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John Laping Obituary

Laping, John M.

Feb 7, 2026

Beloved husband of Toby (nee' Fink) Laping. Devoted father of Linda (Benn) Konner, and Steven Laping (Lisa Joubert) Loving grandfather of Erik, Charlotte, Holly and Finn Konner; Cole, and Joshua Laping. Memorial service will be held on Thursday at 11 am at Temple Beth Zion, 805 Delaware Ave. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to Temple Beth Zion, Jewish Family Service, or Canopy of Neighbors. Arrangements under the direction of AMHERST MEMORIAL CHAPEL LLC.

Published by Buffalo News on Feb. 10, 2026.

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Donna Daniel

February 12, 2026

Steve I am sorry for your families loss I will you all in my prayers.

Alissa Rabach

February 12, 2026

Dear Toby and Family~
I have always had the highest respect for John. Kind, a leader in his profession and a gentleman always.
Each of you are all in my thoughts at this difficult time.
With affection~
Alissa Rabach

Joanne peluso

February 12, 2026

John was a wonderful, kind man. I worked at kidneys when I was pregnant. John made sure I had a ride home so i didn't have to take the bus. I will never forget his kindness. God blessed me by knowing John.

Robert Fine

February 10, 2026

Toby and family,
We are saddened to hear of John's passing. Simply stated, he was a class act - prominent in his profession and in the community, a gentleman and a caring individual. It was always a pleasure to see him. We are out of town but our thoughts are with you.
Eileen and Robert Fine

Clinton Brown FAIA

February 10, 2026

Dear Toby, Laping family and Kideney Architects colleagues,

Please accept sympathy upon John´s passing. John was among our profession´s best leaders across Western New York, New York State and our nation and in fostering a respected and durable firm as a legacy. May the legacy of his life carry you though.

Sincerely, Clint

Judith Judelsohn

February 10, 2026

Dear Laping family,
I will always remember John as a kind and gentle soul ... sending sympathy and affection at this sad time,
Judith Judelsohn

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