Gary Lee Fridley

Gary L. Fridley, 81, passed away on Saturday, October 25, 2025.

Visitation will be held from 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM on Sunday, November 2, 2025, at Grace United Methodist Church (1735 Morningside Ave). Memorial Service will take place at 11:00 AM on Monday, November 3, 2025, at Grace United Methodist Church with a Celebration of Life to follow service.

Gary Fridley, born on December 16, 1943, grew up in Burlington, Iowa, where he met the love of his life, Jan. Before their marriage, Gary joined the U.S. Navy, serving as a Chaplain’s Assistant. He served in Vietnam from March 1968 to March 1969, after which he was transferred to the Naval Reserves, serving until 1973.

Upon returning home, Gary married Jan and pursued his passion for music and education. He attended Morningside College, earning his degree in Music Education, and continued his studies over the years at the University of Iowa. Gary taught in the Sioux City Community School District for 31 years, inspiring countless students with his love of music. After retiring in 2019, he continued to share his talents as the Strings teacher for the Bishop Heelan Strings Program and taught in the Cherokee Community School District during 2004–2005.

Gary was a dedicated member of the Sioux City Symphony Orchestra for over 60 years. In 1980, he founded the Silver Strings Quartet, performing at weddings, events, and special occasions throughout the Siouxland area for more than four decades. In addition to performing, Gary gave private lessons, nurturing generations of musicians.

Answering a further call to service, Gary attended the Missouri Conference Licensing School and the Iowa School for Lay Ministry, where he earned his Pastor’s License. In 2012, he became Pastor for the Danbury and Charter Oak United Methodist Churches, guiding others through his steadfast faith. He was also a lifelong member of Grace United Methodist Church, where he served faithfully for over 60 years.

To many, Gary was a teacher, mentor, pastor, sponsor, colleague, stand partner, and friend. To his family, he was a devoted husband, father, papa, brother, and son. His wry smile, charming wit, and warm sense of humor will be deeply missed. Gary spent his life in service to God, sharing his love of faith and music, and touching the lives of all who knew him.

Gary is survived by his beloved wife, Jan; children, Sara and John; grandchildren, Kiley, Breann, Hannah, Jacob, and Connor; and brothers, Dale, David, and Jim. He was preceded in death by his parents, Paul and Frances.