Hon. Thomas S. Durkin

1957 - 2024

Hon. Thomas S. Durkin obituary, 1957-2024, Brattleboro, VT

Hon. Thomas S. Durkin

1957 - 2024

BORN

1957

DIED

2024

Hon. Thomas Durkin Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 8, 2024.
Hon. Thomas S. Durkin, a dedicated family man and friend, as well as a well respected member of the Vermont legal community passed away peacefully on December 3, 2024 after a courageous battle with cancer. He was surrounded by his loved ones, and overlooking the beautiful property he had maintained for nearly four decades. He was 67 years old.

Tom was born in Brighton, MA and raised in Marlboro, MA. He developed a love for southern Vermont at a young age while traveling to ski at Hogback in Marlboro, Vermont with his "family" of both blood relatives and those who he would hold close for his entire life. Tom graduated from Marlboro College and earned his law degree from Vermont Law School. His passion for justice and his unwavering commitment to environmental stewardship defined a career that spanned decades and touched many.

Tom began his legal career serving the people of southern Vermont with integrity and a profound sense of responsibility. He established a trusted practice with a lifelong friend and instilled a dedication to service through many volunteer positions. His exceptional legal mind and commitment to fairness later led to his appointment as a Superior Court Judge on Vermont's Environmental Court, where he presided for twenty years. As a judge, Tom was known for his fairness, thoughtful rulings, mentorship and dedication to protecting Vermont's natural beauty.

Beyond his professional achievements, Tom was a loving husband to his wife Sue, who he met skiing in those early days at Hogback. They were married for over 42 years and were devoted parents to Michael, Emily and Caitlin. He was a steadfast friend to many and always welcomed an unexpected visit to catch up in the driveway or share a conversation on the deck. As a true Vermonter and avid outdoorsman, Tom found solace in gardening, a peaceful walk in the woods, hitting the slopes with his grandkids and taking care of his beautiful 200 year old farmhouse. He also had a love for the salty air, spending many happy days sailing the waters, and cruising the beaches of his beloved Cape Cod.

Tom's kindness, wisdom, and unwavering principles left an indelible mark on all who knew him. His legacy as a committed father, friend and protector of justice will be remembered and honored by his family, friends, colleagues, and the countless individuals whose lives he touched.

He is survived by his wife Susan, his son Michael and his wife Brianna, his daughter Emily and her husband Brandon and his daughter Caitlin and her husband, William. He also leaves behind his seven adoring grandchildren, Callum, Marley Rose, Bennett, Everett, Hudson, Isabella and Natalie as well as his father Tom Durkin, Sr., and his sisters Patte and Tracy, nieces, nephews, and dear friends. He was predeceased by his mother Janet Durkin and brother Peter.

A celebration of Tom's life will be held on Saturday, December 14th at 1 pm at Saint Michael's Church in Brattleboro, VT. A reception will follow at the Retreat Farm, Brattleboro Vermont. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Vermont Law and Graduate School or the Harris Hill Ski Jump, Inc., ensuring that his commitment to community and preservation of the legal community lives on.

The family wishes to extend their gratitude to the medical staff at Dana-Farber, DHMC and Bayada Hospice for their compassionate care and to their incredible friends and family for their support during this difficult time.

Tom's memory will forever be a guiding light to those who strive for a better and fairer world.

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June 2, 2025

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Jim Vitt

June 2, 2025

I just learned of Tom's passing. We were friends from Vermont Law School. My wife, Dianne, and I spent a spectacular day with Tom and Sue at a ski jump competition in the Brattleboro area about 40 years ago (before kids, and before we relocated), and we met Tom's wonderful parents at their B&B that day as well. All of the kind words I've read in Tom's obit applied then as well as now, but, of course, Tom was more than a "nice guy." He was a doer and an achiever, with a strong moral compass. Tom remains an inspiration to me as to how one should conduct himself or herself. Dianne and I send our condolences to Sue and the family, and we know Tom's rest is peaceful. Jim and Dianne Vitt

Dean Gelep

December 13, 2024

I can't say enough about my cousin Tommy Durkin, so I'll post a photo I saw at Tom's retirement ceremony from The Brattleboro Reformer. And also add a quote from his former law partner Ted Kramer here: "Tom Durkin is the happiest judge in America". Tom also represented two of my oldest friends Kathy and Jerry Costello of Wilmington. They had great admiration for Tom's professional legal expertise and his steady patience. They considered him a dear friend. I am adding an Irish Blessing here as well. Tom really wanted to make it to Ireland. I sent him photos of our trip there this past spring and he loved them. We will all miss him dearly. All the best, Tom and Sue and family, much love Dean and Monica

Bill Daley

December 12, 2024

Miss you brother Tom
Will miss conversing with you.
I have a friend in Heaven.... keep the door open.

Bill and Kathy Daley

December 12, 2024

We knew Tom and Sue and shared playgroups with our kids and socialized as couples every weekend when we lived in VT 40 years ago .. we have remained friends and we are so so saddened at the loss of this incredible man .. God has gained and angel and he will be sorely missed .. thank you Tom for making this world a better place .. we love and miss you

J. Scott Cameron

December 11, 2024

I was saddened to hear of Tom's passing. Although we practiced in different regions of Vermont we often had opportunities to interact, most frequently due to our mutual love and affaction for our alma mater, Vermont Law School (VLS). Tom was an excellent lawyer; one who served his clients well because he valued the day of understanding over the day of judgment. I was so glad to see Tom at the VBA Annual Meeting at Lake Morey this past September. There, with his family in attendance, he was presented with the President's Award for his exceptional contributions to the Vermont Bar and received a standing ovation from all in attendance. Tom, I will miss you, as will the entire legal community. Your memory is a blessing to us all. Sue, may you and your children be comforted at this difficult time. Bless you all. Scott Cameron

Dino DiNatale

December 10, 2024

TOM was one of the finest men in my life. the LOVE he shared and created in his family was an example for all of us. a diligent worker and a happy guy- he was a man`s man.-- even more a family man . So much a part of everyones life and lifes lessons for all he touched. As a person ,a father ,grandfather ,and judge, his life was a total success. He leaves behind a family of much love to whom he gave selflessly.

Chip Cummings

December 10, 2024

Dear Sue, Michael, Emily, and Caitlin,
Tom meant so much to our family You all did. And he always will have a special place in my memory. Thinking of you. Chip Cummings.

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