Harold Luke Elsis

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Harold Luke Elsis, who peacefully departed this world on Sunday, October 26, 2025, at the age of 81. Harold was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend, whose life was filled with love, adventure, and achievement. He was a cherished resident of Montauk, NY, but his life began in Brooklyn, New York, on a Friday, September 1, 1944.
Harold's journey through life was marked by his entrepreneurial spirit and his ability to connect with those around him. In the 1970s and '80s, he co-owned and operated The Graphic Word in New York City, where he showcased his skills as a talented typographer. His passion for business led him to open a restaurant in Montclair, NJ, in the mid-1990s, where he delighted patrons with his culinary talents. In the 2000s, Harold successfully transitioned into real estate investment in the Hamptons, until his illness.
A proud veteran, Harold served in the United States Army, epitomizing dedication and service to his nation. His diverse interests kept him active and engaged throughout his life. He was an avid SCUBA diver with countless dive trips. These led to exotic locations in Micronesia, the Indian Ocean, and the Caribbean, where his erudite nature led to fellowship and an affinity for disparate cultures. Among his many interests, he found joy in fishing, maintaining his potager, and a love for cooking and hospitality.
Harold is survived by his loving wife of over 45 years, Lili Elsis. His adoration for his three children; Dinamarie, Steven, and Jonathan, was marked by devotion and passion. His tender fondness for family extended to Steven's wife, Jennifer, and his grandchildren Chase, Olivia, and Marli [née Murphy]. Harold was preceded in death by his father, Harold Luke Elsis, and his mother, Catherine Elsis.
Services and interment details are pending; please check back for further information. In lieu of flowers, donations in Harold's memory are yet to be finalized.
As we reflect on Harold's life, we celebrate a man who lived fully and loved deeply. He leaves behind a legacy of love, strength, and cherished memories. Rest in peace, Harold. Your spirit will continue to guide and inspire us.