Joseph A. Trillizio

Joseph A. Trillizio

Joseph Trillizio Obituary

Published by Buffalo News on Jan. 4, 2004.
January 1, 2004; beloved husband of Shelley (Starner) Trillizio; dear father of Mandi, Jon and Carly Jo Trillizio; son of the late Joseph and Mary (Borrello) Trillizio; son-in-law of John and Karen Starner; brother of Nelline (Joseph Mandeville) Lloyd, Antoinette (Chuck Fuller) Trillizio, Nino (Susan) Trillizio and the late Mary Frustino; brother-in-law of Deanna, Donnie (Roseanne), Ricky, Donna Starner; also survived by nieces and nephews. Family present to receive friends Monday only 5-8 PM at the PERNA FUNERAL HOME INC., 1306 Hertel Ave. (near Colvin Ave). Relatives and friends are invited to assemble at All Saints Church where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Tuesday at 10 AM. Mr. Trillizio was a volunteer at the River Rock Little League
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carrie paolucci

April 24, 2023

thinking of you today uncle Joe.

Mand

August 16, 2020

“Legends never die & only the good die young.”
We love you and we make sure that all of your grandbabies know everything about you as soon as they are able to comprehend, and we will keep doing so to keep you alive forever within all of us, especially all of your grandbabies! You would be so proud of them all. You know you have 6 one of them “lover of all music” Cecilia Rose is with you. Which comforts me every day that I think about her. Your Olivia Rose, who wrote to you here when she was 11 is now going into 9th grade! Then of course Chayton, Alessia, Harland, and Teagan - I ask that you please protect all of us, and these kids going back to school in these times..& pray for health for our entire family. You are very missed by many people...& spoke of often your legend will never die & see ya later Daddio - your brown eyed girl!

Jonathan Trillizio

July 29, 2018

Happy Birthday Dad. Love & Miss You Everyday.
- Your Son & Granddaughter Alessia Jo.

olivia cala

September 20, 2017

hi its olivia ur granddaughter im 11 and turning 12 in april i miss u and i wonder what u were like everyday even tho i hear a lot of stories good ones dont worry recently my nana passed away and i thought i would leave both of u a little note but i just wanted to say that we all miss u

Shelley Trillizio

July 30, 2015

Happy Birthday Joe wishing you were here but I'm sure you are celebrating up there with your brother and sisters and mom and dad hope you were there to greet Cecelia give her a kiss from all of us!!!! Love u always Shelley,kids and grandkids

Shelley Trillizio

July 30, 2014

Happy Birthday Joe always in my heart and always in our thoughts love and miss u dearly, Shelley

shelley trillizio

June 20, 2014

dear joe sorry this is late happy fathers day holidays just aren't the same anymore. we miss you dearly and you are always in our thoughts. you would be so proud of your beautiful grandchildren and we have another one on the way!! all my love Shelley

Mandi

January 9, 2014

Can't believe it's been 10 years since you were called to heaven dad. Not a day goes by that your not on my mind, and in my heart. Your granddaughter loves hearing all about you, seems as if she thinks of you a lot at bedtime- I always tell myself that is when you visit her.. Before bed or in her dreams... I hope so! We love and miss you dad!

Cheryl

January 1, 2014

Always in my heart, forever on my arm.

carrie paolucci

November 9, 2013

thought of you today.

carrie knutsen-paolucci

August 19, 2013

uncle Joe, hows your wings? im hoping you ran into my jesse. i miss him uncle Joe.gone too soon. just a lil hello. we ll be seeing you.

Nell Lloyd

July 30, 2013

Can't believe it's been 9 years...haven't seen a butterfly from you in awhile, but no matter what, you are ALWAYS in my heart! Love Sis Nell!

