Irmalee Smith Obituary
CARBONDALE – Irmalee Alta Smith, age 88, peacefully passed away on Thursday, January 8, 2026 at St. Joseph Memorial Hospital in Murphysboro.
Alta was born in Elco, Illinois on December 30, 1937 to Dwight Jackson “Lark” and Mary Lillian (Schilling) Betts. She married Graydon “Smitty” Smith on May 30, 1956 in Corinth, MS. He preceded her in death on October 12, 2024. They spent 68 years together making wonderful memories.
Alta dedicating herself to nurturing her family and creating a warm, loving home. She was known for her gentle spirit and her ability to see the good in everyone she met, never uttering a bad word about anyone. Her sweet nature radiated in everything she did, leaving a lasting impression on all who had the privilege of knowing her. Alta cherished her role as a mother and was a doting grandmother to her beloved grandchildren. Her love for family extended beyond mere affection; she provided a refuge of joy and comfort, especially for her children and grandchildren who were her pride and joy.
In addition to her family responsibilities, Irmalee found tranquility in tending to her indoor plants. This passion brought her joy and serenity, reflecting her nurturing spirit and love for life’s simple pleasures. Alta’s legacy will live on through her family and the countless lives she touched during her journey. Her kindness, warmth, and gentle wisdom will be deeply missed. Her faith was a guiding light, and she shared her faith and love openly with all those around her. She loved the Lord and spent time in his word and time in prayer for all of her children, grandchildren, and many others.
She is survived by her son, Benjamin (Susie) Smith; daughter, Treena Wicoff; grandchildren, Brittany (Austin) Allgaier, Nathan (Betsy) Smith, Stephanie (Chris) Wicoff, Tyler (Lacey) Smith, Abbie (Brice) Ott, Johnny (Tiara) Wicoff, Jacob Smith; eight great-grandchildren; sister, Edna Gold; brothers-in-law, Rodney Smith and Mike Smith; and sister-in-law, Vicky Jo Baker.
She was preceded in death by her husband, Smitty; parents; and thirteen siblings.
Funeral Services for Alta will be at 11:30 AM on Wednesday, January 14, 2026 at the Meredith Funeral Home in Carbondale with Pastor Mark Sims officiating. Burial will follow at St. John’s Cemetery in Dongola. Visitation will be from 10:30 AM until the time of service at the funeral home on Wednesday.
Meredith Funeral Home in Carbondale is in charge of arrangements. To leave a story or memory of Alta, visit meredithfh.com.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
People and places connected with Irmalee
Recent Obituaries
Recent Obituaries
Memories and Condolences
for Irmalee Smith
Make a Donation
in Irmalee Smith's name
How to support Irmalee's loved ones
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief
Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read more
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreWays to honor Irmalee Smith's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
