Grace Lillemae Holden

Grace Lillemae Holden obituary, Wilmington, DE

Grace Lillemae Holden

Grace Holden Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Bennie Smith Funeral Home - Wilmington on Jul. 9, 2025.

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Grace was born in Cordova, Maryland, to the late Harry and Viola Stanford on March 31, 1936. She was the wife of Pernest O Holden (deceased). She passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her loving family on July 1, 2025.
Grace was a member of Faith City Church and fulfilled the duties of driving the church van. She formed a gospel group called Grace Gospel Jubilee. Her favorite scriptures were Psalm 91 and Psalm 23.
Grace completed her early education in Easton, Maryland. She graduated from Howard High School in Wilmington, Delaware.
Grace was the first black chauffeur at Delaware Motor Sales. She also worked at the Brandywine Racetrack as a cleaner, and was a cashier for the Thrift Store for the Cancer Foundation.
In addition to her parents, Grace was preceded in death by her brothers, Leroy Stanford, Rayfield Stanford, Quenton Stanford, Lester Stanford, and Lonnie Stanford, and her sisters Mary Stanford and Janice Brooks.
Grace leaves to cherish her memory, her children, Dwight Holden (Victoria), Dorthea Alston (Otis), Damon Holden and David Holden (Monica); nine grandchildren; 15 great-grandchildren; four great-great grandchildren; a host of nieces and nephews; her dogs, Brownie and Bella; sisters, Lillian G Holmes, Geraldine Stewart, Shirley Anderson, and Faith D Green.
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Cheris (Murray) Allen Former Lamotte Street Neighbor

July 16, 2025

Dwight and family,
I wish you peace and healing. I am sending you a hug and my love through this note. Special thoughts and heartfelt prayers are with you and your family during these difficult times in the loss of Ms. Peedie. She was a true friend of my family, a well respected neighbor of Lamotte Street, who had a heart of gold, and didn't tolerate foolishness. She said what she meant, and meant what she said. Be assured that your friends will comfort you, your faith will uphold you and the love and memories you have will help you smile again. May God continue to grant peace and comfort to you and your family.

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