Hank G. Dowling

1944 - 2022

Hank G. Dowling obituary, 1944-2022, Rio Rancho, NM

Hank G. Dowling

1944 - 2022

BORN

1944

DIED

2022

Hank Dowling Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 2 to Jan. 5, 2023.
Hank Dowling, born in Durham, NC in July 1944, son of the late Henry and Louise Dowling of Goldsboro, NC, passed away on Thursday, December 29, 2022 at the age of 78.

He is survived by his wife, Beth Dowling of Rio Rancho, NM; sister, Mary McKay Schaffer of Dana Point, CA; daughter, Sara Dowling Martin of Mableton, GA; and niece, Lani McKay of Bozeman, MT.

Hank served in the US Air Force and attended DeVry Institute in Chicago, IL. Prior to retirement in 2006, Hank lived in Atlanta, GA for 38 years. During his career he worked as a service engineer with Beckman Instruments. After retirement, Hank purchased a truck and RV and danced in every state where he traveled. In 2007, he settled in Albuquerque, NM and joined the Albuquerque Dance Club. By late 2022, Hank had danced in 49 states.

Hank had many hobbies including woodworking, making jewelry, stained glass, reading, welding, knife-making, but his favorite was social dancing.

Four years ago, Hank was diagnosed with stage 4 Cholangiocarcinoma (bile duct cancer). Through this journey, Hank always had a positive attitude. In his words, "A happy heart is good medicine."

In lieu of flowers, you are invited to make a donation to Cholangiocarcinoma Foundation and "Light A Candle for the Cure" in Hank's memory: https://cholangiocarcinoma.org/ccf/candles-home/

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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February 9, 2023

Harless Dobbins posted to the memorial.

February 8, 2023

Joyce Hogan posted to the memorial.

February 7, 2023

Morris Neuman posted to the memorial.

Harless Dobbins

February 9, 2023

Hank & I went to Fredrick Military Academy & have kept up with each other over the years.
Sending my regards.

Joyce Hogan

February 8, 2023

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. I met Hank forever ago in Atlanta through my husband. Hank was always fun and interesting to be around....and like us, he enjoyed playing pool. I was glad that he stopped in to see me even after my husband passed away. I will miss those visits. God bless you, Beth. I am very sorry for your loss.

Morris Neuman

February 7, 2023

I am very sorry for your loss.
Hank was a good person and I will miss his calls when he either needed something or telling me of a new hobby or adventure.
Sincerely, Morris Neuman

Robin Rowlands Weh

January 15, 2023

Hank radiated absolute joy when he was dancing and was with his beloved Beth. I will miss our conversations and the dinners they shared with Peter and myself. A truly unforgettable person.

The Hatcher-Heinzerling-Fu Family

January 12, 2023

Our heartfelt condolences to you Beth. It was a pleasure getting to know Hank at Torch Lake and such a joy to watch him with all of the kids. He will be missed by us all! Hugs to you.
- Rick, Karen, RickyJimBob, KennyEarl, and BillieJean.

Christine Carpenter

January 10, 2023

I met Hank dancing at Cowboys now Dirty Bourbon. He was very helpful and willing to dance with me when I still didn´t have a clue how to dance. We started becoming friends not long after the 2009 Winter ball. Neither of us had family so we kind of adopted each other. We had many outings and enjoyed good conversations. The memory that keeps surfacing the most is how excited he was to bring Beth to her first club dance. You couldn´t remove his genuine happy smile if you tried. Watching their relationship blossom was so special. I was honored to stand for him when they wed. Beth, you brought him so much joy. I will miss my long conversations with him.

WANDA JEAN MATUSZAK

January 8, 2023

Hank will be greatly missed. Always had a smile on his face and loved to dance with everyone.

