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Jacob Plude Obituary
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Lori C Lafayette
August 27, 2019
Sadly missed and fondly remembered.
Brad C
August 28, 2014
Just came across this today and it brought me back to all the fond memories I had with you in High School and Middle School. Thank you for being a wonderful friend to so many people including myself. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Mom
April 12, 2013
Missing you so much Jacob, still does not seem possible that you are gone. In my heart and mind each and every day!! xoxox
Mom
December 10, 2012
another christmas coming up without you in it. god we miss you!! Cam and Elyse are coming here to try to get back to what we did when you where still here, so glad they are coming. Merry Christmas in heaven my special one!! I love you!! xoxoxoxoxo
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Elyse Plude
August 31, 2012
Missing you so much honey! It's 2 years today that you have been gone and it feels like forever. I love you so much. You will forever be a part of our lives. Cam is such an amazing kid. He is so strong and bright and doing such a wonderful job through these hard times. Thank you for giving me one of the best gifts ever. Loving you always! xoxoxoxoxo
Jacob and Cam. Father and Son
August 30, 2012
Jake tomorrow will be 2 years you have been gone. It is still so hard to believe!!! Cam is growing into a wonderful young man, you had such an influence on him at such a young age. He is definetly your mini me. I am so proud of everything you became, and with more time in this world the sky would have been your limit. The emptiness in our hearts will never be filled. Please keep watching over us. Until we meet again. Love and miss you so so much!!! Mom
Elyse
July 17, 2012
I love you so much honey! It's almost been 2 years now, and I still can't believe the way everything has turned out. You will forever be my one and only. And you would be so proud of Cam. He is just amazing. We do have someone looking after us, like I know you would want. But it will still never be the same. I miss you sooooo much! xoxoxoxoxoxo
Anon
July 16, 2012
Jake... you will always be very special to me. Sorry to hear of your passing. We had a good if only brief time.
Thanks.
MOM
April 25, 2012
MISSING YOU SO MUCH!!
mom
September 14, 2011
Happy 9th anniversary jake. elyse is missing you so much, as we all are but today i am sure is harder for her than us. i remember how young you were and you stepped up to be a husband and a dad and you were awesome at both. I am so proud of the man you became!!!! love and miss you
Mom
September 10, 2011
happy belated birthday jake, didnt think this site was still online. Karissa did the sweetest thing and took, len, jon, kate and I out to dinner last night to celebrate your birthday. your dad, jon and I went to the cemetary and the tree as we did on aug 31st for a year that you have been gone. god how we all miss you so much.
Mom
August 12, 2011
it is coming up on mine and lens 1 year anniversary, how happy we all were that day!! than the worst thing that ever could have happened, happened! it is almost 1 year you have been gone. god how i miss you!! had cam for a visit yesterday, he really is your mini me. youd be so proud of him, but he misses you so much, as do we all. LOVE YOU!!
little bro
June 12, 2011
jake we really miss u somuch and cant get over what happend but i just keep doing what i said i was going to do in ur honor and wish i could just pick up the phone and call u but i know i will see u again somday
Mom
April 24, 2011
Happy Easter Jacob. Missing you so much!! I love you
Mom
April 6, 2011
It is Jons birthday and a very very hard day for him. I know you would have visited him after work tonight to celebrate. I had to go see you today, it makes these hard days a little easier if I come for a visit. I planted some daffadils for you and gram and gramp hodlin. I hope you are all watching over us. LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!!
Mom
March 1, 2011
As Elyse's,your dad's and my birthday will be here this week it will be hard for all. We are celebrating this sunday, Elyse is the big 30 and I know you would have done something special for her if you were here seeing you were always so thoughtful of her. We will and are wishing you were here, our 1st birthdays without you. We love and miss you so much!!!!!!!! Mom
Cindi Szurek
March 1, 2011
Hi Jake, as all of the enteries in this book, you know you are greatly loved and missed by many, many of us. I still expect to see you or hear you on the phone. Miss you alot
Reagan Szurek
March 1, 2011
I miss you,and think of you often. Love ya
Elyse
March 1, 2011
I love you honey! I write to you and talk to you all the time. It just isn't the same. But my love for you is. I would walk to the end of the earth for you. I miss you. Cam misses you. Your mom and brother and dad. And all of your great friends. You're always on everyones mind because you are the most special person ever. You are my hero. And always will be. I'm trying to be strong for you. And for Cam. That's all that's getting me by. I love you always and forever! xoxoxoxo
Cristina Rinaldi
February 27, 2011
I love you Jake
mom
December 31, 2010
Happy New Years in Heaven Jake. I miss you so much!!
