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Gary Hardke Obituary

Gary Scot Hardke passed away on Jan. 5, 2026, at the age of 76.

He and his twin brother, Greg, were born on Feb. 16, 1949, in Benton Harbor to Len and Esther Hardke. After graduating from the University of Michigan Law School in 1975, he and Greg relocated to San Diego. Greg and Gary were an incandescent and inseparable pair for their 70 years together on Earth, bound by shared humor and an unspoken understanding.

Gary practiced law at Hillyer & Irwin for more than 20 years and held those decades-long friendships in the highest regard. In the late 1970s, he became an early believer in the promise of renewable energy, and in 2000 transitioned his career full time to bringing wind projects to fruition. His work reflected a deep conviction in future-minded solutions and ideas ahead of their time.

Gary was gentle, kind-hearted and curious by nature. In his unmistakably Midwestern way, he engaged people in conversation wherever he went, with an earnest interest in the stories that shaped them. He loved guitar, fishing and above all, his family.

Gary is survived by his loving wife of 43 years, Kathleen; his two adoring children: Scott (wife Kimiya) and Stacey (husband Andrew); his sister-in-law, Teri (late husband Greg); his nephew, Matt (wife Malak); and his four grandchildren: Ariana, Logan, Cameron and Bennett. His legacy will guide and inspire our family for generations to come. He meant the world to us and will be dearly missed.

In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to San Diego Project Heart Beat, which places lifesaving defibrillators in public spaces, or to San Diego Coastkeeper, which supports environmental stewardship and sustainability.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Herald-Palladium on Jan. 22, 2026.

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Tim Armstrong

January 24, 2026

Dear Kathy, Scott, Stacey and family. Tim and I would like to extend our deepest sympathies for the loss of Gary. We pray that your loving memories and family bond will help ease your grief. Our love and prayers are with you all.
Tim and Lis Armstrong

Catherine (Anderson) Taber

January 23, 2026

Catherine (Anderson) Taber

Yesterday

To the Hardke family, I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Gary's passing. He was such a caring and kind man. I always enjoyed our conversations when he would come back to Michigan for class reunions. He always had that sparkle in his eyes with a warm smile. I loved seeing the occasional pics of the grandchildren on Facebook. Gary and Greg are now reunited again and, I'm sure, telling stories and reminiscing. May all the love and memories you hold in your hearts, help you through the difficult days. My Deepest Sympathy to you all.

Attached are some photos from a classmate luncheon in 2017 after our 50th class reunion. The photo of Greg, David and Gary was at our 45th, I believe.

Cathy (Anderson) Taber, '67 BHHS classmate

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