Jack Denton Utley Jr. D.M.D.

1941 - 2022

Jack Denton Utley Jr. D.M.D. obituary, 1941-2022

Jack Denton Utley Jr. D.M.D.

1941 - 2022

BORN

1941

DIED

2022

Jack Utley Obituary

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Jack Denton Utley, Jr. was born in Erie, PA on September 30, 1941 to Margaret and Jack D. Utley, Sr.. His family (including his sister Susan and brother James) lived in their home on upper State Street in Erie. He met and began dating the love of his life, Heidi Ann Martin, at Academy High School in 1957. He swam and played water polo at Academy, and was deemed the "Otter" by his coach and mentor, Frank Pettinato. He was a lifeguard at Presque Isle during high school, again working for Big Frank. After graduating from Academy in 1959, Jack studied Hotel Restaurant Management at Michigan State University, where he was President of the Psi Upsilon Fraternity. Jack graduated from Michigan State in 1963. Heidi and Jack married later that year, and had their son David in 1964.

Jack went to work for a big hotel chain in Columbus, OH, managing the "back of the house" which included the kitchen, restaurant, bar, front desk, laundry, parking, and housekeeping. After one year, Jack determined that "working for the man" was not for him. So, he hit RESTART. He and Heidi (and David) moved back to Erie, PA to a tiny flat on Plum Street, one block from Heidi's parents. Heidi taught elementary school to make ends meet. Jack worked as a delivery guy for a local Erie florist. He enrolled at Gannon to complete the science courses necessary to apply to dental school, he applied to Pitt Dental School, and he got in!! He graduated from Pitt Dental in 1971.

Jack then joined the U.S. Navy as Lieutenant stationed in Key West, FL, He worked as a dentist in the clinic on the Naval Submarine Base (Key West) as well as the Naval Air Station (Boca Chica). Jack bought a fishing boat, learned to dive and fish, and thought that Key West was quite literally Heaven. He, Heidi, and David would pull the boat up on the beaches of idyllic spots like Ballast Key and Snipe Point to snorkel, fish, and lounge. Jack and his buddies fished and dove every week, and caught a lot of Dorado, Sailfish, Marlin, Gooster, Grouper, Snapper, Yellow Tail, and of course, Grunts. He passed away as Retired Naval Lieutenant Commander. Thank you for your service.

In 1973, Jack and his family moved to Chapel Hill, NC, where he completed a fellowship in the orthodontic dentistry masters program. During that time, Jack and his son David became die-hard Carolina basketball fans, cheering for Dean Smith and his players. Jack and David remained Carolina fans and cheered together during the recent 2022 Carolina defeat of Duke in the final regular season game as well as the final four of the NCAA tournament.

In 1975, Jack and his family moved back home to Erie, PA where he started his orthodontic practice. Over the next 40 years, he helped create thousands of beautiful smiles in both children and adults. When you go anywhere in Erie with Jack, you often hear people say, "Hi Dr. Utley, you did my braces when I was in high school!" or "Hey Dr. Utley, thank you for my smile!"

Jack was selfless. For him, it was about "others", and NEVER about him.

He was always in the service of his family, his friends, his patients and their parents.

Jack loved to fly, earning his pilot's license in the Navy from a fighter pilot instructor.

He was also a good barterer, evidenced by the fact that he got to fly in an F-4 Phantom with one of his fighter pilot patients, in exchange for a root canal for the pilot. After the Navy, Jack owned and operated several aircraft (Cessna, Bonanza). And in his giving nature, he would often offer to fly his friends to a race, graduation, or wedding for the pure joy of it.

Jack loved the water and loved his boats, including a Mako open fisherman in Key West, his Grady White dream boat in Jupiter, and a 4Winns ski boat in Erie.

He played tennis competitively until 1986, and then turned his athletic focus to endurance sports like cross-country skiing, swimming, biking and running. He competed in the Erie Quad Games at least 30 times and myriad other races (World Loppett ski marathons, mountain bike races, open water swims, triathlons). His biggest athletic achievement was completing the Hawaii Ironman in 1987 and 1989.

Jack took up golf in his sixties at Kahkwa. He and his buddy won multiple club championships as a team. Jack also posted a club championship win or two as a solo golfer. He was able to shoot in the mid 80s right up until he turned 80. Jack was known to hit at least 100 practice shots or putts for every real live shot or putt on the course. His friend and Kahkwa golf pro told the story that "one night around 10 pm, we noticed that a golf cart was missing. We thought, that must be Jack." They went on a search and found Jack putting for practice on the 6th green at night using a head lamp.

Jack / Pops / Dad / Putz is deeply missed by his brother Jim Utley, sister Susan Grainda, son David Utley, daughter-in-law Kathy (Boscher) Utley, four grandchildren - Alek Utley, Haley Utley, MacKenzie Utley, and Emma Utley, countless other close family members and life-long friends.

