The targets of her vocal ire in recent years included former President George W. Bush — "a world calamity" — and modern women — "smug, self-righteous." She also raised hackles by deeming the 9/11 terrorist attacks on the United States "not that terrible."

She remains best known for "The Golden Notebook," in which heroine Anna Wulf uses four notebooks to bring together the separate parts of her disintegrating life. The novel covers a range of previously unmentionable female conditions — menstruation, orgasms and frigidity — and made Lessing an icon for women's liberation. But it became so widely talked about and dissected that she later referred to it as a "failure" and "an albatross."

Published in Britain in 1962, the book did not make it to France or Germany for 14 years because it was considered too inflammatory. When it was republished in China in 1993, 80,000 copies sold out in two days.

"It took realism apart from the inside," said Lorna Sage, an academic who knew Lessing since the 1970s. "Lessing threw over the conventions she grew up in to stage a kind of breakdown — to celebrate disintegration as the representative experience of a generation — when what you should have been doing is getting the act together."

For some readers and critics, however, the book was an unwelcome exposure of female failings.

The criticism of Lessing's work continued throughout her life. Although she continued to publish at least every other year, she received little attention for her later works and was often criticized as didactic and impenetrable.

"This is pure political correctness," American literary critic Harold Bloom said in 2007 after Lessing won the Nobel Prize. "Although Ms. Lessing at the beginning of her writing career had a few admirable qualities, I find her work for the past 15 years quite unreadable ... fourth-rate science fiction."

While Lessing defended her turn to science fiction as a way to explore "social fiction," she, too, was dismissive of the Nobel honor. After emerging from a London black cab, groceries in hand, she was asked repeatedly whether she was excited about the award.

"I can't say I'm overwhelmed with surprise," Lessing said. "I'm 88 years old and they can't give the Nobel to someone who's dead, so I think they were probably thinking they'd probably better give it to me now before I've popped off."

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As the international media surrounded her in her garden, she brightened when a reporter asked whether the Nobel would generate interest in her work.

"I'm very pleased if I get some new readers," she said. "Yes, that's very nice, I hadn't thought of that."

Born Doris May Tayler on Oct. 22, 1919, in Persia (now Iran) where her father was a bank manager, Lessing moved to Southern Rhodesia (now Zimbabwe) aged 5 and lived there until she was 29.

Strong-willed from the start, she read works by Charles Dickens and Rudyard Kipling by age 10 and lived by the motto of "I will not." Educated at a Roman Catholic girls school in Salisbury (now Harare), she left before finishing high school.

At 19, she married her first husband, Frank Wisdom, with whom she had a son and a daughter. She abandoned that family in her early 20s and became drawn into the Left Book Club, a group of literary communists and socialists headed by Gottfried Lessing, the man who would become her second husband and father her third child.

But Lessing became disillusioned with the communist movement and in 1949, aged 30, left her second husband to move to Britain. Along with her young son, Peter, she packed the manuscript of her first novel, "The Grass is Singing." The novel, which used the story of a woman trapped in a loveless marriage to portray poverty and racism in Southern Rhodesia, was published in 1950 to great success in Europe and the United States.

Lessing then embarked on the first of five deeply autobiographical novels — from "Martha Quest" to "The Four-Gated City" — works that became her "Children of Violence" series.

Her nonfiction work ranged from "Going Home" in 1957 about her return to Southern Rhodesia to a book about her pets, "Particularly Cats," in 1967.

In the 1950s, Lessing became an honorary member of writers' group known as the Angry Young Men who were seen as injecting a radical new energy into British culture. Her home in London became a center not only for novelists, playwrights and critics but also for drifters and loners.

Lessing herself always denied being a feminist and said she was not conscious of writing anything particularly inflammatory when she produced "The Golden Notebook."

"I had been listening to women talk about women's issues and about men. Suddenly when I wrote down these private conversations, people were astounded. It was as though what women said didn't exist until it was written," she said.

Lessing's early novels decried the dispossession of black Africans by white colonials and criticized South Africa's apartheid system, prompting the governments of Southern Rhodesia and South Africa to bar her in 1956. Later governments overturned that order. In June 1995, the same year that she received an honorary degree from Harvard University, she returned to South Africa to see her daughter and grandchildren.

In Britain, Lessing won the Somerset Maugham Award in 1954 and was made a Companion of Honor in 1999. That honor came after she turned down the chance to become a Dame of the British Empire — on the grounds that there was no such thing as the British Empire at the time.

Lessing often presented women — herself included — as vain and territorial and insisted in the introduction for a 1993 reissue that "The Golden Notebook" was not a "trumpet for women's liberation."

"I think a lot of romanticizing has gone on with the women's movement," she told The Associated Press in a 2006 interview. "Whatever type of behavior women are coming up with, it's claimed as a victory for feminism — doesn't matter how bad it is. We don't seem go in very much for self-criticism."

In 2001, she told the Edinburgh book festival that modern men were "cowed" by women.

