Ethel E. Deka

Ethel E. Deka obituary, South Bend, IN

Ethel E. Deka

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Feb

19

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

St. Matthew Cathedral, Miami St, South Bend

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Feb

19

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

St. Matthew Cathedral, Miami St, South Bend

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Ethel Deka Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Kaniewski Funeral Home - South Bend on Feb. 17, 2026.
With peaceful hearts and an abundance of love, we lay to rest a woman that lived the way she died……. with grace, dignity and strength. A woman that taught us not only morals and values, but also showed us what family, sacri ce and true love means.

Her passing was bittersweet for those that have been left behind. We will miss her each and every day, but knowing that she is now reunited with her husband, Casimir; her daughter, Diane; and all of her family and friends that have gone before her, eases our sorrow. We cry for our loss, but smile for her blessings.

Left to cherish her memory are her 4 remaining children: Judy Birkner, Mike Deka (Jan), Nanci Jozwiak (Joe) and Greg Deka.

Along with her 7 remaining grandchildren, 10 great grandchildren, and 4 great-great grandchildren.

A visitation will be held for Ethel on Thursday, February 19, 2026 at St. Matthews Cathedral, 1701 Miami St, South Bend, IN from 10:00 am until 11:00 am. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00 am in the church. Burial will follow in St. Joseph Valley Memorial Park. Memorial contributions may be made in Ethel's honor to Southern Care Hospice, 1626 E. Day Rd, Mishawaka, IN 46545

Rest in peace Ethel. You have done your job well and deserve your rest.

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Upcoming Events

Feb

19

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

St. Matthew Cathedral, Miami St, South Bend

Send Flowers

Feb

19

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

St. Matthew Cathedral, Miami St, South Bend

Send Flowers