July 30, 2013

Birthday Love from your granddaughter Olivia & your brown eyed girl <3 love you and miss you ALOT.

shelley trillizio

July 30, 2013

Happy birthday Joe always on our minds and forever in our hearts love you, shelley

March 11, 2013

I miss you please show my love the way Love Always and Forever <3

February 19, 2013

I can't sleep tonight because there's so much going through my head. I look up to write to you, I cry to want to tell you so much and ask you a lot. I have this huge spot in my heart that's taken up by someone I love that's everything to you and everything here to me. I can feel the pain off, of my love that it makes me think about you always, makes me wish and miss someone I haven't met. Please tell my love everything will be okay. Thinking of you always.

February 16, 2013

Wishing you were here

January 1, 2013

Today I think of so much most of all you and Jon, always thinking of you.

December 19, 2012

I often think of you and I wish you could be here, my heart truly hurts you are not. I wish you were here to see your family as I do, you always make me cry because you mean the world to them. Watch over them always and forever.
Thinking of you Always

mandi trillizio

December 12, 2012

Been dreaming of you so much lately. REALLY WISH I COULD RUN TO YOU RIGHT NOW. What I would give to drive with you down the street 15 MPH, while switching tapes in the car a Million times, rewinding, fast forwarding ...breaking down the lyrics to a Beatles song for me... I would give anything to have you here right now. They say everything happens for a reason. This still doesn't make sense to me, and it never will. So much has changed without you in my life. I don't think I'll ever be the same Mandi I once was.

Last night before bed, Olivia told me that she couldn't get the word die out of her head. She told me that she didn't want me to die before her and that she wants me to be with her forever.

I imagined her going through the pain & sadness we did TOO early in life...it hurt me so bad. I just hugged her really tight told her we.would be together forever & changed the subject .... Please watch over me, protect me and tell God I need to live a REALLY long life for your OLIVIA.
Love you dad! Miss you Terribly!!!!!
Mand

mand trillizio

October 9, 2012

How I wish you were here, I miss you terribly lately. Lost without you... I know there was a music celebration today for sir john Lennon's birthday LOVE YOUR GIRL

olivia cala

July 6, 2012

Love you poppy Joe <3 your granddaughter Olivia Rose

Amanda trillizio

July 6, 2012

Love & Miss you, alot today...more than the usual Paul Simon's slip slidin'away came on the radio of course I immediately started to cry, I love you dad. We are doing really well, Olivia is an absolute joy and just perfect! Can't believe she is 6 years old, I have a 1st grader on my hands starting in September! We have our own home now out in the suburbs - we have a puppy and we named him LENNON ;) Things are going well, I am sure you are very proud of all of us, we have grown into independent,hardworking, loving adults all thanks to you and mom. I cherish the time that we did have with you, all the memories are stored in my heart, and very important to all of us. Love you so much dad. Xo

SHELLEY TRILLIZIO

December 31, 2011

DEAR JOE THINKING OF YOU ALWAYS YOU ARE MISSED SO MUCH BY ALL OF US, WE ARE ALL DOING GOOD BUT YOU WILL BE FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS KEEP WATCHING OVER ALL OF US. YOUR CHILDREN ARE GROWN RESPONSIBLE ADULTS AND YOU WOULD BE SO PROUD OF THEM KEEP WATCHING OVER THEM AND GUIDE THEM. ALL MY LOVE SHELLEY AND KIDS. XOXO PS GIVE UNCLE NINO AND POPPY AND GRANDMA A KISS FROM ALL OF US.

mandi trillizio

November 30, 2011

Hey Dad, just wanted to say Olivia loves learning about you...we have long conversations all the time, about her poppy. I miss you so much around all of our birthdays & the holidays its always extra painful...but thank god we all have eachother to lean on..& our livi always brightens things up. I LOVE you so much, see you again someday- but not anytime soon dad ok?! Lol. Until then- know your always with us all. We love & miss you terribly dad. You are the 1& only- an amazing dad you always were & always will be. Love you.

