Gary Agger Obituary
It is with deep sorrow and much love that we mourn the passing of Gary Cedric Agger (also known as "Jaja" to his beloved grandchildren & family).
Gary passed unexpectedly on December 01, 2022 in his retired home town of Apollo Beach Florida. Gary was born on January 25, 1952 to Janet & Robert Agger in Portland where he attended Portland schools, which is where he met the love of his life, his wife Marcia (Anderson) Agger. The two wed in 1971 and recently celebrated 50 years of a beautiful marriage together. Gary dedicated his life to helping others. A retired Portland Police Officer, Police Athletic League Mentor & Coach, Disability Insurance Fraud Investigator, College Basketball Referee, Multi-Youth Sports Coach, Husband, Father, Grandfather, Brother-in-Law, Father-in-Law, Uncle, Cousin and Friend. Of all the jobs, roles & achievements he fulfilled, he would say that his greatest accomplishment in life was his Family. While Gary left us far too soon, his impact on the community will be felt for years to come. Gary was an exceptional man in every aspect of his life. Those who were fortunate enough to know him, know that he would (and did) give the shirt off his back or his last dollar to anyone in need. A humble man that helped so many, he had an extraordinary ability to connect to people. There are numerous examples & stories of his generosity and acts of kindness - many still untold to this day. Gary led by example and had a saying that " you are who you are when no one is watching". He would often travel the streets looking for someone in need of a meal, warm clothes, a person to talk to or someone needing to know that at least one person out there cared about them. Gary was a kind man, a compassionate and deeply caring man who always saw the good in a person. He taught the value of hard work, integrity, doing the right thing and that we are all equal. A huge animal lover, he couldn't walk by one of God's creatures without giving it a pat on the head or a kiss on the nose! Gary made a difference in many lives and will be greatly missed. His love for life and his family will not be forgotten.
He is survived by his wife Marcia (Anderson) Agger, his three children: daughter Jennifer Agger ( and partner Greg Collymore), daughter April (Agger) Rogers and son Robert "Bobby" Agger (and wife Katie (Sullivan) Agger); his six grandchildren: Meghan & Jordan Agger (Jennifer's daughters), Olivia & Lindsay Rogers (April's daughters) and Josephine & Charlise Agger (Bobby & Katie's daughters) and his beloved cat Gracie aka Doobas.
In lieu of flowers, Gary would just love for people to pay it forward in any way that would bring
kindness to others. We can't think of a better way to honor Gary's legacy.
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Jeff Paquette
August 6, 2025
I am so sorry to learn of Gary´s passing. Many fond times and memories as my boss and friend. It´s been a while, but my condolences to the family.
Alicia Moore
November 30, 2024
Gary was always a gentleman. When a teen, he had wisdom beyond his years. Grateful I knew him.
Catherine Zub
December 17, 2022
Dear Marcia and Agger family. I am so saddened to hear of Gary's death. I so enjoyed working and knowing him at Unum. Marcia, I remember, and still have the beautiful gifts you brought to our home when the twins were born. I always felt that you were those kind of people that embraced so openly and lovingly those who came along your path in life. My deepest condolences to you all. Hugs, Cathy and Keith Zub
Patti
December 14, 2022
And now he rests...but not before leaving a legacy that inspired all who knew him and many who didn't.
Gary's light was always the brightest, he was a true "gentle" man, one of a kind. Gary was selfless, loyal, generous, dependable, fair, wise, compassionate, trustworthy, sincere, diplomatic, non-judgemental, kind, loving, patient, grateful and humble, a real family man. And that's just the beginning....He truly changed many, many lives for the better and forever.
Separately and together, Gary and Marcia were/are glowing examples of kindness and grace.
Anyone that was fortunate enough to call him friend, was fortunate enough!
May we all honor his legacy by emulating the HUMAN he was. Spread his light!
All my love to Marcia, Jenn, April, Bobby, Meghan, Jordan, Olivia, Lindsay, Josie and Charlise
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ALICIA MOORE
December 13, 2022
My condolences to Marcia and all of Gary´s family. I went to Portland schools with Gary. I remember him as kind, fair, and a gentleman. In later years, we worked for the same company where he was a fraud investigator. He was a good man. I am saddened he has passed.
