James Radford Small II

James Radford Small II obituary, Honolulu, HI

James Radford Small II

James Small Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by O'ahu Mortuary on Aug. 23, 2024.

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James Radford Small II, known affectionately as Rad to his family and friends, passed away on July 10, 2024, in Honolulu, Hawai'i, after bravely facing frontotemporal degeneration. Born on October 5, 1965, in Big Rapids, Michigan, Rad led a life full of love, laughter, and fierce determination.
Rad is survived by his wife, Alissa Brownrigg Small, and their three children, Caelan, Haley, and Colby. He also leaves behind his mother, Marion Runquist Small, his sisters Susan and Sarah (Joe Calderon) Small, and brother Chris "Buster" Small (Kati). He was predeceased by his father, James Radford Small. He was a caring uncle to his three nieces and two nephews. His friends, who he counted as family, and his in-laws will miss him dearly, all of whom he touched with his quick wit and kind heart.
Rad earned his Bachelor of Arts at the University of California, Berkeley, followed by a Juris Doctor at Loyola Law School. His uncanny ability to memorize code and think through complex problems led him further to obtain a Master of Laws in Taxation at New York University School of Law. Rad embarked on a distinguished career.
Radford began his professional journey as a tax attorney, and his sharp intellect and keen interest in the financial realm then led him to the world of investment banking at Goldman, Sachs & Co., where he worked up to the role of Managing Director, specializing in the energy sector. He cherished the lasting and meaningful relationships he formed with his colleagues over the years. His career path continued as he moved on to SolarCity and later, Tesla.
Radford's true joy, however, was found in the laughter and love of his family. He relished family time, whether he was globe-trotting with his tribe, cheering on the Sharks and Raiders, or carving up the slopes in Vail, Colorado. His pride in his kids' achievements was palpable and he was their ultimate fan, whether they were scoring goals, strumming guitar strings, or tackling life's hurdles.
As for his wife, Alissa, Radford was her biggest supporter, always ready with encouraging reminders of her capability and a well-timed wisecrack to keep her smiling through her varied activities and interests.
Radford preferred to stand back quietly and take in all that was happening around him, but always appreciated a good laugh and warm connection with others. He saw the best in everyone and was able to find the optimal outcome in every situation.
We honor Rad's life; lived to the fullest and ended far too early. He will be deeply missed, but the positivity and kindness he brought to this world will continue to shine in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know him.
Rad's life will be celebrated in a private family ceremony. The family would be grateful for any contributions made to the Association of Frontotemporal Degeneration in honor of his memory. Any help making progress in the support and research of this little-recognized but devastating disease is appreciated. https://www.theaftd.org/
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