Jhangiani Ishu

1928 - 2014

Jhangiani Ishu obituary, 1928-2014, Vancouver, BC

Jhangiani Ishu

1928 - 2014

BORN

1928

DIED

2014

Jhangiani Ishu Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 21, 2014.
Ishu Dayal JHANGIANI passed peacefully on Sunday, May 18, 2014 at Banfield Pavilion Residential Care Facility in Vancouver, BC. She was 86 years old.
The youngest of seven children, Ishu was born on February 17, 1928 to Dharamdas Tilokchand Shahani and his wife Shammi in Hyderabad, Sindh. Ishu did her schooling in the Sindh, and received her distinction in Chemistry at the University of Bombay in 1946.
During Partition in 1947, Ishu and her extended family of 13 siblings, nieces, and nephews left their home en masse. Their migration from what is now Pakistan took them first to Rajkot, Gujarat where they lived with a Jain family. A year later, they settled in the twin cities of Secunderabad/Hyderabad, Andhra Pradesh, India.
Ishu Shahani met the dashing Dayal Kishanchand Jhangiani in Karachi and they married on February 25, 1955 in Bombay, India. They traveled to Europe in March when Dayal was transferred to the Indian Embassy in Brussels, Belgium. Their first daughter Neena was born in Brussels and their second daughter Geeta followed after they relocated back to Delhi, India. Dayal's next transfer took him to Phnom Penh, Cambodia where they stayed for another three years before moving back to India for a final three years in their country of origin. In 1968, the family moved to Vancouver, BC. Dayal took early retirement from the Indian Foreign service in 1972 and applied for Canadian landed immigrant status for the family.
In the late 1970's Ishu became employed as a Nurse's Aid, while Dayal embarked on a second career as a Manager at Sunlife Insurance. This was a major life change as she had been a homemaker extraordinaire during her husband's foreign service career. She'd been very happy caring for her children and husband and entertaining with frequent dinner and cocktail parties. Their home was always considered an open house, with friends dropping by on a regular basis. Ishu and Dayal both loved entertaining, travel and keeping in touch with their many friends in different parts of the world.
They were thrilled to have their first grandchild when Ashvin was born in 1982 and became doting grandparents. Life changed dramatically on July 12, 1986 when Dayal Jhangiani lost his fight with cancer. Neena's second son Rishi, had been born only 46 days earlier, on May 27th.
With both the grief of her husband's passing and the joy of two young grandchildren at home, Ishu retired from work. She volunteered, gardened, enjoyed reading and socializing but her happiest role was that of a loving grandmother. She shared her cultural traditions and imparted her love, kindness and wisdom to all.
Ishu is survived by her daughters Neena Shahani and Geeta Jhangiani of Vancouver, BC, her beloved grandsons Ashvin V. Moorjani of Toronto, ON and Rishi B. Moorjani of Ventura, California and nieces and nephew, their children and extended family.
As her dear friend Lata Sood says, "Ishu's motto in life was kindness and forgiveness towards everyone." A brilliant light of compassion and love, she was bestowing blessings and loving kisses to the caregivers at Banfield and her many friends who visited until the end.
We love you our dearest mother and Nani. You are now resting in the loving arms of your Mithan (Sweet) Lord.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Banfield Pavilion "In Memory of Ishu Jhangiani"
Cheques can be made out to VGH & UBC Hospital Foundation 190 - 855 West 12th Ave,
Vancouver, BC V5Z 1M9 or call 604-875-4676 or go online at vghfoundation.ca ~ we will have cards at the service.

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J&P Bhojwani and D Aswani

May 28, 2014

We are heartbroken...and so sorry to hear about Mum. Feel blessed in knowing that God holds her in his arms now, and that peace and healing surrounds her.

It was our honour to have known her and to have received all her blessings in our lives.

All our love,
Jai & Priya Bhojwani
Dinesh Aswani

In loving memory ~ our beautiful Mom and Nani

Neena Shahani

May 25, 2014

Sentiments shared by many by email:
Your mother was an inspiration for many, and I am sure her strength runs in all your veins too, and will help you cope. Time does heal, and although this thought can not diminish the present newborn pain, keeping it in mind might help a bit. And sure, she's now and always in a peaceful loving place: she IS peace, love, beauty.

I lit a candle for your Mom on Mother's Day. Your Mom has been so strong and I have always saluted her for accepting age related physical limitations with such equanimity. As well, your whole family has been so supportive and attentive to her needs.

I have lovely memories of what a warm, gracious and welcoming woman she was. She was also very beautiful. I know she was a wonderful mother to you.

Your Mom was a beautiful Being and is in a peaceful place of Light.

We will deeply miss her and her sweet disposition and loving nature. She was same in pleasure and pain, truly a saintly person.

You had the most loving, giving, generous and caring mom and Nani. She always reminded me so much of my own mom.

I spoke to her almost every day. It is a big loss and I will miss her forever. When she called I always felt that somebody was looking out for me always. No body can replace her.

She was a real pillar for the family and has left beautiful memories behind.

We have fond memories of the love and affection we received from aunty and it seems it was just the other day that we were all together in Cambodia.

"Her motto in life was kindness and forgiveness towards everyone" I never heard her speak ill of anyone --even those who had hurt her.

So sorry to hear about the loss of Aunty ‹ she was a wonderful person, and so genuinely caring.

Mom was so full of love for all of us. She is in a better place in God's presence with no more suffering. I am very fortunate to have known her.

I am thankful to God that I was able to meet her and get her blessings.

I feel blessed to have known your Mother Neena, she was a beautiful soul, very compassionate and kind.

Anita Dalakoti

May 23, 2014

Dear Nina, Geeta, Ashwin & Rishi,
Please accept my deepest condolences on the demise of Aunty. What a beautiful obituary. Aunty will forever live in your beautiful memories of her and her life.
Honour her memory, rejoice in her well spent life and on how she touched everyone she met and she will be looking down on all of us with love & pride.
Lots of love & affection,
Anita Dalakoti

Rose Obeid

May 21, 2014

Dear Nina, Geeta, Ashvin , and Rishi,
We are very saddened by the death of aunti Ishu. May God rest her soul in peace and tranquility and may He bestow upon you His compassion and grace to guide you through this unbearable loss and sadness. Now, Aunti is in a tranquil and peaceful place with her creator. Her love and devotion to her family were unconditional. Her friendship, loyalty, generosity, kindness, warmth, and gracefulness will always be ever present in our mind and heart and in all those who knew her.
Our love and deepest sympathy.
Jim, Rose, Reema, and Layal

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