Irene Theresa Valenti

Irene Theresa Valenti obituary, Patchogue, NY

Irene Theresa Valenti

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500 North Ocean Avenue, Patchogue, NY 11772

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The Ruland Funeral Home

500 North Ocean Avenue, Patchogue, NY 11772

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15

Funeral Mass

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St. Sylvesters R.C. Church

68 Ohio Avenue, Medford, NY 11763

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Irene Valenti Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Ruland Funeral Home, Inc. - Patchogue on Nov. 12, 2025.

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Irene Theresa Valenti, 92, of Patchogue, New York, passed on November 11th, 2025. Loving mother of Debra (& Judson) Mellott, Darlene Rotolo, Philip Valenti, Rose Valenti, Paul Valenti, Mark (& Merry) Valenti, and the late WIlliam Valenti. Dearest sister of Shirley Combee, Victoria Strayton, and the late Vera Terry. Cherished grandmother of Darlene (& Joey), Vanessa (& James), Zakary (& Beth), Philip, Maggie (& Brad), Zeanna (& John), Alyssa, Nicholas, and great-grandmother of Savannah Rose.
Visiting for Irene will take place on Friday (Nov. 14th) from 2-4PM & 7-9PM at the Ruland Funeral Home in Patchogue. On Saturday (Nov. 15th) a Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:30AM at St. Sylvester RC Church in Medford. Burial to follow in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Coram.
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Upcoming Events

Nov

14

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

The Ruland Funeral Home

500 North Ocean Avenue, Patchogue, NY 11772

Send Flowers

Nov

14

Visitation

7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

The Ruland Funeral Home

500 North Ocean Avenue, Patchogue, NY 11772

Send Flowers

Nov

15

Funeral Mass

10:30 a.m.

St. Sylvesters R.C. Church

68 Ohio Avenue, Medford, NY 11763

Send Flowers

Only 13 hours left for delivery to next service.