Cheryl (Keeney) Catalino

July 30, 2011

Just a birthday wish going out to you today Joe. Continue to watch over everyone that loves you.

amanda trillizio

June 22, 2011

Olivia graduated from Pre-K today dad!!! I had tears in my eyes thinking about how you would be standing in the back,yelling her name, but Jon was there in place of you =) he is just like you, glad that he makes it important to be such a part of our lives, carly and mom too of course, but you definitly live on through our Jon<3 I love & miss you so much, was thinking of you all day on father's day, your pictures are all around our house. love you so much - man dootz

Shelley Trillizio

June 19, 2011

Happy Fathers Day Joe you are forever in our hearts, love and miss you!!!! Love Shelley

amanda trillizio

April 2, 2011

thinking about all of our memories today, i love you dad. miss you terribly.
<33 all of our love and kisses mandi and your olivia

mand dootz

February 19, 2011

I miss you dad, so much. Me and your granddaughter talk about you everyday, I like telling her all about, she calls where your at ( heaven ) paris- :) she's so funny I know you get a kick out of her, she has your personality- absolutely loves MUSIC she'll sing and dance with herself for hours at a time- you'd def. Love hanging out with her, I think that's what kills me the most is that you two can't play,laugh,talk to eachother...but I promise to you I will teach her to know you, make sure she knows what an amazing poppy she has. Well -i love you and miSs you beyond words..and now have a lump in my throat so I gotta go dad--love you so much. .........with our love to "paris"- your 2 girls

Cheryl (Keeney) Catalino

January 28, 2011

Joe, Skip is on his way. Give him a big hug when he arrives. Miss you & Nino. Continue to watch over all.

amanda trillizio

January 3, 2011

Hey Dad,
I miss you. I never know what to write on here, because no words can describe the feeling I have when I think of you. Well we made it through "that time" again we all were together for Jon's birthday he reminds me of you as the years go by… it’s a good feeling, but also makes me miss you even more. Carly is working her butt off, and doing good, and mom is the best as usual..Olivia is doing good, she talks about you so often I think your inside of her ;) she loves her poppy. Well keep us safe, and healthy. I LOVE YOU my angel. xoxo

Cheryl (Keeney) Catalino

January 2, 2011

Joe, Another year has past. Thinking of you and Nino. Keep watch over everyone.

scott mackey

November 27, 2010

hey mr trillizio its scott mackey...i was just thinkin about the town boys and girls club and u and jon came to my thoughts about baseball and the club's basketball leauge and hockey me and jon used to kill it we just had that connection on the court we just new were eachother was gonna be...well just thought i would let u know...aight man rip and take care of my grams and my cuz while ur up there...please....and keep praying for me and jon will come back together soon....oh yea i got 2 kids of my own now too...there lil boys scotty and brayden there just like me and jon growin up...lil sports finatics i cant wait.....rip........love ya

amanda

August 17, 2010

love you miss u <3 mandi

Cheryl (Keeney) Catalino

July 30, 2010

Hi Joe, Just a Happy Birthday wish to you. Continue to watch over those that love & miss you.
Peace to all
Cheryl

June 27, 2010

hey daddy. just wanted to say i love you. even though i talk to you all day long...its weird not having uncle nino here to remind me of you any more. u two always belonged together though. i can bet its a beautiful harmonious sound going on up there in the clouds. i can hear it now... so many songs come to mind and both 0f your voices are vivid in my mind and heart forever. i hope ur watching over me and am proud of what a great mother i am to your olivia. i learned from you and mom. thanks for being the best parents ever.i love u. -brown eyed girl.

June 20, 2010

Hi Uncle Nino Happy Fathers Day, you are always in our thoughts. We love you and miss you dearly. Love Shelley and Kids

June 20, 2010

Hi Joe, Happy Fathers Day we love and miss you dearly, hope you and your brother are enjoying each others company. Always in our thoughts, Love Shelley and Kids.

Cheryl Catalino (Keeney)

April 4, 2010

Joe, Thinking of you and Nino on this Easter morning. Continue to watch over all.

