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Joseph J. "Coach"
Jan 18, 2026
Of Angola, NY, died unexpectedly on Sunday, January 18, 2026, at the age of 69. Beloved husband of Sally Mesi. Loving father of Monica O'Connor (Mesi) and Joseph (Danielle) Mesi. Son of Sally and the late Matthew Mesi. Dear brother of Chris (Lori) Mesi, Matthew M. (Colleen) Mesi, and Mary Alice Mazur. Cherished Giant and Grandpa Joe of Alexis, Joseph and Henry. Friends may call on Sunday, January 25th from 2PM – 6PM at the ADDISON FUNERAL HOME, INC., 262 N. Main St. Angola, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday at 12 PM at Most Precious Blood Church, 22 Prospect St., Angola, NY. PLEASE ASSEMBLE AT CHURCH. Joe was a retired business teacher with Eden Central Schools. Known to many as "Coach," he was a diehard sports fan, especially when it came to the Buffalo Bills and college football and basketball. Known for his quick wit and steady presence, Joe made a lasting impact on his students and colleagues. Whether he was reliving his days playing football at Marshall, basketball at Husson, or explaining the success of the basketball teams on the close-knit island where they spent 13 years, Joe truly lived a great life. His legacy is reflected in the countless lives he touched. He loved to laugh and make others laugh, and he was an irreplaceable friend, family member, and mentor. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Angola Volunteer Fire Department, 51 Commercial St., Angola, NY, 14006.
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Martha And Chuck Bowers
February 4, 2026
So sorry for your loss. Sending prayers
Julie and Sue Holland
January 26, 2026
So sorry to hear about Joe.Many fond memories from Castaways.Always smiling.Rest well Joe.
Norma Shultz & Barbara Leslie
January 24, 2026
Heartfelt condolences to the Mesi family. We remember Joe for his kind heart and mischievous smile, and for some amazing moves & points on the LSC high school basketball court, which brightened many cold winter nights. So sorry for your loss.
Matthew Nasca
January 24, 2026
Joe very sorry for your loss
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Ralph Pratt
January 23, 2026
Chris ,Matt and your entire family so sorry to here of your brothers passing our sincere condolences May He Rest In Peace Ralph and Debra Pratt
Gerald and Ann Wienckowski
January 23, 2026
Condolences to the Mesi family......Chris so sorry to hear about your brothers passing.....may he Rest in Peace
Marcia Kumiega
January 22, 2026
My Deepest Sympathy to the Family
Lynne Laettner
January 22, 2026
Joe was such a great guy. Loved by all. Everytime he came into Castaways and I was there I would always be leaving and I would give Joe my seat. He was always so thankful. Joe, you will be missed.
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