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Douglas Meshirer Obituary

Our beloved husband, step-father, grandfather, and friend, Douglas Kit Meshirer, 60, of Midland, Texas, passed away peacefully in his home on March 29, 2015. His racing family knew him as "Showtime," his grandchildren called him "Grandpa Dougo," his wife knew him as "Sweetheart," and Chloe, his border collie, knew him as "Daddy." Doug was born in Queens, New York on November 2, 1954. He made his way to Texas as a youngster with his parents, graduating in 1973 from Robert E. Lee High School in Midland, Texas. He married Shawnda Lovell on January 11, 1993. Doug was a retired airline captain from American Eagle Airlines. His other passions included drag racing, motorcycles, scuba diving, fishing, a love for animals and wildlife, troubleshooting any kind of problem, and spending time with his family. There was never a job Doug would not tackle or a challenge he would not accept. Doug thrived on competition and he loved to make others smile. He will truly be missed by all of us. Doug is preceded in death by his mother, Joan May Hartley Meshirer; his father, David Donald Meshirer; brother, Donald William Meshirer; and step-son, Eric Shawn Ruple. Doug is survived by his loving wife, Shawnda Lovell Meshirer; step-daughter, Elisha Ruple Tredaway and fiance' Thomas Carney; granddaughters, Madelyne Marie Porter and Cheyenne Elizabeth Tredaway; and grandson, Thomas James Paul Carney, all of Midland Texas; mother-in-Law, Carolyn Lovell Head of May, Texas; sisters-in-law, La Ronda Carol Lovell and Avery Ann Steel of Arlington, Texas; brother-in-law Kevin Edward Lovell, wife, Anna, daughter Alexis Lovell, son Jeremy Shane Lovell, wife, Kelci, and daughter, Ashlyn, of May, Texas. To honor Doug's wishes, a family visitation will be held Saturday, April 4, 2015, from 1:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. at 4604 Green Tree Blvd., Midland, Texas. In lieu of plants and flowers, the family requests donations be made to Drag Racing Association of Women at http://drawfasthelp.org/. The family wishes to thank everyone for their condolences during this difficult time.

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Published by Midland Reporter-Telegram on Apr. 1, 2015.

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Scott Dickson

June 6, 2025

Remembering the life to Doug, an aspiring pilot in his early career years 1988-90. Hired with American Eagle , he came and stayed with me during training, studied late into the night and prepared for daily quizzes, passing them through diligent preparation. He did theater impersonations of Jack Nicholson, Jimmy Stuart, and Walter Brennen

David Peoples

February 29, 2016

Knew " Rainbow Chaser" in early eighties... We lost a good one. Rest in peace buddie

David Perkins

September 12, 2015

Sad to hear this. I knew Doug in the early 1980s, thoroughly enjoyed his companionship for a time before I moved away. Doug was generous and upbeat and big hearted. An unforgettable man. Prayers for those who loved him.

April 19, 2015

He had a long prosperous life surrounded by caring, loving relatives.
David D. Meshirer Jr.

April 6, 2015

So sorry Shawnda.

Don & Lynda Lawrence

April 5, 2015

Doug was a special friend of ours and we will miss him. Prayers for Shawnda and the Family.

Bruce Willliams

April 5, 2015

Doug was one of a kind. I met him when I was a rookie policeman at " Dimensions" and always enjoyed seeing Doug at AirPark. God Bless your family during this difficult time. We will be with Doug a lot longer than without him.

Nancy Eberle

April 4, 2015

Shawnda I was so so sorry to hear this! My prayers are with you and I'm here if you need anything at all.

Steve Price

April 2, 2015

I worked with Doug in the 1980's. He told me that he wanted to experience all that life had to offer, and he surely tried.

Some of my memories include Doug bringing his guitar to oilfield locations and serenading us, catching rattle snakes with his bare hands, and landing a role as an extra in the movie 'Hangar 18'.

Doug recorded a record and tried to promote it by getting it installed in the jukebox at a local truck stop. We would stop there to eat while heading out to a job and he would play his record over & over.

Flying, taxidermy, customizing motorcycles, drag racing; what a talented fellow!

I still have a copy of his record. The 'B' side song entitled "It's Over" somehow seems appropriate.

Doug will be missed, but he will certainly be remembered.

Bonnie Browning

April 2, 2015

Shawnda its been a long time since I've seen both of you. I am so sorry for your loss. I always liked Doug. I'll be praying for you.

John and Lagaytha Lewallen

April 1, 2015

We are so sorry for your loss and you will be in our prayers.

Ester Jones

April 1, 2015

So sorry for your loss Shawnda, my prayers are with you and your family.

Cathy & Dale Dawson

April 1, 2015

So sorry for your loss. This was a total shock to us.

April 1, 2015

ill miss my friend showtime.godspeed brother,darrell

Lewis "Bud" Johnson

April 1, 2015

Shawnda,
So sorry to learn of Doug's passing. My God bless you and your family.

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