January 10, 2010

Hi Uncle Joe,

I'm Sorry I havent written in a while. Just wanted you to know after midnight on New Years Eve, we got the message loud and clear that your brother was with you. All your nieces and nephews were together and as sad as the moment was for us all we were all happy to know your all together. My faith has never been stronger in knowing we will all see each other again some day. We will always miss all of you! Until we see you on the other side, just know how much we love and miss you! Maria, David and boys

January 1, 2010

Dear Joe, We just wanted to send you all our love and kisses. I bet you are real happy that you now have your brother with you. Have fun with him and don't drive your mom and dad too crazy. Give them all a kiss from us including sis Mary. Please watch over all of us. All of our love, Shelley and kids. XOXOXO

January 1, 2010

Joe, Many thoughts run through my mind right now. Just watch over everyone. In my prayers,
Cheryl

Virginia Conkling

December 31, 2009

Joe, just thinking of you and Nino. Watch over and protect your families and friends. Both of you will always be loved and missed

December 27, 2009

Dear Joe, Merry Christmas, your brother is joining you up there in heaven, we will miss him terribly just as we miss you. Give Mary and Poppy our love and kisses, miss you so much. Love Shelley and the Kids

December 25, 2009

Joe, Just thinking of you and the Family. Merry Christmas to one and all.
Cheryl

ANTOINETTE TRILLIZIO

December 25, 2009

O.K. EVERYONEUP THERE ANOTHER ANGEL HAS JOINED OUR FAMILY ONCE AGAIN. TAKE CARE OF OUR LITTLE NINO AND MERRY X-MAS MY HEART IS ACHING BUT JUST TO KNOW YOU ARE ALL TOGETHER AND SPENDING YOUR XMAS WITH GOD IS MY PRAYER ANSWERED. LOVE ME SIS AND DAUGHTER ANTOINETTE I MISS YOU ALL

ANTOINETTE TRILLIZIO

December 17, 2009

HI HONEY JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL GREAT NEICE HER NAME IS BROOKLYN AND SHE IS JUST ADORABLE WISH YOU ALL COULD HAVE BEEN HERE FOR HERS AND MATHEW'S DEBUT BUT I KNOW YOU SEE THEM AND WATCH OVER ALL THE KIDS. NINO HAD ANOTHER APPT TODAY SO WE ARE HOPING AND PRAYING FOR SOME GOOD NEWS SOON. MISS YOU ALL SIS ANT

ANTOINETTE TRILLIZIO

December 5, 2009

HI HONEY
JUST A LITTLE NOTE TO SAY TOMORROW IS OUR MOM'S ANNIV DAY SINCE SHE LEFT US SO I WAS JUST WANTING YOU TO GIVE HER AND ALL OF OUR LOVED ONE'S A BIG HUG WE MISS YOU ALL EVERYDAY.

ANTOINETTE TRILLIZIO

November 27, 2009

HELLO TO ALL FROM AZ THANKSGIVING BLESSINGS TO ALL OUR LOVED ONES GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN . PRAYERS ARE ANSWERED FROM THEM I KNOW THEY ARE WATCHING OVER ALL OF US.STAY WELL PRAY FOR OUR NINO.MISS YOU ALL

November 26, 2009

Thinking of you on Thanksgiving. Blessings to all.
Cheryl

ANTOINETTE TRILLIZIO

November 21, 2009

HI HONEY JUST THINKING ABOUT U AND JUST TALKED TO NELL WE WERE SAYING HOW MUCH I WOULD HAVE LOVED TO HAVE BEEN ABLE TO SPEND MY 65TH WITH ALL OF YOU NEXT TO THAT I WOULD LOVE IF U ALL WOULD HELP US OUT WITH SOME PRAYERS AND HOPE FOR NINO TO GET WELL.WE ALL MISS YOU SO MUCH. AND ALWAYS THINK OF U. SAY HI TO EVERYONE FOR ME YOUR SIS ANT

July 30, 2009

Joe, Remembering you on your Birthday.
Cheryl

Shelley Trillizio

July 30, 2009

Dear Joe, Happy Birthday we are always thinking of you and love you with all our hearts. Please keep watch over your family we all need you. Life was so good with you and things will never be the same, but we make the best of each day. You will be forever on our minds and in our hearts. All our love and kisses.
Shelley and the kids.

