Jesse - Havens

Jesse Havens, age 44, passed away on December 29, 2025. Born and raised in San Diego, Jesse was a beloved son, brother, uncle, and friend whose presence left a lasting mark on everyone who knew him.
Known for his warm heart and genuine nature, Jesse had a way of making people feel seen and valued. He loved deeply, laughed often, and lived life with authenticity. Over the last four years, Jesse was working toward earning his degree and dedicated himself to helping others, serving as a counselor with a deep passion for supporting as many people as he could.
Jesse found joy in music, the beach, and making memories with those he loved most-especially his nephew, who held a very special place in his heart.
He is survived by his loving mother, Debbie Havens; his sister, Alicia Buck; his brother-in-law, Daniel Buck; and his nephew, Payton Buck, along with countless friends who will forever cherish the memories they shared with him.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, January 31st, from 1:00–4:00 PM at the VFW in El Cajon. Casual attire. Refreshments will be provided.
Jesse will be missed beyond words and remembered always.