"They can't fight back," she said. "And it's time they did."

She is survived by her daughter Jean and granddaughters Anna and Susannah.

DANICA KIRKA, Associated Press


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Barbara S. Brucker

November 26, 2013

There are people in life who do lead our paths as mind-fathers or mind-mothers, modestly, just by their being. A mother of clarity & warmth, of purification & courage, of wisdom & individuation, of speaking & knowing, that is what you truly are for me, Mrs. Lessing. I'm profoundly indebted to you and yes, I will go on entrusting to your guidance.

November 20, 2013

Please accept my deepest condolences to the Lessing family. May your family fiind joy and hope in drawing close to God. James 4:8

Betty Fowler

November 20, 2013

To the family of Doris Lessing and my sincere condolences to you all. Psalms.90:10 shows how Doris lived a long life of special mightiness from God. Cherish the memories that you all have of your loved one close in your hearts and minds and let the comfort of God be with you all.

November 20, 2013

I would like to offer my deepest condolences, I'm so sorry for your loss, but please find comfort in knowing sickness, pain and death will one day be no more.

Mary Stone

November 19, 2013

Doris Lessing has always been and no doubt always will be my favorite novelist. For her depth, courage, honesty, and brilliance. Mary Stone, USA

November 19, 2013

My sincere condolences to the family during this sorrow moment. John 5:28.

R R

November 19, 2013

I am sorry to hear of your loss.
Soon under God's coming Kingdom he will be an complete end to death, tears, and pain.

Ronnie Johnson

November 19, 2013

my deepest sympathy your family

Kisha Madera

November 19, 2013

My deepest sympathies to the Lessing family. May the love of God comfort you during this difficult. 1 John 4:8

November 19, 2013

Deepest Sympathy! Faye Scott Tackett, USA

November 18, 2013

May the God of comfort be with your family in these difficult times

November 18, 2013

The loss of a loved one can be so hard please have comfort in God 's love. 1 Cor. 15:26.

November 18, 2013

May the God of all comfort be with family and loved ones.

November 18, 2013

Please accept my sincere sympathy for your loss. May the fond memories and the kind words of loving friends help heal your broken hearts. I pray that God will give each of you the comfort needed to see brighter days ahead.
(Ps 34:17, 18)

Dwayne Bickham

November 18, 2013

in God's care rest in peace

Missy

November 18, 2013

My deepest condolences are with you at this time of need. Know that god
feels your pain as well. Go to him in prayer and he will comfort you very
much.

S.Griggs

November 18, 2013

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

A

November 18, 2013

To the Lessing family, I am very sorry for your loss. May you all find comfort by drawing close to God during this difficult time, and always. James 4:8

November 18, 2013

To the family of Doris Lessing may God give you comfort and peace by means of prayer - Philippians 4:6,7. My deepest sympathy

Brenda

November 18, 2013

I am not personally familiar with Ms. Lessing's work, but her story portrays her as a great author who appeared long before her time. I agree with her belief that women have problems being honest with themselves and seem to be prone to settling for less than what we can truly become. I haven't read "The Golden Notebook," but I plan to check it out of the library today. I would love to know firsthand what was penned and caused such a huge uproar in various communities. So sorry for your loss of such an inspirational woman. "May the Lord of peace himself give you peace constantly in every way."--2 Thessalonians 3:16. Do know that my thoughts are with Ms. Lessing's daughter and granddaughter during this difficult time.

Alexander's

November 17, 2013

My condolences to the family and may you look to the future with confidence that soon death, sorrow and pain will be no more but everlasting life in a peaceful new world will prevail.

Linder Herbert

November 17, 2013

My wife and I are very sorry about your loss. Our condolences go out to you, your family and friends. We have found much comfort at Psalms 55:22. It show us that Our Heavenly Father cares for us and can help us with our grief and loneliness. Please rea

BARBARA

November 17, 2013

TO THE FAMILY, FRIENDS AND FANS, MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES. MAY YOU FIND COMFORT FROM PSALM 94:19 PLEASE READ

Dee

November 17, 2013

My condolences to Doris' family. Please find comfort in prayer. Psalms 65:2

K M

November 17, 2013

Doris Lessing was a very favorite writer of my young adulthood. I read The Golden Notebook in a feminist study group in the late 70s, and it had a huge impact on me. Rest in Peace, Doris.

Lynn Isenberg

November 17, 2013

So sorry for your personal loss and for the world's loss of a tremendous influential writer. Below is an inspirational quote of hers from "The Golden Notebook." To a great thinker--who lived a first rate life!

“What's terrible is to pretend that second-rate is first-rate. To pretend that you don't need love when you do; or you like your work when you know quite well you're capable of better.”
? Doris Lessing, The Golden Notebook

Linda Sisan

November 17, 2013

I was saddened upon hearing and reading in the news, the loss of your beloved family member. According to Psalms 90:10 she had a long life. Her many accomplishments , will leave family and ones throughout the world with many memories . May " the God of all comfort " be with you.

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