July 29, 2009

happy birthday dad. not a day goes by where i dont think of you and wish you were here still. it still feels like yesterday to me, and time has not healed a thing, like they say. --anyways i love you more than wordssss.... happy birthday i miss you dearly dad. watch over us and keep us all safe and healthy. i love you so much love mandi and your beautiful granddaughter olivia. xoxo

June 21, 2009

Dear Joe

Happy Fathers Day we love you and miss you everyday. Please keep watch over the kids and guide them in the right direction. Keep an eye on Uncle Nino also we will be seeing him at his benefit, he is being so brave. We love you with all of our hearts and you will be in our hearts always.

Love you always,
Shelley and Kids
XOXOXO

Virg Conkling

March 26, 2009

Hi Joe, it's so funny how we reconnect with people after so many years. Arnie and I talk almost every day. I've also reconnected with Rebel's brother Ron. It amazes me how you can lose friends and then lost friends come back into your life. Anyway, I was thinking of you and wanted to let you know that I am praying for Nino.

Virg

January 21, 2009

Hi Joe. Heard from Arnie Wrobel today. He lives in Barcelona Spain, has been there for six years now. He opened a Sushi Restaurant there and says he is doing great. Talked to Nelline, she told me about Nino. My prayers are with him. Watch over him. I gave Arnie your infor for this guest book. God bless you.

mandi t

December 31, 2008

hey daddy. just wanted to say I love you again, and miss you of course. i cant believe how long its been still feels like yesterday..in my heart. tonite is always the worse night for me, i always re live everything that happend. i know things happen for reasons per god, but just know how much i miss u and carly and jon and mom too.take care of uncle nin too PLEASE. he misses u like crazy too. anyways u are always in my heart u keep me strong, and wanting to do nothing but good positive things in life. i love u sooo much.
*u r brwn eyed girl. mand

Shelley Trillizio

December 31, 2008

Dear Joe, we are all thinking of you today and missing you. Your son is the big "21" now I can worry all the more now that he is legal, I don't think I will ever stop worrying. Your Carly will be graduating this year and hopefully off to college. Mandi is working hard and taking care of your Olivia, I will be done with school in the Fall and off to work, and still working my part-time job at HSBC Arena. You would be so proud of Jon about they way he cares for all of us and worries about us. Things are O.K. even though this world is tough for these kids now, so you rest in peace and know that we love you dearly and miss you so much, and wish you were still here with us. All of our Love and kisses Shelley and Kids

Shelley Trillizio

December 24, 2008

Dear Joe Merry Christmas we miss you so much. These holidays will never be the same, but we some how get through them, keep an eye on your brother he needs you right now. The kids send all of their love and kisses along with mine. Love you always, Shelley and Kids

Virg Conkling

December 19, 2008

Hi Joe, heard John Lennon's Christmas song today and thought of you. Just wanted to wish you and your family a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

mandi

November 24, 2008

hey daddy. i just wanted to simply tell u i miss you so much specially with all these birthdays and holidays coming now its the worst! i heard here comes the sun yester. my fav beatles song-- it made me feel good. i love u and miss u please stay by my side , and guide me in the right direction.

Darlene and Russ Carlo

November 21, 2008

Hi Shelley. I heard The Worst That Could Happen by Brooklyn Bridge yesterday and immediately thought of Joe. I remembered him singing that to me the day Russ and I got married. Russ and I moved to Lockport a couple years ago but I wanted to let you know that we haven't forgotten Joe. Whenever I hear the Beatles or this song, I think of Joe. I hope you are doing well.

Shelley Trillizio

October 6, 2008

Hi Joe, Happy Anniversary. Always in my thoughts and in my heart. Love as always, Shelley XOXO P.S. The kids send their love, hugs and kisses too along with your granddaughter Olivia.

Lisa Frustino

July 30, 2008

Hi Uncle Joe,

Thinking of you today..Happy Birthday,..Kiss Mom and Poppy for me. I love you "like glavey"!!!

Love ya Niece, Lisa Marie

antoinette trillizio

July 30, 2008

hi honey, i sure wish i could just wrap you around me and give you a big kiss for your birthday i know your smiling down on all of us i can't tell you how i miss all of you but you know you are always with me in my heart and prayers, love to all our family sis ant.

