Jacob G. Bender

Jacob G. Bender obituary

Jacob G. Bender

Jacob Bender Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 27, 2016.
Jacob G. Bender, 69, of Reading, passed away July 27, 2016 in the Reading Hospital. He was the widower of Christine L. (Bobeck) Bender. Born in Reading, he was the son of the late Jacob P. and Marie (Wiele) Bender. Mr. Bender graduated from Kutztown University with honors in 1974. He was employed as controller of the Greater Pennsylvania Savings Association in Hazelton for many years and most recently was the financial officer for the Commonwealth of PA at the Southeastern Veterans Center in Spring City. Jacob was a dedicated patriot and served as treasure of Berks County Patriots. He was also active in juvenile justice counseling. Survivors include his children Jesse M. Bender of Hazelton; Steven J. Bender of Blandon; three grandchildren Bennett Bender, Anthony Yates and Aurielle Bender. Other survivors include twin brother Edmund W. Bender, husband of Jane of Reading; sister Karen R. Kelly of Blandon; sister Renate Walker, wife of Bert of Reiffton. He was preceded in death by a brother Peter W. Bender. Memorial service to celebrate Mr. Bender’s life will be held in Grace Bible Fellowship, 1128 Hampden Blvd., Reading, PA 19604 on Thursday August 4, 2016 at 11:00am.

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July 27, 2025

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August 18, 2016

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August 15, 2016

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Barbara McClintock (Benstead)

July 27, 2025

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

cindy diehl

August 18, 2016

I have known the "Bender twins" since first grade. Lovable guys and great sense of humor. Will be missed by class of "64" and all who knew him.

Cynthia Kelsey

August 15, 2016

I am so sad I did not know...I will miss seeing Jake at the Patriots meeting more than I can say. He always had a smile and a funny comment for me that I always looked forward to.

Linda Sterner-Baniszeski

August 4, 2016

My sister (Patty) and I always remember the "Bender twins" from elementary through high school. So sorry to learn of Jacob's life on this earth cut short, Deepest condolences to his wife and children, and to Ed and Karen and families. He has gone home to the Lord, where all of his loved ones can be with him for eternity. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

August 3, 2016

Jacob, a fellow classmate from Oley Valley H/S.
My thoughts and prays to the family. I will always remember the class reunion with you there and your great smile. Rest in God's arms now.

John Dunkle

August 3, 2016

A great friend. I taught English but he had a better control of the language.

Barbara Benstead-Mcclintock

August 2, 2016

so sorry for the family's loss.. May GOD bless a life well lived.. Rest in Peace Jacob!

OVAHS Class of 1964

August 2, 2016

Jacob you will be missed by all from the Oley Valley Class of 1964 Are thoughts go out to the family at this time.

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