James Edmund Smith

James Edmund Smith obituary, Lewes, DE

James Edmund Smith

James Smith Obituary

Published by Legacy on Mar. 30, 2026.
James E. Smith, 71, Lewes, DE, passed away on March 27, 2026. Born on January 18, 1955, in Philadelphia, James was the beloved son of the late Wilbert and Mildred (Murphy) Smith. He was also predeceased by his brother, Wilbert "Bil" Smith and brother in law Steve Kucinski.

James is survived by his devoted wife of 22 years, Sarah (Packer) Smith, and his siblings: Dennis (Donna), Eileen Thomson, David (Anja), Kathy Kucinski, Marybeth (Kevin) Jarman, and Teresa (John) Milne, and his in-laws Nancy (Bil) Smith, Karan Packer (Ed Melega), Alexandra (Jeff) Poling, and Bill Packer. He was also a loving uncle to his nieces and nephews, and also had many cousins with whom he was very close.

James attended Shawnee High School where he was the first 3 time District Champ, and was the Captain of the undefeated wresting team his Senior year. He went on to earn a Bachelor's Degree in Computer Science at Rutgers University, where he was also a member of the wrestling team. He was known for his sharp mind and innovative spirit, always full of ideas and eager to share them. James' sense of humor, generosity, and outgoing personality made him the life of the party. Above all, he was a loving husband, brother, and uncle who was cherished by his many family and friends for whom he will be forever missed.

James found joy in life's simple pleasures-reading, long walks, and being surrounded by nature. He especially loved traveling to Cape May and visiting with family and friends. James had a special fondness for turtles, he was known as the turtle whisperer. He was an avid sports fan who passionately cheered for the Philadelphia Eagles and Phillies. He enjoyed horse racing, particularly the Kentucky Derby, accompanied by a traditional Mint Julep. James and Sarah were married on the Preakness 2004, and he referred to The Preakness as his anniversary.

James will be remembered for his warmth, laughter, and the lasting impact he made on everyone who knew him. His presence brought light and joy to so many, and he will be deeply missed.

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