Joel Boyce Dellinger

Joel Boyce Dellinger obituary, Charlotte, NC

Joel Boyce Dellinger

Joel Dellinger Obituary

Published by McLean Funeral Directors - Belmont on Aug. 15, 2011.
Joel Boyce "Spook" Dellinger – 68, went to be with his savior on Monday, August 15, 2011. He was born July 23, 1943 to Clyde and Lucy Broome Dellinger in Gastonia and graduated from Ashley High School. He worked at several machine shops in Gastonia and was a firefighter for the City of Gastonia for three years. Boyce was a captain for the City of Charlotte Fire Department where he retired after 27 years of service. He was a loving husband, father and grandfather. He loved all of his firefighters and had many dear friends. He enjoyed all sports – especially fishing at the Outer Banks with all his firefighter buddies. He is survived by his wife of 40 years, Doris Goble Dellinger; daughters, Denise Wilson and husband, Jackie of Mint Hill, Lisa Martin of Stony Point, and Melanie Hamilton and husband, Jeff of Lincolnton, Nine grandchildren and One great-grandson; his twin sister, Joyce Harkey and husband, Frank of Gastonia; sister, Brenda Hollifield and husband, Jim of Orlando, FL., and several nieces and nephews. Our family wishes to thank all doctors, hospitals, and nursing facilities that cared for Boyce for the last 1 ½ years. Thank you Dr. Locklear and Dr. Preston Purdum for your wonderful care. He is preceded by his parents, sister, Glenda Purkey. Visitation will be Wednesday, August 17, 2011 from 7pm to 9pm at McLean Funeral Directors in Belmont, N.C. Funeral Service will be held on Thursday at 2:00pm at Shady Brook Baptist Church with Revs. George Sherman and Tom Hartis. Burial at Greenwood Cemetery, Belmont Memorials may be sent to Shady Brook Baptist Church, 2940 Belmeade, Dr., Charlotte, NC 28208 or Charlotte Fire Department, Burned Children Fund, 228 E. 9th St., Charlotte, NC28202 Condolences may be sent online to www.mcleanfuneral.com McLean Funeral Directors of Belmont is serving the Dellinger family.

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Amy Wright

August 18, 2011

To the Dellinger family- I just wanted to express my sincere sorrow for your loss. You are such a wonderful family and I am glad to have had the opportunity to care for Mr. Dellinger and you during his illness. I will continue to keep you in my prayers and want you to know that I am truly sorry. You are all on my mind and in my heart during this time of pain and adjustment. Praying for peace and comfort for you all. Much Love!

August 17, 2011

My prayers to you and your family.
Blessing
Penny/Sharyn

Robin Willard-Weant

August 17, 2011

Doris, Melanie
I’m so sorry to hear about Boyce. He was such a good man. He always treated me like family all those times I stayed at your house. He will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you both and the family.

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