Mom
December 24, 2010
Merry Christmas Jacob, you are missed so much, this christmas is not easy for any of us but we were all together with Cam and Elyse, she made us a wonderful dinner and we talked of you often. Wishing you were here. Love you, Mom
Stephen Reed
December 14, 2010
After reading all these wonderful things about Jacob I regret I never met him.Living in Florida has limited me at times to get to know all my relatives, especially the younger ones.As Jakes great Uncle I feel saddened I never knew you but know your life was filled with love by your mother Karen and Aunts and Uncles.My love to your family.
Mom
November 25, 2010
Happy Thanksgiving Jake. We are missing you greatly!!! I have been thinking about the holidays when you and Jon were little and how we always would use the china, and how much you loved to have hot cider in those little tea cups. Cam is doing so well, probably better than the rest of us. We miss and love you very much!!!!!!!!
Jennifer Miller
October 5, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Our love and sympathy, The Millers
(your baseball and doggie buddies) We are so sorry ):
Melissa Merrill
October 4, 2010
Elyse, We are thinking of you and praying for you and Cameron as you grieve. We will remember Jay as a wonderful father and husband. We are so sad for your tragic loss and want to extend our deepest sympathy.
mom
October 4, 2010
Jon and I are missing you so much!!
Joanne Anderegg
September 10, 2010
Happy Birthday in heaven. My thoughts are with your family today.
Mom
September 9, 2010
HAPPY 26TH BIRTHDAY JACOB, WE WILL BE HAVING PEPPERONI PIZZA WITH CAMERON TONIGHT IN YOUR HONOR!!! WE MISS AND LOVE YOU SO MUCH, OUR LIVES WILL NEVER BE THE SAME!!!
Jacob and Elyse
Karen Kloo
September 5, 2010
Jacob, Mom, Jon
Karen Kloo
September 5, 2010
Dad and Cameron
Karen Kloo
September 5, 2010
Cameron, Jacob, Mom and Jonathan
Karen Kloo
September 5, 2010
Joanne Anderegg
September 4, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Jake when he was in junior high with my two daughters. He was a great kid and will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Colleen Pollard
September 4, 2010
Elyse, Cameron, and the rest of the family our deepest sympathy goes out to you all. You are all in our thoughts and prayers and we are deeply saddened by this tragic loss. Jake was a wonderful person and his spirit will be missed. Elyse and Cameron we are here for you always. This is such a huge loss and we are so sorry.
September 3, 2010
We are saddened to hear of your loss, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Joe & Julie Romanowski
Diana & Marty Powell
September 3, 2010
Elyse, even though we only met Jacob once at Ryans birthdsy party the other day we knew what a special man he was. Word cannot rxpress the sadness we feel for you and his family. When your heart is empty, filling it with happy memories can help you find your smile.
An EH Resident
September 3, 2010
I am very sorry for the lost of your husband, father, son, son in law, brother. This was so tragic I feel for the entire family. Stay strong for each other.
John & Allison Hislop
September 3, 2010
Dear Elyse and Cameron,
John and I want you to know are here for you and Cameron. We are grateful to have known Jake. I hope your love and memories of Jake will help you get through this difficult time.
September 3, 2010
Karen, I'm so sorry for your loss. Dean and I will always remember Jacobs big smile. I will always cherish our last visit with him and Jonathan, we had alot of laughs about the past . I was so surprised how much he rememmbered us, it ment alot to both of us.Your boys will always have a little piece of my heart. Stay strong Maryann and Dean
Donna Valli
September 3, 2010
Dear Karen and family,
Please accept my deepest sympathies at this difficult time for all of you. I remember Jacob as a kind little boy in my classroom at Memorial School. I was shocked when his name appeared in the report of this tragic accident.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Donna Valli
Jessica
September 3, 2010
He will be missed by so many. My heart goes out to his family. It hits so close to home seeing that I have a son the same age as his and my boyfriend & him are the same age. My heart goes out to his family & friends. Jake will always be in our hearts!!
sharon Scarrozzo
September 3, 2010
Karen and family I remember jacob when he was a lil boy living @ woodbury circle my thoughts and prayers go out to you all I'm so sorry. Sharon Scarrozzo (Paguni)
Ken Pfaffenbach
September 3, 2010
im sorry to say i havn't seen jake in years, in grade school we were thick as thieves. he was a great friend and i can only imagine him being an amazing father. will be sorely missed
Alexis McCabe
September 3, 2010
Dear Elyse, Cameron, & family,
I went to school with Jacob when we were children. It's been about 11 years since I've last seen or talked to him, but I heard about what happened to him yesterday. I am so sorry for your loss and my heart and prayers go out to your family. May the Lord heal your hearts.
Cheryl & Ted Gorczyca
September 2, 2010
Karen, John & Family,
Our hearts are heavy for your loss & pain. Still so familiar to us. You aren't alone. Keep the memories close. Remember, Jacob will always be with you.