Cheryl Catalino (Keeney)

July 30, 2008

Joe, The words of The Beatles song "In My Life" comes to my mind today on your Birthday. It sums up so much. The people, the places, I think of them all. Watch over all the people in your life and Bless them all with your Love.
Cheryl

Nelline

July 30, 2008

Joe,
Happy Birthday honey.
I hope you know how much you are missed, there is not a day goes b I do not think about you, and yes I do get all of your little signs you send me, )that’s how I can laugh and remember the funny “Goof” you were.) the other day, that butterfly flew around me in a circle for at least 2 minutes it made my day, and how my “Badfinger” song always comes on when I’m thinking about you. I still have the last note you wrote to me it is falling apart, it meant a lot to me because it was from your heart. So my dear brother, as the “songs goes and the end of you note says”. No matter what I will always be with you and you with me, in my heart. So you keep sending me those signs and alway’s watch over all of us.

Love and Miss You Forever

Love Sis Nelline

P.S.
I hope you like the pictures I sent to you!

mandi trillizio

July 29, 2008

Dad I cant even write after looking at them pictures david left...i was crying like a baby. I just want to tell u that i love you so much and happy birthday. you know how bad i wish you were here. no need for words. your always with me forever livi too. she calls you "poppa" ha ha i love u dad and u were the best everyone loved you . see u again some day / your brown eyeeed girll... <3

David Miller

July 29, 2008

Uncle Joe,
As the Beatles song says
"Say It's your Birthday"
So Happy Birthday to You

Check out New Pictures in photo Album enjoy

Here's to you from all of us who love and miss you. Happy Birthday!

July 29, 2008

July 29, 2008

Happy Birthday Papa from your granddaughter Olivia

July 29, 2008

Amanda, Carly,and Jon

July 29, 2008

Best wishes to you from your nephews and favorite brother

July 29, 2008

Debbie with one of her favoriate uncles

July 29, 2008

Here is your number one girl, Mandi, and your Olivia

July 29, 2008

Uncle Joe With his little angel, Debbie, who got her angel name from Arnie Wrobel

July 29, 2008

Uncle Joe's last Birthday and his favorite godchild, Isabel. I will miss you

July 29, 2008

Mandi and proud father first Birthday

July 29, 2008

Mandi Calling Daddy to wish him Happy Birthday

July 29, 2008

Christmas at Nells house - Love my sister

July 29, 2008

Joe in contest in California many many years ago

July 29, 2008

Happy Birthday Miss you lots

July 29, 2008

Shelley Trillizio

July 29, 2008

Hi Joe, Happy Birthday! You are always on our minds and in our hearts, we will treasure our memories that you left us forever in our hearts. Please watch over all of us and keep us protected for you are now our guardian angel. Miss you so much, Love Shell and the Kids and your Olivia. XOXOXO

antoinette trillizio

July 18, 2008

hi, again i just wanted to say i love you!!!!!!!!!!.miss you all a lot, love sis ant

antionette trillizio

July 14, 2008

hi honey i know it's alittle early to say happy b'day but i am not sure if i will have an e-mail after this month so i will do it now and of course send up one of my balloon messages as i do for all of you when i get lonely. i wish you could be here now so i could take you and mary for a ride in my golf cart ha ha, i really do have one that i drive. !!!!!!!! you would love it .anyways just know that i think of you all constantly and your always in my prayers. love and miss you give my love to everyone. love sis ant.

