Dylan Butler

Dylan Butler obituary, Urbandale, IA

Dylan Butler

Dylan Butler Obituary

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Dylan Jesse Butler, 17, of Perry, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday January 4th, 2024. Dylan was born in Des Moines, Iowa to Jack and Erin (Munson) Butler on October 11th, 2006. The first 10 years of his life, they lived on an acreage outside of Jamaica. There he loved to be outside. He especially loved fishing and trips to the sandbar on their Yamaha Rhino. He loved to play in the snow and was best friends with our neighbor dogs, Roxy and Fire. Then his little sister Chloe was born in 2011. (He never quite got over the loss of his only child status). The family moved into Perry where Dylan enjoyed the above ground pool on the patio and running around with the neighborhood kids. In 2022, the family built a new home surrounded by timber, where Dylan loved to explore with his sister and mushroom hunt with his dad. Dylan was a music lover and listened to several genres of music. He got his love for all things 80's from his mom. He took piano lessons for a few years and later learned how to play the guitar. He had a great sense of humor and loved watching Trailer Park Boys. He loved going for country drives and listening to music. He was kind of a picky eater and loved his mac n cheese, pizza and chicken wings, all drenched in buffalo sauce. He washed it down with either sweet tea or ginger beer. He recently discovered his love of tacos from the taco truck with a grilled jalapeno (like his dad, he loved all things hot and spicy). Dylan was a kindhearted soul and had a compassionate and caring heart and was accepting of everyone. He liked all things vintage and nostalgic.
Waiting for him in heaven was his Grandpa Joe Butler, and Kenny (the cat). Also, several great grandparents.
Dylan is survived by his parents, Jack and Erin and his younger sister Chloe Butler, all of Perry; grandmothers Barb Butler of Perry and Pam Munson of Madrid; grandfather Ray Munson of Woodward; Aunts Kari (Tony) Vess of Norman, OK, Tami Lamon of Oklahoma City OK, Julie (Ryan) Larue of Ankeny and Uncle Eric Munson also of Ankeny; Cousins Breana, Gina, Tasha, Melissa, Cody, Faith, Lochlan, Addi and Owen; Cats Penny, Milo and Ruby.
In lieu of flowers memorials can be made to the Racoon Valley Pet Rescue.
Private family services will be held.

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March 30, 2024

Andre posted to the memorial.

January 14, 2024

Jack E Barringer posted to the memorial.

January 14, 2024

Anita Gribble posted to the memorial.

Andre

March 30, 2024

Ill always remember when he used to show me his forest walks on discord. He always loved those. I also remember our voice and face rev to eachother. Despite me being the same age as his sister. Me and him really did get along well and ill always miss you dylan ill never forget about you and my life feels empty without you being here. -your online friend andre

Jack E Barringer

January 14, 2024

My heart is so sad for your family. I have been thinking about you with a heavy heart. I am praying for strength for you and the rest of the entire family at this difficult time. Words may fail us, but the Lord's grace never does.

Anita Gribble

January 14, 2024

I want to express my deepest heartfelt condolences in this very difficult time. I can't imagine the loss you are experiencing. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers! God Bless.

Shirley L Burneff

January 14, 2024

Am truly sorry for the loss of Your beloved son, in the wake of this horrible tragedy. You must be so devastated. I hope somehow you can be consoled, knowing he is in a better place, in the midst of our Creator, who is forgiving and loves us all.

Jennifer Seals

January 14, 2024

I did not know your son or your family. I just wanted to send my heartfelt condolences to your family. This was a tragic event, and in the aftermath it can be forgotten that your family is suffering too. I was very moved by the press release, I thought that it had reminded people that your family was suffering too. I am so sorry for the loss of your son. And then to have your grief played out to publicly. I am a mother of two grown adult daughters, both married and two grandchildren. I just felt that I wanted to reach out, and give my condolences to your family.

Rhonda Kerr

January 13, 2024

Just wanted to say my heart goes out to you and your family at this difficult time and know that in time it will get better for all and hopefully time will heal keeping you in my thoughts and prayers

Ed and Sandy Shekleton

January 13, 2024

The love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Angela Cantrell

January 11, 2024

I am so sorry for your loss, I can“t even imagine your pain of loosing your son and all that has gone with it. Prayers for you all.

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