Fred Messina

Fred Messina obituary, Stuart, FL

Fred Messina

Fred Messina Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by All County Funeral Home & Crematory - Treasure Coast Chapel on Jan. 2, 2026.
Fred Messina, a Resident Of Ballantrae for 20 years and the oldest World War II Veteran living there, passed peacefully in his home on December 20th, where he was cared for by his daughters Candace and Carol, while son-in-law Billy was the Master Chef and Phil handled the repairs and things of a mechanical nature.
Fred was very proud of his successful trucking business, North Jersey Express, which he started with one truck and ended with sixty! His wife was right by his side handling the bookkeeping.
He and his beautiful wife Ruthie lived life to the fullest with their airplanes, boats, motorcycles and snowmobiles. They also played tennis and golf. Originally from NJ, they resided at the Ocean Reef Club before moving to Ballantrae, where Fred recently celebrated his 101st Birthday with Family & Friends at the Santa Lucia River Club.
Fred's other daughter Connie, who lives in NJ with her husband Scott, make up the biggest part of his family with 3 grandchildren,15 great grandchildren, and 4 great, great grandchildren!
We have to thank Treasure Coast Hospice for the wonderful care they took of Fred in his home, along with his daughters. They are the best, and deserve donations if you are looking to give to a charity or need care for a loved one.
A Celebration of Life will be held at 1pm on February 15, 2026
at the Santa Lucia River Club, 3325 Ballantrae Blvd, Port St Lucie, FL
Please contact Carol Hansen if you plan to attend. 772-475-6820
To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Fred, please visit our floral store.

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Heather Smith

January 23, 2026

Fred was a dear friend of my late father, Scott Smith. I always enjoyed dinners and cocktail hours with Fred and Ruthie when I visited with Dad. Some of my fondest memories of them include the banter between two WWII pilots debating who flew the best plane (Fred was always certain it was him). Many wonderful meals were spent at the New England Fish House. When my dad passed in 2017, Fred still sent messages now and then checking in on me and my family. He was a wonderful friend to my dad, my dad's partner Kay, and myself. I will miss Fred's presence and sense of humor dearly. Sending love to Fred's family during this difficult time.

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