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Frederick Bachman Obituary

Frederick Christian Bachman II, 73, of Somerset. A piece of each of us died with Chris Bachman. Still, in death he gave himself as he always had, his generosity of spirit and a beautiful heart which we celebrate now as much as we grieve his passing. We benefited from his kindness and compassion. He gave his love and friendship without expectations. Somerset, PA resident Frederick Christian Bachman, passed away at UPMC Somerset Hospital on Thursday, April 18, 2024. Growing up in Edgewood, he was nurtured by his five loving older siblings, Pat, Niki, Ted, Merrily, and Suzy. His family and friends were everything to Chris. "He was our brother," commented Paul Ramsdell, a fellow 1969 Edgewood High School graduate. "Whether absent or in person, he gave us strength and inspiration. He could have taken a path of personal ambition, but his existence was simple and graceful." At home in the outdoors, welcoming hard work and tolerating frigid temps, equally comfortable skiing with a CEO and shop-talking with pals, Chris was held in high esteem by all who knew him. Lifelong friend Dallas Frey said, "Chris made sure you were having fun before he even thought about having fun himself. He treasured his Edgewood roots and often recalled high school days, playing football and basketball, or just hanging out." With fondness and admiration of his siblings and their offspring, his parents and extended family, Chris dearly loved those closest to him. Older sister Suzy Ivey: " My dear younger brother showed a very early fascination with heights, so not particularly surprising that he made a career of walking around on them. We six kids, of which he was the youngest, grew up in a big three-story English Tudor house with many windows. When Chris was about four years old, Mother happened to be walking back from chatting with neighbors in the backyard, when she looked up to see him perfectly happy, perched on the roof about two plus stories above the ground. He had found my sister's windows open, crawled along the plant ledge and climbed over to the adjacent roof, where he was contentedly watching nature around him. She ran to the nearest window with a cookie in hand, and when he reached for the cookie, she was able to firmly grasp his wrist and pull him into her loving, safe embrace. And the rest, as they say, is history." His niece, Caryl Siems added, "Chris was a true gentleman, and a gentle man. It was always good to be in his presence. He was kind, with a soft smile, twinkling eyes, and warm laugh. I can still hear his laugh. A few turns and twirls around the dance floor with Chris could elevate any party. He was a gift." An independent contractor, Chris enjoyed an industrious career at Hidden Valley Ski Resort in the Laurel Highlands. He loved to ski and to teach. John Cavicchio, a Hidden Valley friend, said, "We've known Chris for more than 35 years and he has remained a dear and loyal friend, not only to our family but to the entire Hidden Valley community. Chris continued to be an honest and hard worker who was at the ready to help one and all. We will miss him dearly." About her close friend and neighbor, Andrea Beats noted, "He was a simple man...generous, humble, and good, lighthearted, and sentimental. He cared little about even the ordinary possessions most people require." Having recently lost her precious dog Walter whom Chris adored, Andrea observed, "I like to imagine them playing together now." Every man was admiring of Chris' kindness and strength, and envious of his 32-inch waistline. His skillful hands were rough and worn, his manners were polished and respectful. Despite his legions of admirers, he was thoroughly unpretentious and wholly unassuming. It was noted by his high school sweetheart, Linda Dunn, that every young woman's father, given the choice, would name Chris perfect son-in-law material. Starting his career at Dunn & Campbell: "My dad loved Chris like a son," Linda commented, "and he has been the great love of my life. We met during our junior year at Edgewood High. We lost touch for many years but were able to reconnect and become wonderful friends again," she said. "I hold dear so many memories of being together in classes, driver's ed, going on dates, and dances at the Club. How proud I felt when attending his basketball and football games, watching Chris and knowing that I was his girlfriend. My heart would burst with pride. Chris was unaware of how handsome and kind-hearted he was, and how much everyone loved him. He will be so unbelievably missed, but he will be my angel forever. I love you, my Chris." Grieving Mr. Bachman's passing are his many friends and surviving family members who suggest gestures of sympathy be made as charitable donations to The Mel Douglass Fund, which awards college scholarships to Edgewood students for their community service. Checks should be made out to The Mel Douglass Fund, and sent to the care of Dallas Frey, 193 West Hutchison Avenue, Edgewood, PA 15218. A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, May 11, from 11:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. at the Edgewood Club, 1 Pennwood Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA 15218. Arrangements by the Hauger-Zeigler Funeral Home & Cremation Services, Somerset. To leave a condolence please visit www.haugerzeigler.com

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Published by Tribune Review on May 1, 2024.

