John Patrick McCarthy

John Patrick McCarthy obituary, Urbandale, IA

John Patrick McCarthy

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Feb

4

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home & Crematory Urbandale

8201 Hickman Rd, Urbandale, IA 50322

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Feb

4

Rosary

7:00 p.m. - 7:15 p.m.

Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home & Crematory

8201 Hickman Rd, Urbandale, IA 50322

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Feb

5

Service

11:00 a.m.

Ss John & Paul Catholic Church

1401 1st Ave S, Altoona, IA 50009

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John McCarthy Obituary

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John Patrick McCarthy, 54, of West Des Moines, passed away peacefully on Saturday, January 31, 2026, at the EveryStep Kavanagh House in Des Moines, Iowa.

Visitation will be held from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m., with a Rosary at 7:00 p.m., on Wednesday, February 4, 2026, at Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home in Urbandale. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:00 a.m. on Thursday, February 5, 2026, at Ss. John & Paul Catholic Church in Altoona. Burial will be held at the Glendale Cemetery in Des Moines. Online condolences may be left for the family at www.caldwellparrish.com.

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Upcoming Events

Feb

4

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home & Crematory Urbandale

8201 Hickman Rd, Urbandale, IA 50322

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Feb

4

Rosary

7:00 p.m. - 7:15 p.m.

Caldwell Parrish Funeral Home & Crematory

8201 Hickman Rd, Urbandale, IA 50322

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Feb

5

Service

11:00 a.m.

Ss John & Paul Catholic Church

1401 1st Ave S, Altoona, IA 50009

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Only 1 day left for delivery to next service.