Cheryl & Ted Gorczyca
September 2, 2010
Karen, John & Family,
Our hearts are heavy with your loss & pain. Still so familiar to us. You aren't alone. Keep the memories close. Remember, Jacob will always be with you.
Cheryl&Ted Gorczyca
September 2, 2010
Karen, John & Family,
Our hearts are heavy hearing of your loss and pain. Still so familiar to us. You aren't alone. Keep the memories close. Remember, Jacob will always be with you.
Tony and Erin Pitrone
September 2, 2010
Elyse, Cameron, & Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Bryan always spoke very highly of Jake, and his devotion to you and Cameron. We hope memories of him provide comfort to you, Cameron, and the rest of your family.
Please let me know if we can be of any help during this difficult time.
Cheryl/Ted Gorczyca
September 2, 2010
Karen, John & Family,
Our hearts are heavy hearing of your loss and pain. Still so familiar to us. You aren't alone. Keep the memories close. Jacob will always be with you!
Emelie Napolitano
September 2, 2010
Elyse, Cameron, & Family
In the short time that we have known you and Jake, there have been many memories made that will never be forgotten. We always enjoyed his sense of humor, and loved having our get togethers. I cannot express how much we miss him, but I hope you can take comfort in knowing that you will always have a guardian angel to watch over you. His love for his friends and family was beyond what words can describe, and he has taken that with him and he will always be in our hearts. We love you, and if there is anything we can do at all please do not hesitate to call us. Love Emelie, Billy, Josie, and Ryan
Rick, Dawn & Katelyn Smith
September 2, 2010
Elyse, Cameron, Jim, Karen, John & family--Words cannot begin to express how terribly saddened we were to hear of Jake's death. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with each and every one of you now and in the coming days, weeks and months. If you need anything at all, you only need to ask.
Donna Nobile
September 2, 2010
Karen & Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you and your family as you grieve. Consider yourself being hugged.
Lollie Dubiel
September 2, 2010
Dear Plude family,
I've never met Jake but I'm a good friend of his Uncle Joe.
Uncle Joe told me about how well Jake was doing, embracing fatherhood and the responsibilities that came along with it. He always described Jake as a thoughtful and gentle young man. Although I've never met him, I feel as if I know him thru his uncle. My deepest sympathies to your family.
Wayne & Anne Reed
September 2, 2010
Karen & Family,
Our love and thoughts are with you and the familiy at this sad time.
It all happened so fast. You take care and know your family are at your side.
Love & Hugs
0x0x0x0x0x0x
Uncle Wayne & Aunt Anne
Barbara Charland
September 2, 2010
Elyse, Cameron, Debbie, Sal, Bryan & Cristina,
There are no words to express at this time except that we are here for you if you need us in any way! Jake had a special place waiting for him I am sure! He will be very missed by all who knew him!
Jake's family, be proud, as he lived a life by standard that he wanted his son to be proud of and we know as Cameron grows our stories will help him to know his Dad even more.
Love and prayers to you all.
Barbara & Richard
Cheryl Petroff
September 2, 2010
Elyse & Cameron: We are so sorry to hear of the loss of a wonderful husband and father. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if you need ANYTHING. Sincerely, Kurt Petroff & Family
Sandy and Jack Hooker
September 2, 2010
I'm so sorry for your tragic loss. You and your family are in our prayers.
Sandy and Jack Hooker
Reagan Szurek
September 2, 2010
Elyse&Cameron
I am beyond words. Jakes accident was so sudden. You will be missed, and never forgotten Jake.
If you ever need anything I'm just a phone call away. My thoughs and prayers are with you and your family.
Jack & Alice Forbes
September 2, 2010
Karen & Family,
We are deeply sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless You All.
Chris Walz
September 2, 2010
What a tragic loss of an amazing man. Elyse and Cameron, we love you and will be here for you. We will miss Jake and he will be remembered for the wonderful friend/ son/ father/ husband he was. Knowing him has been a gift and a blessing. What a special family ! Love,Chris and family
Lori & Tim Lafayette
September 2, 2010
Elyse and Cameron,
I am so saddened over the tragic loss of Jake. I loved the times when your family was together with Billy, Emelie and the children and I was able to be a part of it. The memories will be treasured and Jake will always be fondly remembered.
Karie-anne Everlith
September 2, 2010
Oh Elyse, I am so incredibly sorry and sad for you and Cameron. My most heartfelt prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. If there is ANYTHING we can do to help you through this, we are here for you.
Tammie Rigoletti
September 2, 2010
Elyse my heart is broken for you. I can't imagine what you are going threw. Sorry to hear of Jake's passing. May God bless you in this time of sorrow.
Patrice Johndrow
September 2, 2010
I am so sorry for your sudden loss of Jake. I only met Jake 2 years ago when Cameron was in Kindergarten. I could see he was a loving husband and father.
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