Gary Hayden Danks

1948 - 2023

Gary Hayden Danks obituary, 1948-2023, Southington, IL

Gary Hayden Danks

1948 - 2023

BORN

1948

DIED

2023

Gary Danks Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 27, 2023 to Jan. 5, 2024.
Southington - Gary H. Danks, 75, of Southington, CT, passed away on December 24 at Livewell in Plantsville, CT. Gary is survived by his wife of 39 years, Denise, as well as his four children Troy, Rob, Trevor, and Marisa, and 11 grandchildren. He was predeceased by his parents, Hal and Nellie, his sister, Doria, and his grandson, Kieran. Gary was an Air Force veteran and a retired lineman/trainer who worked for Eversource for 32 years. Following retirement, he was a paraprofessional in the Southington school system working with elementary students. Gary was a longtime parishioner of St. Thomas Church where he had been a CCD teacher and Eucharistic minister. He also loved auto racing and was a longtime member of the Sailing Masters Fife and Drum Corps in his native town of Essex, CT. Gary was known for his extraordinary humor and was the person everyone wanted on their Trivial Pursuit team. A mass of Christian burial will be held at 11:00 A.M. on January 11 at The Church of St. Dominic in Southington. A private burial will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Livewell, whose staff provided him exemplary care in his final years, or to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

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February 22, 2024

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Cynthia Flood Knutson

February 22, 2024

Gary and friend Bob Shepard drove my brother from Connecticut to Oregon after high school graduation so that he could join our family after our move to Oregon in 1965. My parents were very close friends with Harland and Nellie and remained so for many years.

I have a very sweet story about Gary...he wore Brut cologne back in those days and he accidentally broke a bottle of it in our dad's trunk, somehow, during the visit to Oregon that summer in 1965. Until the day my dad sold that car, the smell of Gary's cologne was as strong as the day the bottle got broken.

So very sad to hear of his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Rest in peace, Gary. You were remembered fondly over the years.

With great respect,
Cynthia Flood Knutson

Tony Spinelli

February 11, 2024

I was very sorry to read of Gary's passing. I worked with him at NU, and he was a wonderful person to work with in our various electrical safety programs. Please accept my deepest sympathy and I hope your lovely pictures and fond memories will comfort you at this sad time.

Nancy

January 5, 2024

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January 4, 2024

My deepest condolences to you and your family, Rose Audi,
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Mardi Steinau

December 29, 2023

Go well, my friend. Long live the king.

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