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Bruce Harbour
July 18, 2025
I met Hilary at a Duke Robillard concert. We would become close friends sharing our love for music and the arts. She was very influential introducing me to many artists and styles of music that I still love today. She was an inspiration and gift to so many. I´m truly blessed to have shared the journey with her. Forever in my heart
And Schefman
March 3, 2024
I first met Hilary in 2001 or so at the George Meany Labor College in Silver Springs,MD; we were both attending a seminar on The Fundamentals of Corporate Research. We met one evening in the bar/game room on campus, started chatting, and became friends. I next saw Hilary in Nashville when I was there on business in 2003. She took me to her home, where she had one of my favorite New Yorker cartoons on her fridge. Then she took me to a country music club. Our special friendship lasted until her death. Since I was kinda sorta in the show business and love rhymes, I had a soft spot for her daughter, Liz Chiz, and wish I'd been able to meet her. I only just found out about Hilary and I wish condolences to her friends and family. She will be sorely missed.
Diane Amos
February 23, 2024
Sharing political stories at our Feldenkreis class. She was always asking my opinion and such an advocate for justice. Fond memories.
Lynn Carmichael
February 11, 2024
I never met Hilary, but knew of her as she was a Facebook friend of of an old friend of mine, and I saw her posts now and then. I was always impressed with what she had to say. She seemed extraordinarily well read and well informed, and I always agreed with what she had to say. The world needs more people like this! I am certain she will be missed. May her memory be a blessing.
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Miles Watkins
November 6, 2023
"Muffin" and I were classmates at Shades Valley High School in Birmingham, Alabama. After graduation in 1963, I don't believe our paths crossed again, and yet I still remember her so fondly -- feisty and funny! She was a pistol! And from what I understand, she went on to create quite a life worth living. No surprise there. God bless.
Jill Rosenthal
November 5, 2023
I met Hilary through pro-choice advocacy in WV, and she brought me onto the board of the ACLU of WV. As a young woman, she mentored and inspired me. So vibrant, passionate, fierce and funny! She did important meaningful work and brought others along with her. I feel so grateful to have known her.
Twila Huffman
November 5, 2023
One of a kind. Always enjoyed her when she visited her dear friend, Laura.
Michael Healey
November 5, 2023
Hillary, you will be missed. It was my good fortune to cross paths with you on ACLU work and work for labor unions.
Beth
November 5, 2023
Last fall, as Hilary traveled in Europe, she kept in touch with my own research travel. She asked questions and encouraged me in my journey despite our different faith perspectives. I could sense her own excitement with each country and site she visited, and I was grateful to travel along with her vicariously. I´m so glad she made that trip.
Susan Feigenheimer
November 4, 2023
I never met Hilary in person. We became Facebook friends because we had mutual friends who introduced us on line and thought we might enjoy sharing ideas. I loved her spirit and am so sad we will never meet in person.
Linda Hee
November 4, 2023
Only met Hilary in person once: white water rafting outside of Pittsburgh. She hast no fear as we paddled through the rapids, inspiring me to embrace the day. Thereafter, I became a "FB Friend" and I continued to be inspired by her. What a legacy of good works and service! May her memory be a blessing to her granola and all whose lives she touched.
Barbara J Rumph
November 4, 2023
My favorite memory of Hilary was the first day of our Road Scholar Paris and Normandy adventure in 2014. It was at Charles de Gaulle airport. The beautiful woman said "Hi, I'm Hilary and you are," I said "Barbara. She replied, "Look out Paris, Barbara and Hilary are here. Her warmth and friendship was a gift to me the past nine years.
I'm proud to have met her.

Anderson Luis
November 4, 2023
Joann Bell
November 4, 2023
What a great loss. My interaction with Hillary was at staff and biennial conferences of the ACLU. She was so energetic and fun and very good at her chosen job. I know many friends will miss her vibrant spirit. Joann Bell, Executive Director, ACLU of Oklahoma 1990-2011.
Lisa Colby
November 3, 2023
Hilary was an extraordinary woman. She was passionate about making the world a better place and lived her life with gusto. I am so grateful to have had her as a friend. She will be terribly missed. May her memory be a blessing.
Paula Sevier
November 3, 2023
Beautiful obituary....
Loved her.
RIP, Muffin!
John Barringer
November 3, 2023
Muffin and I worked together in Boulder in the 1980s. I will always remember her as a beacon of style, devoted to the truth and valued her fierce approach to getting things done.
Safi Martin
November 3, 2023
We met Hilary when she moved to our neighborhood in West Asheville and became fast friends. Like the best of my lady friends, she was fierce, compassionate, unapologetic, and wildly herself. We shared a love of gardens and plants, trading favorites and seeds annually. She taught me that friendship is, in fact, a verb...and I will forever treasure the collection of memories she gifted me.
Leslie Scott
November 3, 2023
I met Hilary in Mississippi when she ably and courageously led the Mississippi Chapter of the ACLU. That was my first sign of what a force of nature she was for things like justice, civil rights and personal freedom. She carried on her work for the public good every day thereafter. I'm so grateful that when we each retired we chose the same beautiful part of the country and reconnected here. I am glad that Hilary was born and that she lived a full life and that I knew her and that she inspired me until the end. I wish we could have had her with us longer is all. My thoughts for peace and comfort to her family. I will miss her as the fun and intelligent friend that she was and miss knowing she is here doing the important work of social justice that so motivated her life. We lost a real champion on her death.
Laura Perry
November 3, 2023
I loved Hilary´s passion! Passion for peace, passion for justice, passion for people. I am truly blessed to have called her friend.

GARY HUCK
November 3, 2023
She was the definition of a life well lived.
David Friedman
November 3, 2023
I so enjoyed knowing and working with Hillary during our ACLU days. She was one of the good ones. My condolences. David Friedman, Louisville, KY.
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