Eloise Canepa Gilliam

Eloise Canepa Gilliam

Eloise Canepa Gilliam Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 7, 2025.
Eloise "Meme" Canepa Gilliam, life partner of 51 years to Michael Gilliam, passed away on November 4th at the age of 86, in her home surrounded by family.

Lovingly referred to as "Meme" by many, she was strong-willed, independent, and full of pluck. She was brutally honest and riotously funny, always ready with a quick quip. A fantastic baker, she had a deep love for gardening and surrounded herself with color. Her protective spirit extended to the countless creatures that were lucky enough to meander into her garden.

She is survived by her life partner, daughter, two grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren.

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