Ida Mae Abeel

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Ida Mae Abeel

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Ida Abeel Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Higgins Memorial Home - Freehold on Mar. 29, 2026.
Ida Mae Tumolo Abeel Tkoch, 94 of the Highlands, passed away on Saturday March 28, 2026, at Complete Care at Arbors, Manchester Township. She was born in Dover, NJ.

Ida graduated from nursing school and the Wilford Beauty Academy.

She was a hairdresser during her career and worked at KinderCare and the Pine Brook School in the Manalapan-Englishtown School District for many years.

She was a commissioner for Atlantic Highlands, a historian at Sandy Hook Lighthouse, and a member of the Republican Club.

She was predeceased by two children, Scott Abeel and Paula Abeel-Voss.

She is survived by her five loving children, Mark, Marie, Patric, William, and Michael; seven grandchildren; a great grandson, Alex; and two great great grandchildren.

Visitation will be held on Wednesday, April 1, 2026, from 3:00 to 7:00 PM at the Higgins Memorial Home, 20 Center Street, Freehold.

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