ANTOINETTE TRILLIZIO

June 27, 2008

HI HONEY,
IT'S ME YOUR SIS ANTY IT HAS BEEN A LONG TIME I KNOW BUT IT IS SO HARD TO TRY TO PUT DOWN IN WRITING HOW MUCH WE ALL MISS ALL OF YOU AND ONCE AGAIN AS YOU KNOW WE LOST OUR COUSIN TONY A FEW DAYS AGO,I AM STILL IN SHOCK BUT THE THINGS THAT MAKE ME SMILE IS KNOWING YOU ARE ALL TOGETHER UP THERE AND KEEPING ALL OF YOUR LOVING FAMILY HAPPY,HEALTHY AND ALTHO I DON'T HEAR MUCH I TRY TO KEEP UP WITH THE NEWS BACK HOME AT TIMES,NINO AND SUE AND IZZY WERE HERE IN MAY FOR KIM'S WEDDING AND IT WAS GREAT TO BE HAPPY FOR A CHANGE ALTHO I WOULD HAVE PREFERRED YOU CHUCK AND MARY TO BE THERE PHYSICALLY I KNOW YOU WERE ALL WATCHING OVER ALL OF US HOW ABOUT OUR AMERICAN IDOL ISABEL?WHAT A JOB SHE DID SINGING AND YOU WOULD JUST LOVE MY LITTLE LALA MATHEW HE HAS CURLS LIKE YOU DID AND OF COURSE IS THE HIT OF THE FAMILY ANYWAYS I WAS JUST THINKING OF YOU AND MISSING YOU A LOT AS ALWAYS GOD BLESS YOU GIVE OUR CHUCKY AND MARY MY LOVE TOO .YOUR SISSY ANTOINETTE

Greg Mecozzi

June 26, 2008

Hey Joe, Been a while that I saw you last but not long that I thought of you. We grew up as children and played as adults but we shall be together again remembering all the good times we had together.

mandi

June 16, 2008

dad u have no idea how i re-live that day before u passed over and over again in my mind, no one will ever realize how much i miss u, N LOVED AND LOVE U. u were my world i did everything to make you proud and happy, when u left it took a big part of me, and now my little princess ur granddaughter who im sureeee u watch every day makes me the happiest i could ever be, all i want is to be as good as a parent to her as you were to me. u were irreplaceable. i love u with all my heart watch over all of us, please and keep us peaceful , safe and healthy. i love u --olivia sends her hugs n kisses too. she kisses ur pictures and says "gampa" often p.s happy fathers day - to one of a kind--dolores

Shelley Trillizio

June 15, 2008

Dear Joe, Happy Fathers Day. You are always on our minds and we miss you so much. Summers are so weird without you here, Jon is having a real hard time this week but he will get through it. Carly is a senior this year I can't believe it, makes me feel old. Olivia is so beautiful and two years old now, where does the time go? Mandi is such a good mom she goes to work everyday and takes care of Olivia. You would be proud of her. Jon is finally working and he seems to like it. I hope he sticks with this one. Well gotta go and do my chores just wanted you to know that we love very much and are always thinking of you and especially today. All our love Shell and the Kids. XOXOXO

CARRIE PAOLUCCI

March 17, 2008

dear uncle joe, hello- long time no write, but always in my heart. love ya and thinking of you, carrie lynn

Shelley Trillizio

December 31, 2007

Dear Joe, Just thought I would write to you and let you know how much you are loved and missed by all of us. Tomorrow is going to tough on us as always but I will try to make it the best for Jon and the girls. I am making him his birthday dinner and giving him money in his card. Please keep watching down on us as we need your guidance to help us all. The kids send all of their love and kisses along with mine. Love Shell and the kids.

Shelley Trillizio

December 24, 2007

Dear Joe, Merry Christmas, you are missed more than ever. We don't feel complete without you in our lives and we need your guidance with that, maybe that will be our Chirstmas gift from you. Things are a little tough but we will somehow manage. You are thought of each and every day by all of us. We love and miss you dearly. XOXOXO Love Shell and the KIds.

Shelley Trillizio

November 22, 2007

Dear Joe, It's been awhile since I talked to you I hope you are resting in peace, Just wanted you to know that you are thought of with love today and always from me and the kids. I don't think things will ever be ok without you in our lives but we are doing our best. I miss having you with us on these special holidays, you were always so helpful to me. Now I have to do everything alone and it's not easy but it just keeps making me a tougher person with each obstacle I encounter. Our love and kisses to you today, Happy Thanksgiving. Shelley and your kids.

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