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Suzanne Leonetti Walker

May 11, 2024

Uncle Chris. At an early age, I understood that this man was a rare find, AND that he had not internalized his beautiful qualities and gifts that were clear to everyone else. Back then, I felt how "humble" Uncle Chris was before I even knew what the word truly meant. He was warm, accepting, full of talent that he didn't discuss, and didn't seem to be driven by competition. Like so many kids, I was a strong observer, sensing, taking in, and making meaning of the world and people around me, and I remember being truly puzzled by him. Something just didn't add up. Here was this gentle, yet powerful, and handsome man in his prime whom everyone loved, who filled the empty spaces of any occasion with his warmth and grace, raspy, full-belly laugh, kind spirit, and wonderful sense of humor. He made everyone feel like they mattered, and we felt complete in his presence. Now looking back, I believe the missing pieces were his lack of confidence, and belief that he was good enough.

Life brought Uncle Chris some setbacks, or rather, opportunities to begin anew. Like so many that loved him, my parents, Dennis and Merrily, were eager to help him forward, and coerced him to make the move to Hidden Valley, a peaceful, magical place that had provided solace to him in the past. I think our whole family felt our best when spending time there, and surely so could he. After a couple of years with us, Uncle Chris branched out on his own, moving across the lake, and settled into working for Hidden Valley as a handyman, warming the hearts and minds of the locals and the weekenders alike, and forming his own close circle of his now long-time beloved friends. Hidden Valley had embraced him fully, and this was his home.

Even thirty-five, forty years later, in the midst of the busy-ness of raising my own family, I still hold onto vivid memories of our years living with Chris and during my teenage years, some of which include: his calm and predictable nature, the twinkle in his eyes, the wise words he provided to my brother Jeff and me, his greeting to me of "Hi sweetie!" (with a smile every time!). Then, there was the time Uncle Chris' massive frame appeared in the front doorway one night when he was tasked with shutting down my second attempt to throw the biggest high-school party of the year...whoops. (He didn't have to say anything, his sheer presence scared my classmates all the way back to Pittsburgh an hour away. He never addressed the incident with me either. I think he was thankful to be in the role of "uncle" at that point.). There were multiple attempts from many good-willed "matchmakers" to set my uncle up on dates (he was such a catch!). Finally, I remember the scent of gin and tonics and Manhattans that he enjoyed with my dad over countless games of Backgammon, bantering back and forth making absurd bets as if they were high-rollers in Monaco (my dad likes to point out that Chris still owes him $56K!). Such entertainment, and it's possible that Chris let my dad win a few, but I'm sure the game will continue in the next life when they meet again someday.

I only ever heard Uncle Chris boast once, and that was about his homemade spaghetti sauce (slow cooking was his secret!). I never actually saw or tried it, but I believe it to be true! He wouldn't have dared to scheme a spaghetti cook-off with my mom for his own glory, since my mom was widely known around the valley for her version...the reliable pot on the stove paired with garlic bread in the oven, that came with an open door to old and new friends and cherished family after a long, wintry day on the slopes. Sometimes there was even a follow-up pie. In his humble way, Uncle Chris saw the magic that this meal provided to so many, this special sauce that brought people together, and allowed my mom to shine. In a way, that's just who Uncle Chris was, a slow-cooking, warm pot on the stove full of authentic ingredients, a touch of just the right sugar and spice, and love, all of which beautifully simmered to nourish us over time.

His loving memory will always stay with me. Uncle Chris, may you now rest easy knowing you were always good enough, and you made your mark in our hearts.

Ishmael Bowman

May 9, 2024

RIP..... dear friend of of our youth at EHS .__

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