John R. Soda

1959 - 2016

John R. Soda obituary, 1959-2016, East Lyme, CT

John R. Soda

1959 - 2016

BORN

1959

DIED

2016

John Soda Obituary

Published by Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home on Dec. 14, 2016.
John R. Soda East Lyme- John R. Soda, 57, of East Lyme, passed away Wednesday, December 14, 2016 at his home. John was born in New London, CT. on June 24, 1959, the son of the late John and Betty (Warg) Soda. A 1977 graduate of East Lyme High School, he was employed for many years as a custodian for the Waterford Board of Education. John coached little league baseball in East Lyme; he enjoyed fishing, crabbing and clamming in the local waters; and was a devoted fan of both the New York Yankees and the New York Giants. John adored his family and cherished spending his vacation time with them. He is survived by his wife of 32 years, Julie (Lesser) Soda; a son, Daniel Soda and his fiancé Allison Miller of Mount Arlington, NJ; a daughter, Jill Soda of East Lyme; a grandson, Julien Soda of East Lyme; a sister, Jean Lynch of Waterford; several nieces and nephews and his two dogs Millie and Diamond. He was predeceased by a sister, Marybeth Soda. The family will receive relatives and friends on Sunday from 5-7 pm at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 48 Grand Street, Niantic. Interment will be private. To send the family an online condolence or to view Mr. Soda's online video tribute, please visit www.neilanfunerlahome.com

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December 19, 2016

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December 17, 2016

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Patti Chambers-Antilli

December 19, 2016

Julie - so sorry to hear about John's passing. Sending my deepest condolences to you and your family.

Cindy Marcella-Nutt

December 18, 2016

Julie I'm so sorry to hear of John's passing
You & your family are in my prayers.

michael williams

December 17, 2016

so sorry to hear John passed what a great guy had a cannon for an arm could throw home any were in the field held a lot of players up and throw a lot of players out and all new it I would see John out and would always say hi a great old time Niantic guy good buy John see you .

Deb Lavallee

December 17, 2016

Julie, Dan, and Jill, I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. Please know you are in my thoughts.

Kara Berry

December 16, 2016

Julie. Dan and Jill, please accept our most sincerest, heartfelt sympathy. John was an amazing man, coach and father. He adored his family and the life they shared. We will forever cherish the memories of our years spent coaching together and getting to know the Soda family. Dan has become one of our own.John was a great man. Taken way too soon, but never to be forgotten.

Kara Berry

December 16, 2016

Julie. Dan and Jill, please accept ouresponsibility heartfelt sympathy. John was an amazing man, coach and father. He adored hospital family and the life they shared. We will forever cherish the memories of our years spent coaching together. Taken way too soon, but never to be forgotten.

Andrew Longhenry

December 16, 2016

To The Soda's,Growing up as a child to adult it was always a pleasure to spend time with your family. Over the past few years I've run into John at the gas station in the mornings several times a week where he would always ask how my children were doing and how the family was. He was and still is very proud of both his children and who they have become and boasted to me about your successes routinely. It wasn't too long ago when he bought that new car, he was so excited and proud to give me a tour of it from fender to fender. We had some good laughs about BBQ's after the Memorial Day Parades and my Uncle Bob snoring in the recliner when they lived together. For anyone who really new John knew a man that appreciated good company, but more than that, the love he had for his family. Whether it was talking about fishing, sports, family, or hitting that big scratch off jackpot, John was always a pleasure to be around in my book. I'm looking forward to our next cup of coffee together over a few $5 tickets.With much love and condolence,Andrew Longhenry

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