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Jay Weiner Obituary

Jay Weiner, MD
Dr. Jay Weiner, 90, husband of Patricia (Hermann) Weiner, father of Sarah Verneuille, Jason Weiner, and Wendy Weiner, grandfather of six and great-grandfather of two, died on Friday, January 9, 2026. Funeral services will take place on Monday, January 12, 2026, at 11 A.M. at Congregation B'nai Israel, 193 Clapboard Ridge Rd., Danbury. Burial will follow in Children of Israel Cemetery, Miry Brook Rd., Danbury.

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Published by Danbury News Times from Jan. 9 to Jan. 10, 2026.

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Rebecca Richter- Keig

January 28, 2026

I moved to Danbury in 1979 as a new bride and was fortunate to work with Dr Weiner the other wonderful Doctors of Danbury Internal Medicine.
He had a wonderful sense of humor and was very kind.
My condolences to Mrs Weiner, Children and extended family.
I have never forgotten him after all these years.

Mary F Tilford

January 23, 2026

I´m so sorry for your loss. I was a patient of Dr Weiner in thd early 70´s. He was a really great doctor! Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Mary F Tilford

Melissa

January 21, 2026

My dear Pat and family. Jay was such a sweet man. May he be at peace. Big hugs to you and the kids. Melissa. Rvnahealth

Lisa Burgess

January 16, 2026

Dear Patricia , Jason,Wendy and family. Please accept our deepest condolences. We loved our dear friend Jay . He will be sorely missed.

Larry Nkabinde and Lisa Burgess

Joyce Smith

January 12, 2026

Mrs Weiner and family , so sorry for your loss. He was a wonderful kind and caring doctor. He was my husband Phil´s doctor for years.
Joyce Smith

Donna Yantorno

January 12, 2026

Dear Patricia, Jason , Wendy & family. I extent to all of you my deepest sympathy. Jay was a dear friend employer & a mentor. Jay ,you challenged me to be a better nurse & person in your words &actions. For 27+years , I watched & learned . Your kindness, caring was witnessed by me each day. Never a day passed that you did not thank the entire staff for the day. In the climate of today´s medicine you are what a doctor should be to their patients & staff! I am truly sorry that I cannot say goodbye to you. Jay you will always be with
me in my heart &prayers.Donna

Evi

January 12, 2026

Dr. Weiner was a wonderful healer. He was so very kind to my Mom. She once said," Dr. Weiner treats the body with excellence and restores health but he heals your soul. You leave the office laughing and smiling because no matter what´s wrong, you have the best doc taking care of you!"
May his memory be a blessing to you all, because he was a blessing to his patients!

Barbara Susnitzky

January 12, 2026

Dear Pat and family, I had every intention of being with you this morning but a minor medical problem for Carl needed my attention. Jay played an important role in so many of our lives. He was therefore his family, his patients, friends, and community. Danbury will be forever in his debt.

Hon Dianne Yamin (ret.)

January 12, 2026

Patricia and family, We are so sorry for your loss. We loved seeing you and Jay at so many WestConn events and at many cultural events . I´ll never forget the time you invited me, my daughter and my niece back to your lovely home to meet the CT Ballet dancers after their performance at the Ives Center!

Mike Fenster

January 12, 2026

RIP to my one-time doctor. A sweet and caring man. Think of him and he lives in your heart. Michael Fenster

Renata Adler

January 11, 2026

I cannot imagine a better, finer, wiser, more caring doctor or friend than Jay Weiner. I love him and his dear wife Patricia. I hope, and sort of believe that we meet in the next life, under happier circumstances than the world as it is now. Condolences to the whole family. love, Renata

Renata Adler

January 11, 2026

I cannot imagine a finer, more caring, wiser, funnier doctor or friend than JAY Weiner. I loved him and his dear wife Patricia.
I hopevandvsort of believe we meet again in the next life, under happier circumstances than the world as it is now. With love, Renata

Maureen

January 11, 2026

To Pat ,Jason,Wendy and rest of the family.
What?\nDeep sympathy, I will truly miss Dr. Weiner, I worked with him as a nurse for over 25 years on Locust Avenue, he was the kindest caring person anyone would want to meet.. It was a pleasure to work with him . I am so glad we were able to reunite at CHUCKS 2 years ago..with the old office gang....
Rest in eternal peace Dr. Jay
Love. Maureen Juliano

Ranjit Aiyagari

January 10, 2026

I was so fortunate to be assigned Jay as a mentor throughout medical school. He taught me how to be a better doctor, a better listener, a better person. I will miss him terribly. Condolences to the Weiner family. Love, Ranjit Aiyagari

David Weinshel

January 10, 2026

Jay was a uniquely, bright, well-rounded, caring and funny individual.
As a new medical resident, he taught me many lessons I use to this day.
As a brand new transplant to Danbury Connecticut, he welcomed me to his home for the Jewish holidays when my schedule did not allow me to spend it with my family in New York.
A true gentleman physician.

Tom Pace

January 10, 2026

Dear Pat,
Jay was both a friend and my doctor. I will always have him my heart. He always referred to me as his mechanic. I had much love and respect for him.

Love to you,
Tom Pace

Tom Pace

January 10, 2026

Dear Pat ,

Jay was my friend and my doctor, his memory will be strong in my heart.

Love,
Tom Pace

Katherine Dorn Lewis

January 10, 2026

Jay was such a loving and great man to be around! A great supporter of the arts and his friends and family. He will be greatly missed. I will miss him very much!!

Raji Satchi

January 10, 2026

Our deepest sympathies . He was a great physician and friend . May his soul rest in peace . our prayers are with the family . love Raji and Satchi

Patty Loya

January 10, 2026

I worked with Dr. Weiner for over 30 years and have such wonderful memories of him. He was such a kind soul with a wonderful sense of humor. Sending prayers and love to his family.

JoAnn Brown

January 10, 2026

Dr. Weiner was my Father's physician. I have fond memories of his kindness and empathy.

Dorothy Ellen Cogswell

January 10, 2026

Dr Weiner was my grandparents doctor. My mother's dr and mine. He was a wonderful Dr and man

Kim

January 10, 2026

Mrs.Weiner, we are so sorry to hear of Jays passing. You both were wonderful neighbors to us for so many years and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
The Gaita Family

Caroline Burkat Hall

January 10, 2026

Condolences to the Weiner family from the family of old friends of the Weiners, Leonard and Marion Burkat.

Jim King

January 10, 2026

Ver sorry to hear of Dr.Weijers death.He was a wonderful doctor and a very nice man.

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