Rene Custeau
December 13, 2022
Gary was a fantastic role model to youth of all ages. I remember him as officer friendly umpiring all those summer softball & kickball games. I especially appreciated all the times he took my Boys & Girls Club PAL kickball and softball teams for ice cream. You were truly a hero, Gary!
Laura Antranigian
December 10, 2022
I will always remember Gary agger from high school. he was my law enforcement teacher . He used to take me for a ride in his convertible Cadillac. I will always think of him and smile . My deepest sympathies goes out to his family. With thoughts and prayers Laura Antranigian
Ed Dickhaut
December 10, 2022
To the Agger family, I am so sorry to hear of Gary´s passing.My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. As you well know he was a man to be proud of . The respect that he gave to everyone gained the admiration of all those that knew him including me.
Please accept my sincere condolences and may the strength and support of family and friends help you through this difficult time.
Sincerely, Ed Dickhaut and family.
Brian "Chick" Webb
December 9, 2022
Gary was a competitor and that is how I knew him. Competing against him forced me to be better. I admired and respected him for that. I admired his service to his hometown and beyond. My deepest condolences to his family. Truly a great man has left us too soon. Rest in peace Gary.
Bruce and Marcia McAfee
December 8, 2022
Marcia, Bobby, girls, and Dana. Shocked to hear about Gary. You all will be in my nightly prayers.
jacqueline dolbow
December 8, 2022
I knew Gary many years ago at Nathan Clifford school. We were in the same grade and in 6th grade , we were both chosen for the good citizen reward. He was always a good friend to me and many others. My condolences to his family.
Bob Caron
December 8, 2022
My condolences to the Agger family during this difficult time. I had the good fortune of having known Gary since grade school. We crossed paths on the Little League field, and later on as adults, in the classroom and on the basketball court. Throughout his life he carried himself with an air of dignity, grace and class. With his kind words and good sense of humor, Gary was someone who made you feel better about yourself by being around him. You will be greatly missed. RIP
Karen Beatty
December 8, 2022
Marcia, Jenn and Family; I am very sorry to hear about Gary´s passing! May all your wonderful memories bring you much peace and comfort real soon.
Janine (Bernier) Bodnar
December 8, 2022
So many wonderful memories of Mr. Agger...he was the cool parent and coach that insisted we call him Gary growing up. He was always quick with a smile and an encouraging word. A teacher, coach, ref, mentor and friend. He was all of these to me personally, and I always admired the Agger family. Gary and Marcia were the stunning, (beautiful inside and out) fun couple, that lived by example, and their home was a constant of love and support. My deepest sympathy to Marcia, Jenn, April, Bobby, and the extended Agger family. Your love will continue his legacy and his profound impact to the community. Prayers for you all.
Mary McCallum Reid
December 8, 2022
I am so sorry to hear of Gary´s passing. Always smiling and always so friendly to everyone. So sorry Marsha and family.
Bob Meader
December 7, 2022
I was sorry to learn of Gary's passing. He was a man of character and had a way to make people feel comfortable in his presence. He was an excellent basketball official that I had the pleasure of working many games with. He always talked about his kids when we traveled together to various games. He will be greatly missed. My deepest condolences to the entire Agger family. Bob Meader
Karen Chandler
December 7, 2022
Just heard about Gary´s passing. I remember him from when I was a kid and great memories of Marsha and Gary at Dunegrass and OOB.
Karen Chandler and Phil Vince
Joseph A Aliberti
December 7, 2022
Marcia and the entire Agger: Words are challenging at a time like this. Just know our thoughts and prayers are with you. Gary was a man of honesty and integrity, kind and compassionate. I am fortunate to have known him and worked with him. Good Speed Brother.
Brad D Bryce
December 6, 2022
My condolences to the entire Agger family.A man that taught all of us so many things and was always there to give advice and help out no questions asked...his love for his family was unconditional. You could always find him at his children's sporting events as being the number one fan and off the field it was no different.I had the privilege to spend time on the golf course with Gary and Bobby and at their house throughout high school. That smile and laid back caring attitude made everyone feel welcomed.
Love Brad and family
Sam Coughlin
December 6, 2022
Marcia, Bobby, and The Girls, So very sorry to hear about Gary! He was Admired by so many People!!
RIP Gary!!
Sam
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