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Gary Hern Obituary

Gary Ray Hern, 76, of Wheatland, CA, passed away peacefully on January 2, 2026, in Grove, OK.

Born on October 14, 1949, in Marysville, CA, Gary lived a full life marked by his deep love for his family.

He is survived by his sister, Lynne Hern Swaim, of Wheatland, CA; his two devoted sons, Dustin Miles Hern, of Jay, OK, and Aaron Leon Hern, of Yuba City, CA; as well as his four beloved grandchildren, Dyllen, Sydney, Luna, and Solaris, whom brought him immense light and pride.

A lover of country music classics, an avid dancer, guitar player, and amateur aviator, Gary's warm spirit and love for his family will be deeply missed but forever remembered by all who knew him.

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Published by Appeal Democrat on Jan. 17, 2026.

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Debbie Jones

January 17, 2026

To Gary's family,
Gary was married to my cousin Vickie who passed away in 2011. Gary was a very nice man who yes, loved Country music as did Vickie. Gary showed me how to do the Texas Two Step when we all were out dancing one night. He was a great dancer and instructor. I know he will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Gods Blessings,
Fred and Debbie Jones

Barbara Haskin

January 13, 2026

I spent lots of time with my cousin Gary and his family when we were growing up. There are so many precious memories. I hope that Aaron, Dusty, Lynne, and Gary´s grandchildren can find peace and comfort, knowing that Gary was deeply loved. Condolences to you all.
Love, Barbara Waggershauser Haskin

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