Joseph M. Ravalese III

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Joseph Ravalese Obituary

Name: Visitation for Joseph M. Ravalese III
Start: 2022-12-05T16:00:00.000Z
End: 2022-12-05T20:00:00.000Z
Location: The Lodge Community Chapel

Joseph M. Ravalese, III, 69, of Ellington, beloved husband of Kathryn I. (Rich) Ravalese passed away on Saturday, November 26, 2022 at the Suffield House. Born July 1, 1953 in Hartford, son of the late Joseph M. Ravalese, Jr. and Marie (Boniface) Ravalese. He grew up in Windsor, and after his schooling he joined the Windsor Police Department, he would later join the Enfield Police Department. After 17 years with Enfield he retired from serving and protecting. A few years before retiring from the Enfield Police Department he opened The Country Diner in Enfield which he owned and operated until his health didn't allow him to work anymore. He also once served as sheriff for Hartford County in Enfield. In his younger days he was a member of the Hayden Station Fire Company. In his free time he was always looking to find ways to help others, he was very instrumental in raising money for a few different charities which would include, Hole in the Wall Gang, Silver Shield which came about after 9/11, the Felician Sisters, and Network Against Domestic Abuse. Besides his wife, Kathryn, he is survived by a son, Joseph B. Ravalese and his fiancé, Jamie Stanley of Windsor Locks, two step-daughters, Carrie Dewees of Somers, Jennifer Dewees of Windsor; a brother, Carl Ravalese and his wife, Mary Ann of Suffield; grandchildren, Layla and Charlotte Ravalese; and three step grandchildren, Aurora Barbosa, Zheta and Rhogan Phimvongsa. His family would like to offer special thanks to all the staff at Suffield House for the care that was provided to Joseph during his stay with them. His family will receive friends on Monday, December 5, 2022 from 4-8 PM at The Lodge Community Chapel, 130 Deerfield Rd., Windsor. Funeral services will be held on Tuesday, December 6, 2022 at 10:00 AM at The Lodge Community Chapel. Burial will be in Mount St. Benedict Cemetery, Bloomfield. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Felician Sisters, 1315 Enfield St., Enfield, CT 06082. To leave on-line condolences please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 1, 2022.

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Kathleen Descy

January 2, 2023

Joe Ravalese did, indeed, have a huge heart and was a mainstay of the Enfield community. The food he served was superb; every dish was wonderful and I brought many a friend and transplanted Enfieldites back to enjoy his establishment. We had my dad's commemorative luncheon there and the entire family had a fabulous time. // It was definitely his altruistic and generous nature that absolutely shined throughout; his devotion to his fellow police officers and first responders was legendary in Enfield. May he rest with God and the angels; may they offer peace and respite from all cares.

Maureen Longo

December 2, 2022

I have known Joe for over twenty years. The Country Diner was where I had my Sunday Breakfast every Sunday that I was in town. Joe, over the years, did so many kind things for people who needed a little help When he was in the diner, you knew he Would have a smile for all his customers, new of long time. Heaven is a better place with Joe up there. Some day I will come to your diner up there. Until then, Rest In Peace Joe. Maureen Longo

D. Morgan

December 2, 2022

Whenever I had meetings away from my work site, the Country Diner was often where I stopped for breakfast. Joe was usually there and took very good care of me and most of the customers; many were daily regulars. You walked in the place and you knew that Law Enforcement people were welcomed. He had emblems from everywhere on the walls. PLUS, the food was delicious...never had a bad meal. I had a few conversations with Joe and they were always pleasant. Just knowing that he´s no longer with us invokes a deep feeling of loss. Family, I grieve with you today...Rest easy Joe.

PAUL AND BARBARA PELLEGATTO, EAST HARTFORD

December 1, 2022

My wife Barbara and I met Joe through my good friend Paul Riccio SNETCO. Joe treated us as family , no other way to explain it! Generous, caring and pleasant are the best verbiage when it comes to Joe. Wish we had known Joe earlier in life. Joe put true meaning to A a friend of yours is a friend of mine. His support for the many charities, always there for everyone!!! I spoke with Joe a few times in the last few years. Always happy and appreciative to hear from me! It was an honor to have had Joe as our friend! Our respect and sympathy´s to Joes family and may your hearts heal and a smile come upon you when thinking of the many good times!

Ernie Pitti

December 1, 2022

I´ve lived in Enfield for over thirty years and have a number of occasions to meet Joe when he was a police officer as well as the owner of Country Diner. I will always remember the kindness he has shown my family and the support he has given the community. Thank you, Joe!

Carmon Windsor Funeral Home

November 30, 2022

With deepest sympathy during this time of difficulty.

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