Gary H. Danks

Gary H. Danks obituary, Rocky Hill, CT

Gary H. Danks

Gary Danks Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Abbey Cremation Service - Rocky Hill on Dec. 27, 2023.

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Gary H. Danks, 75, of Southington, CT passed away on December 24 at Livewell in Plantsville, CT. Gary is survived by his wife of 39 years, Denise, as well as his four children Troy, Rob, Trevor, and Marisa, and 11 grandchildren. He was predeceased by his parents, Hal and Nellie, his sister, Doria, and his grandson, Kieran. Gary was an Air Force veteran and a retired lineman/trainer who worked for Eversource for 32 years. Following retirement, he was a paraprofessional in the Southington school system working with elementary students. Gary was a longtime parishioner of St. Thomas Church where he had been a CCD teacher and Eucharistic minister. He also loved auto racing and was a longtime member of the Sailing Masters Fife and Drum Corps in his native town of Essex, CT. Gary was known for his extraordinary humor and was the person everyone wanted on their Trivial Pursuit team. A mass of Christian burial will be held at 11:00 on January 11 at The Church of St. Dominic in Southington. A private burial will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Livewell, whose staff provided him exemplary care in his final years, or to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

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Barbara Blau

March 13, 2024

This is Barbara Blau from The Summit at Plantsville. I was telling my staff about Nellie's pie that she made every year -and was going to call or text Gary to let him know we were thinking about his mom. I am so terribly sad and sorry to learn of his passing. Gary was such sweet man. He was a gentle son. Gary was always willing to help us in recreation. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Deborah Salerno

December 29, 2023

So sorry to hear about Gary's passing. I met you both quite a few years ago and we became fast friends. Gary was a very "dashing" man. He was friendly, kind and always had a smile when I saw him. Wishing him eternal rest, no more suffering in this world; prayers to you Denise and to your family. Love, Deb, Mike, Nick Salerno

Thomas Barrett

December 28, 2023

So sorry for your loss Denise and Family. Gary was great guy and dear friend, going to miss hang with my friend at dunkin and events . Gary always had great stories to tell me .
Going to Miss you Gary , Rest In Peace My Friend.
Tom and Family

Lindsey

December 28, 2023

I´m so sorry for your loss, Mrs. Danks. He was a wonderful person and a very good family friend.

Joseph F. Faraci,Jr.

December 27, 2023

I had the pleasure of working with Gary at the Connecticut Light & Power Co. area work center in Middleton. He was always very respectful to his coworkers, was a great line instructor,and a pleasure to work with. He was the last of a dying breed.

Joseph F. Faraci,Jr.

December 27, 2023

I had the pleasure of working with Gary at the Connecticut Light & Power Co. Area Work Center in Middletown. Gary was always a gentleman,very respectful to his coworkers,and a great line instructor. He was the last of a dying breed.
Joseph F. Faraci,Jr.

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