In lieu of flowers or donations, please consider paying it forward TODAY in honor of Jack. Do something for another person, any other person, that is purely for that person's benefit and joy. When they say thank you, act surprised, or give you a smile….think of Jack. Peace.

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December 28, 2024

Karen mead posted to the memorial.

April 30, 2024

James and Karen Dunn posted to the memorial.

April 30, 2023

Jim and Karen posted to the memorial.

Karen mead

December 28, 2024

I believe I was one of his first patients on peach street ...

I just learned he had passed.

He is kind and patient

He always had time for me when he would see me out in the world as a kid and an adult - he remembered his patients long after they were patients...

I am so sorry for his family´s loss -

James and Karen Dunn

April 30, 2024

Its been a year and we think of Jack - one of the original "nordic guys" with an adventurist heart and competitive spirit.

Jim and Karen Dunn

Jim and Karen

April 30, 2023

In the past year we have often thought fondly of both Jack and Heidi. We are so glad that they visited with us in Florida two years ago. Jim and Karen Dunn (Bend, Oregon)

Myra Monsour

January 1, 2023

Loved the Utley driveway message"BEWARE OF SECURITY DOG" ....

Shannon Lampe Wilcox

May 13, 2022

Dave - My condolences to you and your family on your loss. Dr. Utley helped create many beautiful smiles, including mine and my sisters! In my senior year in high school, knowing that I didn't care for my metal braces, he offered me clear braces in exchange for my tips on improving his flip turns. What a great guy!

Doupe Family

May 11, 2022

Our hearts go out to you all.
God Bless

Karen Spilko

May 11, 2022

Thank you to my "hero" Dr. Utley for making me WANT to smile. You touched my life briefly, but impactfully. You were truly a man amongst men...

John Gordon

May 9, 2022

Dr. Utley was my orthodontist for 10+ years. I was born with a bilateral cleft lip and palate and he played a pivotal role throughout my intensive orthodontic journey. The optimistic energy and care level he provided was truly special. From the comforting office culture he created to caddying and playing golf with him at Kahkwa ($5 per birdie) - everything about him was selfless. I'll be forever grateful for the service he provided and for his friendship.

Clarence and Sandy Kearney

May 8, 2022

God Bless Jack, he was liked by all he met. A true gentleman and friend. God Bless him and all the Family

Kathy and Dan Dahlkemper

May 7, 2022

Our deepest condolences on the passing of a fine man who made you feel better about yourself. His love of nature and flying and of life. So sorry for your loss.

Sue Gerrety

May 7, 2022

Your parents were so sweet, they loved to talk about you and your family. Tim and Jack worked closely together, referring patients to each other. Our two grown children went to your Dad!
They enjoyed their visits to his office!!!!
God Bless you and your family and always keep those precious memories of your Mom and Dad close to your heart

Brad and Robin neel

May 6, 2022

We were so sorry to hear of dr. Utley's passing. He gave our two children, meredith and Jordan, beautiful smiles. Dr. Utley was a great man. He had such an upbeat personality. Our kids always thought he was so cool. I'll never forget, after we moved out of the erie area, he knew our daughter was in college, so he sent her a huge tin of popcorn. What an unexpected surprise, but that was Dr. Utley! You all have our deepest sympathy.

Jack Maloney

May 6, 2022

I am a first cousin of Heidi, and there are no superlatives that can be added to her life story with Jack. He was just a kind, considerate, unassuming, gracious family man, dentist to countless children including our two(2) daughters and athlete as illustrated. Jack and Heidi both have a place in God´s heavenly kingdom. Amen.

Marilyn McClellan

May 6, 2022

I thought of Jack as I watched the Duke v UNC 2022 games.

A Duke fan.

Dave Ohmer

May 6, 2022

My most heartfelt condolences for Jack's family on his passing. I have the fondest of memories regarding Jack from my cycling days back in the 1980s and 90s. One of my most significant honors back in that time was being hired by Jack to coach his cycling program as he trained for the Ironman Triathlon. He had a big heart and mentored me through some tough times back then, and I'm extremely grateful for knowing him. May he find comfort in Christ's presence.

Mark Russo

May 6, 2022

Dr. Utley was a wonderful human being. He was welcoming, kind, thoughtful, and always the consummate professional. May his warmth and good-nature live on in the patients who were fortunate to have been treated by him. ...My deepest condolences to his family and friends.

David Lewis

May 6, 2022

I was an assistant professional at The Kahkwa Club a number of years ago. I was over from Ireland for a few years and Doc Utley and Heidi invited me over to their lovely house for dinner on a number of occasions.
What a wonderful man, condolences to the Utley family.

Lauren D Steele

May 6, 2022

I used to make M&M Flurries for Dr. Utley at Creamland. He was always so sweet and polite. It was a pleasure to wit on him. I no longer work there, but he crossed my mind, often. His passing makes me sad and I am soo sorry.

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