1945 - 2026
Joe Harold Duffey, 80, of Liberty, Missouri passed away peacefully February 16, 2026.
He was born on December 12, 1945 in Kansas City, Missouri to Ruby and Harold Duffey. The youngest of his family, he was raised in both Sweet Springs and Liberty. He spent his childhood attending a one-room schoolhouse, running around on farmland surrounded by a large, loving family. He graduated from Liberty High School in 1963, where he was starting safety for the football team. He went on to study at William Jewell College where he joined his beloved Sigma Nu fraternity. He was the first to attend college in his family and remained an active alumnus for decades. Upon college graduation in 1967, he began a career in sales for Procter & Gamble, where he became the top salesperson in the United States. He was then mentored and offered an opportunity in real estate. This would change the trajectory of his career. He started Chasteen-Duffey Real Estate, and the rest was history. He had an enormously successful career in real estate development and brokerages over the span of 50 years in the city of Liberty and the Northland. His roots and passion for the community ran deep. Joe mentored countless individuals over the course of his career and championed for others' success. He also actively volunteered with the Salvation Army, Sertoma and Chamber of Commerce in Liberty.
Even with all of his professional achievements, nothing was more important to him than family. He is survived by his loving wife, Mary Jane and their five children; his twin girls Blythe (Michael) Schwab of Katy, Texas & Lauren (Gouverneur) Duffey-Siegel of Charlotte, North Carolina, Shannon Reidy of Leawood, Kansas, Joseph (Jade) Reidy of San Diego, California and Bridget (Todd) Herrman of Liberty, Missouri; 10 grandchildren, Jackson, Adeline and Charlie Herrman; Lillian and Thomas Reidy; Heidi and Lydia Schwab; Gov, Ruby and Bauer Siegel. Along with many extended family members. He is preceded in death by his parents, brother John Richard Duffey and sister Delpha (Lucille) Arndt.
He will be remembered for his absolute generosity, kindness, and intellect. An insatiable appetite for knowledge and reading. His many quips, a family favorite, "close only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades". His talent for storytelling. His love of sports, especially football. He will also be remembered for all of the happy memories shared at both their farm and Florida homes over the years. His was a life abundantly well-lived and he will be forever missed.
The family would like to extend heartfelt thanks to the nurses and caregivers at McCrite Plaza for their compassionate care over the years.
A private funeral service will be held at St. James Catholic Church in Liberty, MO.
In lieu of flowers, gifts can be directed to William Jewell College in memory of Joe Duffey. Checks/cash may be mailed to:
William Jewell College
Advancement
500 College Hill
Liberty, MO 64068
Or gift online in memory of him at:
https://alumni.jewell.edu/give/jewell-fund
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Pamela Franklin Ireland
Yesterday
So sorry for your loss.
I didn't know Joe, but knew of him through his grand daughter, Adeline.
She spoke very fondly of him.
Mike Kromeich
Yesterday
So sorry for your loss of Joe . Worked on several developments for him. Always enjoyed talking to him and Mary Jane at the garden center. He always knew you no matter where you were and always spoke and smiled. He will be missed.
Dorothy Thomas Wilson
Yesterday
Our thoughts and prayers to the family. We were next door neighbors many years ago in Liberty. Gorden & Dorothy Thomas Wilson
Bob And Cheryl Steinkamp
Yesterday
Cheryl and I were saddened to learn of Joe's passing. Joe has been a friend since the first day of our freshman year at Jewell. He was always a joy to work with and be around. He will be missed by us all.
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Annie McAuliffe-Baldwin
Yesterday
Mary Jane it´s been a very long time since I have seen you or Joe. I first met you and your family when I worked for Dr Susan Carter O´Shea. Joe always seemed to make us smile. God bless you and your family during this difficult time and all the days that follow.
Vick Quigley
February 23, 2026
Sorry for your loss. Mot many people get to have as good a friend as joe was to me and my family. He will always have a place in my heart.
Ben Carter
February 23, 2026
Joe was a great parter and better friend. So sorry for your loss.
JimHaug
February 23, 2026
He has been sadly missed the last years. Betty & I were saddened to hear of his passing
Jennifer Forbes-Baily
February 23, 2026
All the Forbes clan dearly loved Joe Duffey. When my father James Forbes brought my mother to Forbes farm to meet family for the first time - my mother remembered Joe as the cutest little boy she had ever met. Joe always treated his younger cousins with good humor & entertainment - you always had a good time with him. Joe & Mary Jane were tremendously kind/caring to my mother, Vera, upon my father's untimely death. Joe was one of a kind & will be sorely missed.
Elaine Warren
February 23, 2026
Hello Mary Jane. I'm so sorry for your loss. This is Elaine Warren. My dad Winston was Joe's direct neighbor at McCrite. I only knew Joe for just over 3 months but he always welcomed me with a smile and we would exchange a lovely greeting. I could tell he was so kind and friendly. I was especially excited when I learned of our connection to William Jewell. I'll miss seeing his face when I visit my dad. My best to you and your family.
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