Jean Messina Obituary
Passed away on October 17, 2025 at the age of 80.
Predeceased by her parents, Howard & Josephine Drexel; brother, Howard Drexel Jr.
She is survived by her siblings, Joanne Nelson, Arthur Drexel, & Patty (Gerald) Middleton; nieces & nephews, Mark, Sandy, Michael, Kim, Gina, Joey, Nicole, & Lorraine; many loving extended family & friends.
A special thank you to Kirkhaven Nursing Home for their loving and compassionate care.
Per Jean's wishes there will be no services.
Contributions may be made to: Dementia Society OR Rochester Regional Hospice Care
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