Jordan Ashley Hoecker

Jordan Ashley Hoecker obituary, Norfolk, VA

Jordan Ashley Hoecker

Jordan Hoecker Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Cremation & Funeral Services of Tidewater on Oct. 9, 2025.

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Norfolk - Jordan Ashley Hoecker, born on June 2, 1994, in Norfolk, Virginia, passed away peacefully in her hometown on October 8, 2025, at the age of 31. A beloved mother, daughter, sister, and friend, Jordan's departure leaves a profound void in the hearts of those who knew and cherished her.
A graduate of Kempsville High School in Virginia Beach, Class of 2012, Jordan was known for her hardworking, funny, and smart nature. Her kindness and strength were truly inspirational to all who had the privilege of knowing her. Jordan possessed a generous and compassionate soul, always willing to lend a helping hand or give the shirt off her back to anyone in need, without ever asking questions.
During her last couple years fighting cancer Jordan dedicated herself to being an amazing stay-at-home mom and homemaker, a role she embraced with love and devotion. Prior to this, she was a familiar face in various restaurants around Virginia Beach where she made many friends and left a lasting impression on those she worked alongside.
Jordan's memory will forever be cherished by her loving parents, Ian Hoecker and Melody Horton, Jordan's fiancé, Jabari Trosper and their precious son, Crue Langston Trosper. She is also survived by her brother, Aidan Hoecker, her stepbrother, Trevor Hawkins, stepsister, Nicole Hawkins, as well as numerous other family members and friends who will miss her deeply.
At this time, no services are planned. Cremation & Funeral Services of Tidewater is assisting Jordan's family during this difficult time. Friends and loved ones are invited to share memories and express condolences at CandFServices.com.
Jordan Ashley Hoecker's legacy of love, laughter, and kindness will live on in the hearts of those she touched. She will be dearly missed but fondly remembered.
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Tami Moore

5 hours ago

Jordan was a beautiful woman inside and out. I met her when she was a young teen and witnessed her grow into a lovely woman and an amazing mom. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her. My condolences and prayers go out to her family and friends.

Jan Vargas

Yesterday

God bless your family during this difficult time. Heaven has a beautiful angel watching over her son, fiancé, family and friends. Jordan touched our lives and will be missed. We all have our memories to comfort us when we're sad. Sending love to Jordan's family - from the Vargas Family

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