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ALAN GOLDSTEIN Obituary

GOLDSTEIN--Dr. Alan. February 24, 2023. Survived by his wife Maralyn Dolan, daughter Elyse Thomas, sister and brother-in-law Roslyn and Leonard Rosner, grandchildren Harrison and Olivia Thomas. Alan was a revered Upper West Side dentist for over 40 years. While serving as an Army dentist in the Vietnam War, Alan was the first officer protesting the war to give his name for attribution. He continued his activism following his military service.

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 28, 2023.

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Kathy Ann Parris

August 11, 2025

I worked for Alan as he like us to call him I was one of his Dental hygienist. I am late in sending my sympathy but Alan would still have appreciated this he was a wonderful funny and great boss I know he is missed . He made it a great place to work .

Victoria Rimasse

June 19, 2023

Alan was a wonderful man with a heart of gold and a brilliant mind. I will never forget him.

Reginald G Moncrieff

April 5, 2023

Alan and I had our dental practices across the hall from each other for nearly 40 years. We saw each other every day we worked and he always popped his head in the door to say goodnight. He was a very supportive neighbour with a delightful sense of humour. And I consider him an essential mentor in my career.
Reg Moncrieff

Mary Fiedorek

March 13, 2023

Dr Goldstein was my dentist for many years. He was a great dentist and a lovely man. I am sorry he is gone.

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Alan Winner

March 5, 2023

Dear Maralyn,
Although our lives took different paths, he is missed. I fondly remember our many conversations as we planned or travelled to dental meetings. Marialena and I send you our warmest wishes and wish you comfort in this difficult time.
Alan Winner

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Sheila Jill Siderman

February 28, 2023

I think I waent to CCNY with Alan. If this is the same person, I have many kind memories. We oftwn had 8:00 science classes. Alan had a car and would pick me up at 6:30 so I didn't have to take the train. I send my condolences to his family.

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