Bill & Carolyn Hallett

January 8, 2023

Beth - We send our deepest condolences to you & family. Hank was such a bright light & brilliant dancer. I will miss the dances, his sense of humor, & his smile that lit up the dance hall. Find comfort in your memories. In our prayers Bill & Carolyn Hallett xoxo

Mitch and Loretta Rothstein

January 8, 2023

Mitch and Loretta send sincere condolences to Beth and Hank´s family. We´ll miss his friendly greetings and warm smiles. He was so proud after he met Beth, that he counted the days since they committed to each other! We´ll miss him! He was a gentleman!

Dorothy King

January 8, 2023

Sorry for your loss. Grief can be so hard, and special memories help us cope. Bless you in this time of sorrow.

Ellen Wilsey

January 6, 2023

As a member of the ABQ dance club, I enjoyed dancing with Hank. He was always willing to dance with new members and make them feel comfortable on the dance floor. He was a very kind and friendly man with a positive attitude. He touched many lives and he will be missed.

David Myers

January 6, 2023

It was always a pleasure visiting with Hank about new ideas for fixing our working on a project. I will miss hie optimization. I am sure even heaven can use another good dance leader.

John Montoya

January 4, 2023

I had the pleasure of getting to know Hank through my Aunt Beth. I remember all of the interesting topics of discussion Hank would bring up during Thanksgiving get togethers. He was knowledgeable, funny, and passionate about his many hobbies. A great man. He will be missed.

Kathy Campbell

January 4, 2023

I will miss Hank. I always had fun dancing with him.

Bonnie Stevens

January 3, 2023

Hank will be missed. I'm sure he is again carrying on discussions with JT.
Bonnie

Jerry Rejent

January 3, 2023

Ah Hank, Good Afternoon. I was proud to count him among my friends. He was a many of many talents and interests. He was always willing to share his newest handcrafted project or toy. We used to meet for lunch occasionally and chat for hours like old men do bouncing from one subject to another. I will miss you and I will always remember your two rules of dancing (lol). May God bless you and keep you.

Joseph Carpenter

January 3, 2023

I met Hank through my wife Christine. She knew him from the dance club, and he was in our wedding. Hank and I shared a background in IT and a fondness for conversation. It was good to meet with Hank for lunch about every couple of months, and I wish I'd gotten to know him longer and better. I got to know him long enough to think of him as a good friend, And I'll miss him very much.

Christie Montoya

January 3, 2023

Loving my sister, enjoying your journeys together, memories shine brightly forever

Billie Esther

January 2, 2023

Hank was an integral part of my childhood.We lived in the same neighborhood.His sister, Mary Louise was and is a special friend...Hank was always pranking us and or pestering us...imagine that.... LOL...l will love him and miss him always

Dean Mitchell

January 2, 2023

Hank always offered advice and encouragement for home projects; his enthusiasm for dance was contagious; and his stories helped us through tough times during the pandemic. He'll be missed.

Brenda Smith HUNTSBERRY

January 2, 2023

My friends and I met Hank over 30 years ago. He became a friend from the day we met. When he talked to, he had my full attention like we were the only people in the room. He joined in on all the parties, picnics and especially dancing. He moved to New Mexico and continued to stay in touch. From everything he told me, Beth was a perfect match for him and he was very happy. I am so glad he found Beth. I will miss his calls. We always caught up on his dancing, making knives or his dogs. There is a star in heaven for him and it's much brighter there.

Peter Weh

January 2, 2023

A good friend whom I knew for several years. I enjoyed his company very much even though we often innocently "sparred", I will miss him quite a bit

Brandon Battelle

January 2, 2023

Hank taught me how to shoot a gun, silver and gold solder, carve wood, and how to enjoy making things. I knew him since I was eleven years old. It's funny to remember that back then he used to annoy me with his silly ways. But over the years he grew on me and I considered him family. Now after fifteen years of knowing him, I can say those years were made better by his presence. I will never forget you Mr. Hank.

Peter Weh

January 2, 2023

A good friend of mine. I enjoyed his company for the past several years with friendly "sparring" along the way. I will miss him

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